In today's society, family disputes are no longer a strange thing, but no matter how bad the family conflicts are, you have to maintain your human nature, right? A recent incident has aroused the attention of all walks of life, a newborn mother after giving birth, her husband did not feel sorry for her, and even scolded her in the hospital for several hours.
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Shouldn't my wife be happy after giving birth? When my son is born, no one else would react like this man. Whether as a husband or as a father, you should not scold your wife at this time. And according to the video, it can be learned that this woman's baby has some inevitable circumstances, in order to keep herself and the child safe, she resolutely chose to have a caesarean section!
Then the nurse also heard the sound and persuaded the man to stop scolding, the same woman, the nurse knew that the woman who had just had a caesarean section was in great pain, not only physically painful, but also psychologically and psychologically by the man, which can be said to be both psychologically and physiologically injured! The nurse emphasized that her knife wound still hurts, and the man even threatened: "She hurts her and she dies." Is this a man a man who can say it? What is it that makes this man unable to control his emotions and scold his wife?
According to insiders, the reason why the man couldn't control his emotions turned out to be because of a trivial incident - the woman did not tell the doctor at the first time that she did not choose to breastfeed, and then urged the newborn to breastfeed, and then the woman had a fever because of the engorgement. It was already the middle of the night, and the doctor in charge had already left work, and the man could not find a doctor to deal with it, so he couldn't control his emotions and began to abuse the woman. Anyway, if he has a fever and is uncomfortable, it's his wife, and it's not him, what is he angry about, shouldn't he be a husband at this time and quickly find a way to deal with this matter? What's the use of scolding? Only incompetent people will scold and not solve the problem.
And the more the man scolded, regardless of the nurse's dissuasion, and regardless of whether others were resting or not, it was a stinking scolding. It must be known that it was already the middle of the night, and many patients had already rested, and more or less patients who had undergone surgery that day needed a quiet rest environment very much, and to take care of the patient's family, they could only rest while the patient was sleeping.
The woman was scolded by her husband because of the pain, and she also cried aggrievedly, but the man warned her, and even pointed his finger at her!
This incident caused a wave of craze on the Internet, and many netizens were upset for the mother. Netizens said that a man like this is unreliable after all, and his wife has just given birth to a son for himself, so he can scold his wife for a trivial matter, so what about in the future? If he encounters a trivial matter, he will not be furious, and he may not even rule out the possibility of taking action! Netizens have advised this woman to divorce as soon as possible after confinement and stay away from this man! With the existence of such a man, there will be so many postpartum depressed mothers!
Some male netizens said that this man's behavior is too disgusting, as a husband, you are scolding after your wife gives birth, it is simply inhumane! This kind of person is not worthy of having children, treating his wife like this, and treating his son in the future? Only an incompetent man will scold like this for hours, and he can't even control his emotions, I believe that he will not do anything in his career, and his children's education will also be based on scolding.
As a husband and a father, when his child is born, he should be happy about it, and he should also know that it is not easy for his wife to have a child, take care of his wife at the first time, even if there is any conflict or encounter something, he should also take charge of things by himself to ensure that it does not affect his wife's emotions and let his wife have a good rest.