In 2002, after watching the documentary "Hope in the Mountains", Sun Li decided to sponsor the poor student Xiang Haiqing for four years.
After discussing with her mother, Sun Li decided to subsidize Xiang Haiqing with 500 yuan every month until he graduated from college to help him change his unbearable fate.
But who would have thought that Xiang Haiqing, who was no longer funded, sent a 6,000-word long article "accusing" Sun Li and her mother, which instantly caused a huge controversy.
It wasn't until everyone finally understood that Sun Li had raised a "white-eyed wolf" and staged the real story of "The Farmer and the Snake".
Now, Xiang Haiqing, who once threatened to "ruin" Sun Li, how is he doing now, what happened back then?
Sun Li was able to come up with the idea of sponsoring the poor student Xiang Haiqing back then, which had a lot to do with her childhood experience.
In 1982, Sun Li was born in an ordinary family in Shanghai, and her parents were ordinary workers.
Sun Li has been very smart and clever since she was a child, she began to learn dance at the age of 5, and was sent to the Children's Palace by her parents to learn dance in the first grade.
At the age of 11, Sun Li visited the United Kingdom, the United States, Japan and other countries on behalf of the Shanghai Oriental Friends Art Troupe because of her good dancing.
At that time, Sun Li, who was very good at learning and dancing, also became the pride of her parents.
But Sun Li, who should have been full of happy childhood, came to an abrupt end at the age of 13.
That year, her parents divorced because of emotional conflicts, and Sun Li lived with her mother.
When they divorced, their mother only got 2,000 yuan, and the mother and daughter began to rely on each other and lived a difficult life.
At that time, her mother had no regular job, and the family lived in poverty, and Sun Li often ate the last meal without the next meal.
In addition, because they do not have a place to live, the mother and daughter often move around because they can't pay the rent, and their lives are exhausted.
Despite the difficult life, her mother never gave up cultivating Sun Li, and in order to make money, she had to work several jobs.
Sun Li is a sensible child, she is very distressed and understands her mother's difficulties, so she also secretly swore in her heart that she would be filial to her mother when she grew up.
Therefore, Sun Li has been studying hard in an extremely unbearable family environment and not letting her mother down.
All the efforts are worth it, Sun Li entered the Shanghai Garrison Art Troupe at the age of 15 and became a literary soldier.
She can endure hardships and be motivated, and soon stood out in the art troupe, participated in various competitions every year, won many awards, and was also awarded a third-class meritorious service.
In 2000, Sun Li also participated in the dance performance of "Deep Love and Rain" with her comrades-in-arms of the Art Troupe, in which she played a dancer.
After three years of training in the army's art troupe, Sun Li was discharged from the army in 2000 and entered Shanghai Yindu Art School to study.
After studying at Shanghai Yindu Art School for a year, Sun Li participated in a competition and won the second place.
Subsequently, Sun Li was signed by Hairun Company, founded by screenwriter Haiyan, and her life trajectory changed completely.
In 2003, Sun Li ushered in an important opportunity in her life.
She starred in the TV series "Jade Guanyin", and became an instant hit with the role of a female policeman, completely changing her fate.
That year, Sun Li was 21 years old and will become a household name "TV drama queen" in the future.
After entering the showbiz, Sun Li became a "desperate third mother", she wanted to change the poor family life and let her mother live a happy life.
When Sun Li was filming "Jade Guanyin" in 2002, she saw a documentary and decided to sponsor a poor child to change her life.
One day in 2002, Sun Li, who was filming "Jade Guanyin" in Kunming, accidentally saw the documentary "Hope in the Mountains" on TV.
This is a documentary about reporting on poor mountainous areas, and Sun Li is attracted to a child named Xiang Haiqing in the film.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing was a senior high school student at Chengxiang Middle School in Wuxi County, Chongqing.
His family was very poor, his parents were extremely ordinary farmers, and his living conditions were extremely difficult.
My brother has married and started a family, and my mother still suffers from asthma, and her health has been poor, and she doesn't even have money for medical treatment.
Although Xiang Haiqing's family is poor, he can bear hardships and stand hard work, and he has always insisted on studying, and his academic performance has always been good.
Looking at Xiang Haiqing, who is from a poor family but sensible and hard-working in the show, Sun Li instantly remembered herself who lived a hard life when she was young.
So, Sun Li, who empathized, directly sprouted kindness in her heart, and she decided to help poor Xiang Haiqing.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing's poor family was no longer enough to support him to continue studying and go to college, and Sun Li couldn't bear to watch him give up his studies because he had no money, delaying his future for a lifetime.
So, Sun Li discussed with her mother as soon as possible and decided to fund Xiang Haiqing to save his life.
After hearing this, her mother also supported Sun Li's idea very much, thinking that this was a good thing to accumulate virtue and do good, and the mother and daughter decided to sponsor Xiang Haiqing to finish college.
So, Sun Li asked her mother to call the program team and inform her that she wanted to fund Xiang Haiqing.
In May 2002, Sun Li wrote a letter to Xiang Haiqing in the name of her mother "Aunt Deng" and sent him 500 yuan.
When Xiang Haiqing saw the letter and the donation of 500 yuan for the first time, his heart was full of emotion, and his tears couldn't stop flowing.
He recalled: "The moment I took the 500 yuan donation sent to me by Aunt Deng from the teacher, my hands were trembling, hot tears came out of my eyes, my eyes were moist and blurred, and I only vaguely saw the money in my hand beating up and down, and my whole body was numb, I was really moved!
In addition to sending 500 yuan, Sun Li and his mother also bought him clothes, daily necessities and study materials, and instructed Xiang Haiqing to study hard in the letter.
After that, Xiang Haiqing also replied to "Aunt Deng" as soon as possible, expressing his gratitude.
He said with emotion: "It is not only a donation of 500 yuan, but also the true feelings of the world and great support for a poor child!"
At that time, Xiang Haiqing didn't know that the person who kindly funded him was Sun Li, so all this was as calm as water.
At that time, Sun Li had not yet become famous, and she was only a newcomer in the entertainment industry, and her life with her mother had not become particularly wealthy.
Sun Li promised to subsidize Haiqing with 500 yuan per month in the name of her mother "Aunt Deng" until he graduated from university.
In 2003, Sun Li became famous with the TV series "Jade Guanyin", and her career began to counterattack all the way and became a big star.
In their spare time, Sun Li and her mother would call Xiang Haiqing to ask him about his life and study, and encourage him to study hard.
Sun Li's mother also told Xiang Haiqing on the phone: "You must study hard, my sister and I are willing to bear the expenses until we graduate from college, you can rest assured." ”
At this time, Xiang Haiqing was full of hope for the future, and he began to study harder.
In the blink of an eye, in the third year of high school, Xiang Haiqing's study pressure has become greater, and Sun Li and his mother still write letters and call to encourage him.
Sun Li's mother learned that Xiang Haiqing's mother suffered from asthma, and specially bought medicine from Shanghai and sent it to him regularly, so that he could study with peace of mind and not think nonsense.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing was in the sprint stage of the college entrance examination, and he didn't know which university to go to.
Because Sun Lihe and his mother lived in Shanghai, they suggested that he take the university entrance examination in Shanghai and stay in the big city in the future.
During high school, Sun Li and her mother not only gave Xiang Haiqing material support, but also gave him a lot of spiritual comfort.
However, it backfired, and in the first college entrance examination, Xiang Haiqing regretfully failed to be admitted to a university in Shanghai, and he felt a little disappointed.
But Xiang Haiqing didn't give up, he decided to repeat his studies for another year and be admitted to university.
Sun Li and her mother also agreed to repeat Xiang Haiqing's studies, and still patiently encouraged and comforted him, saying: "If you want to take the exam again, work hard, don't worry about money, I am willing to support you." ”
In order to support Xiang Haiqing to take the university entrance examination again, Sun Li and his mother bought him a lot of tutoring materials to help him improve his grades.
After a year of hard work, Xiang Haiqing was finally admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University.
And Sun Li's mother suggested that he apply for this university, so that they can see each other often in Shanghai.
After being admitted to the university, Xiang Haiqing told Sun Li's mother and daughter the good news as soon as possible, and the three of them were extremely happy.
On the day of the start of school, Sun Li and her mother went to the station early to greet Xiang Haiqing, and they finally got their wish to meet.
When Xiang Haiqing saw that his sister who funded him was Sun Li, the whole person was surprised, he couldn't believe that it was a big star who had been funding him.
After meeting, Xiang Haiqing kept saying words of thanks to Sun Li's mother and daughter, and he was very emotional.
And this meeting also completely changed Xiang Haiqing's heart, he is no longer as sensible and contented as before.
After arriving at the school, Sun Li's mother helped Xiang Haiqing pay the tuition, bought him daily necessities, and settled him before leaving.
Before parting, Sun Li's mother also said to Xiang Haiqing: "I will send you money every month, don't worry about money, call me and my sister if you are short of money." ”
At that moment, Xiang Haiqing nodded sensibly and obediently.
But after arriving at the university, Xiang Haiqing's whole person has completely changed, and crises and contradictions have gradually been revealed.
At first, Sun Li has always been as promised, sending 500 yuan to Xiang Haiqing every month, and often calling him to ask for warmth.
But later, Xiang Haiqing spent a lot of money, feeling that the 500 yuan subsidy was not enough to spend, so he kept asking Sun Li's mother and daughter for money.
At that time, Sun Li's mother didn't understand why Xiang Haiqing had not enough money, and she didn't know where he spent the money, so she asked why.
It turned out that when I first went to college, the subsidy of 500 yuan was enough for Xiang Haiqing's daily expenses.
But later, Xiang Haiqing became a class cadre because of his good academic performance, and he also entered the student union, and the expenses became bigger and bigger.
Xiang Haiqing explained to Sun Li's mother that he had entered the student union and needed to call his classmates frequently to deal with things, and he had to pay a lot of money every month.
In addition, you need to pay money for miscellaneous things, so the money for funding is not enough at all.
Sun Li's mother told him on the phone that you can quit the school, and you can not spend the money you shouldn't spend, after all, you are a poor student.
Xiang Haiqing verbally promised to quit the student union, but in fact he never really left.
At that time, every time Xiang Haiqing remembered Sun Li saying to him, "You can find her at any time if you have no money", he began to become unscrupulous and unrestrained in demanding.
After that, Xiang Haiqing called Sun Li's mother more and more times, and there was only one purpose for each call, that is, to ask for money.
After a long time, Sun Li's mother felt that something was getting more and more wrong, so she went directly to the school to find the teacher to verify the situation.
After inquiry, it turned out that Xiang Hai cleared the 500 yuan that could be funded by Sun Li every month, and he also applied for a poverty grant of 6,000 yuan per year, and because he was a teacher's assistant, he could also get a salary of 300 yuan per month.
The sum of this money is enough for Xiang Haiqing, who is still in college, to spend, where will there be a shortage of money every day.
Later, after Xiang Haiqing's classmates, he said that he lived in school not at all the life of an ordinary student, spending money lavishly.
He had a girlfriend at school, and he often spent money on dates, and he would buy all kinds of brand-name clothes and shoes, and he didn't know how to save money at all.
After Sun Li and her mother knew about these things, they directly chose not to continue to fund Xiang Haiqing in a fit of anger, because they felt too disappointed.
At this time, Xiang Haiqing also explained to Sun Li's mother, saying that a lot of his money was given to his mother for treatment.
But no matter how you explain it, Xiang Haiqing can't redeem the trust of Sun Li and her mother.
Later, Qiu Chaoju, a reporter who filmed the documentary "Hope in the Mountains", found Xiang Haiqing and wanted to record the follow-up of Sun Li's donation to him, but he was greatly surprised.
Xiang Haiqing told reporter Qiu Chaoju that Sun Li had stopped funding herself since November 2005, and she felt particularly helpless and aggrieved.
The so-called "funding you is love, not duty." ”
Obviously, Xiang Haiqing didn't understand the reason, and made a big surprise and unkind move.
Subsequently, he wrote a 6,000-word article and handed it to reporter Qiu Chaoju to expose the so-called truth of the matter.
Xiang Haiqing's article mainly tells the ins and outs of Sun Li's funding, and explains why Sun Li no longer donates from his own position.
Subsequently, reporter Qiu Chaoju posted the article on the Internet, and instantly sparked controversy among countless people, directly turning into the "Sun Li donation" incident.
In the article, Xiang Haiqing kept telling about his family's poverty and various grievances, and "accused" and "ridiculed" Sun Li's mother and daughter as "chickens" and bullied him.
He said: "And the bottom line of my acceptance of everything is that personality and dignity will not be damaged!
In the article, he said that he is a college student, of course, he must have face and dignity, and his clothes and shoes must also wear famous brands, otherwise he will be despised by others.
Even when he spent 800 yuan to buy two pairs of pants, he said that he was already very frugal.
Xiang Haiqing also said that Sun Li is a big star, she makes so much money, and she should give me some money to spend.
He said: "That rich person is really rich, and I think the money comes quickly in their profession, and it really can't be justified if I don't give me some money." I think it's useless for them to have a lot of money, they really should give me some flowers. ”
He also accused Sun Li and said: "She gave me money just to make a good name for herself, not really to help me at all!"
At one point, he even threatened to "ruin Sun Li", which can be said to be extremely irrational and began to "beat a rake".
For a time, Sun Li, as a public figure, was also pushed to the forefront, and her career and reputation suffered a huge impact, which can be described as suffering.
Later, some classmates stood up and accused Xiang Haiqing of spending money very extravagantly at school, and even often showed off to his classmates that Sun Li funded him.
In this way, things began to reverse, and everyone began to accuse Xiang Haiqing of being ungrateful, staged a realistic version of the story of "The Farmer and the Snake", and became a "white-eyed wolf" who didn't know how to be grateful at all.
Even Han Han angrily posted: "Ordinary people are not even allowed to raise a large dog in the city, why can Sun Li raise a "wolf" in Shanghai?
At that time, the whole thing has been hotly discussed and concerned by the public, and Sun Li also felt helpless and heartache, she and her mother had insomnia all night, sad that she and her mother were slandered.
Despite this, Sun Li remained kind, and she said in front of the media: "He is still a student, don't hurt him because of this incident." ”
After learning the truth of the matter, reporter Qiu Chaoju directly wrote an article titled "Why do the seeds of kindness bear the fruits of mutation?", which restored the truth for the public and returned Sun Li's innocence.
In the days that followed, Xiang Haiqing also began to pay a great price, he began to be unpopular with his classmates at school, and finally chose to take a year off because of various public opinion pressures.
In 2009, after graduating from Xiang Haiqing University, he thought that this matter would become a thing of the past, but he didn't expect that the backlash would continue.
After graduation, when he was looking for a job, because of the "stain" he had, many companies directly rejected him from the door, and he did not dare and did not want to use him.
Therefore, on the way to find a job, Xiang Haiqing has repeatedly hit a wall and is very unpopular, and he has always been labeled as a "white-eyed wolf".
Nowadays, Xiang Haiqing's life is not satisfactory, and he can only be an ordinary employee in a small company, and his life is ordinary and hard.
Although 19 years have passed since this incident, we always get inspiration and caution from it every time we think about it.
It warns us not to be a person who "has a weak heart, a snake swallowing an elephant", otherwise we will definitely reap the consequences.
In 2002, after watching the documentary "Hope in the Mountains", Sun Li decided to sponsor the poor student Xiang Haiqing for four years.
After discussing with her mother, Sun Li decided to subsidize Xiang Haiqing with 500 yuan every month until he graduated from college to help him change his unbearable fate.
But who would have thought that Xiang Haiqing, who was no longer funded, sent a 6,000-word long article "accusing" Sun Li and her mother, which instantly caused a huge controversy.
It wasn't until everyone finally understood that Sun Li had raised a "white-eyed wolf" and staged the real story of "The Farmer and the Snake".
Now, Xiang Haiqing, who once threatened to "ruin" Sun Li, how is he doing now, what happened back then?
Sun Li was able to come up with the idea of sponsoring the poor student Xiang Haiqing back then, which had a lot to do with her childhood experience.
In 1982, Sun Li was born in an ordinary family in Shanghai, and her parents were ordinary workers.
Sun Li has been very smart and clever since she was a child, she began to learn dance at the age of 5, and was sent to the Children's Palace by her parents to learn dance in the first grade.
At the age of 11, Sun Li visited the United Kingdom, the United States, Japan and other countries on behalf of the Shanghai Oriental Friends Art Troupe because of her good dancing.
At that time, Sun Li, who was very good at learning and dancing, also became the pride of her parents.
But Sun Li, who should have been full of happy childhood, came to an abrupt end at the age of 13.
That year, her parents divorced because of emotional conflicts, and Sun Li lived with her mother.
When they divorced, their mother only got 2,000 yuan, and the mother and daughter began to rely on each other and lived a difficult life.
At that time, her mother had no regular job, and the family lived in poverty, and Sun Li often ate the last meal without the next meal.
In addition, because they do not have a place to live, the mother and daughter often move around because they can't pay the rent, and their lives are exhausted.
Despite the difficult life, her mother never gave up cultivating Sun Li, and in order to make money, she had to work several jobs.
Sun Li is a sensible child, she is very distressed and understands her mother's difficulties, so she also secretly swore in her heart that she would be filial to her mother when she grew up.
Therefore, Sun Li has been studying hard in an extremely unbearable family environment and not letting her mother down.
All the efforts are worth it, Sun Li entered the Shanghai Garrison Art Troupe at the age of 15 and became a literary soldier.
She can endure hardships and be motivated, and soon stood out in the art troupe, participated in various competitions every year, won many awards, and was also awarded a third-class meritorious service.
In 2000, Sun Li also participated in the dance performance of "Deep Love and Rain" with her comrades-in-arms of the Art Troupe, in which she played a dancer.
After three years of training in the army's art troupe, Sun Li was discharged from the army in 2000 and entered Shanghai Yindu Art School to study.
After studying at Shanghai Yindu Art School for a year, Sun Li participated in a competition and won the second place.
Subsequently, Sun Li was signed by Hairun Company, founded by screenwriter Haiyan, and her life trajectory changed completely.
In 2003, Sun Li ushered in an important opportunity in her life.
She starred in the TV series "Jade Guanyin", and became an instant hit with the role of a female policeman, completely changing her fate.
That year, Sun Li was 21 years old and will become a household name "TV drama queen" in the future.
After entering the showbiz, Sun Li became a "desperate third mother", she wanted to change the poor family life and let her mother live a happy life.
When Sun Li was filming "Jade Guanyin" in 2002, she saw a documentary and decided to sponsor a poor child to change her life.
One day in 2002, Sun Li, who was filming "Jade Guanyin" in Kunming, accidentally saw the documentary "Hope in the Mountains" on TV.
This is a documentary about reporting on poor mountainous areas, and Sun Li is attracted to a child named Xiang Haiqing in the film.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing was a senior high school student at Chengxiang Middle School in Wuxi County, Chongqing.
His family was very poor, his parents were extremely ordinary farmers, and his living conditions were extremely difficult.
My brother has married and started a family, and my mother still suffers from asthma, and her health has been poor, and she doesn't even have money for medical treatment.
Although Xiang Haiqing's family is poor, he can bear hardships and stand hard work, and he has always insisted on studying, and his academic performance has always been good.
Looking at Xiang Haiqing, who is from a poor family but sensible and hard-working in the show, Sun Li instantly remembered herself who lived a hard life when she was young.
So, Sun Li, who empathized, directly sprouted kindness in her heart, and she decided to help poor Xiang Haiqing.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing's poor family was no longer enough to support him to continue studying and go to college, and Sun Li couldn't bear to watch him give up his studies because he had no money, delaying his future for a lifetime.
So, Sun Li discussed with her mother as soon as possible and decided to fund Xiang Haiqing to save his life.
After hearing this, her mother also supported Sun Li's idea very much, thinking that this was a good thing to accumulate virtue and do good, and the mother and daughter decided to sponsor Xiang Haiqing to finish college.
So, Sun Li asked her mother to call the program team and inform her that she wanted to fund Xiang Haiqing.
In May 2002, Sun Li wrote a letter to Xiang Haiqing in the name of her mother "Aunt Deng" and sent him 500 yuan.
When Xiang Haiqing saw the letter and the donation of 500 yuan for the first time, his heart was full of emotion, and his tears couldn't stop flowing.
He recalled: "The moment I took the 500 yuan donation sent to me by Aunt Deng from the teacher, my hands were trembling, hot tears came out of my eyes, my eyes were moist and blurred, and I only vaguely saw the money in my hand beating up and down, and my whole body was numb, I was really moved!
In addition to sending 500 yuan, Sun Li and his mother also bought him clothes, daily necessities and study materials, and instructed Xiang Haiqing to study hard in the letter.
After that, Xiang Haiqing also replied to "Aunt Deng" as soon as possible, expressing his gratitude.
He said with emotion: "It is not only a donation of 500 yuan, but also the true feelings of the world and great support for a poor child!"
At that time, Xiang Haiqing didn't know that the person who kindly funded him was Sun Li, so all this was as calm as water.
At that time, Sun Li had not yet become famous, and she was only a newcomer in the entertainment industry, and her life with her mother had not become particularly wealthy.
Sun Li promised to subsidize Haiqing with 500 yuan per month in the name of her mother "Aunt Deng" until he graduated from university.
In 2003, Sun Li became famous with the TV series "Jade Guanyin", and her career began to counterattack all the way and became a big star.
In their spare time, Sun Li and her mother would call Xiang Haiqing to ask him about his life and study, and encourage him to study hard.
Sun Li's mother also told Xiang Haiqing on the phone: "You must study hard, my sister and I are willing to bear the expenses until we graduate from college, you can rest assured." ”
At this time, Xiang Haiqing was full of hope for the future, and he began to study harder.
In the blink of an eye, in the third year of high school, Xiang Haiqing's study pressure has become greater, and Sun Li and his mother still write letters and call to encourage him.
Sun Li's mother learned that Xiang Haiqing's mother suffered from asthma, and specially bought medicine from Shanghai and sent it to him regularly, so that he could study with peace of mind and not think nonsense.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing was in the sprint stage of the college entrance examination, and he didn't know which university to go to.
Because Sun Lihe and his mother lived in Shanghai, they suggested that he take the university entrance examination in Shanghai and stay in the big city in the future.
During high school, Sun Li and her mother not only gave Xiang Haiqing material support, but also gave him a lot of spiritual comfort.
However, it backfired, and in the first college entrance examination, Xiang Haiqing regretfully failed to be admitted to a university in Shanghai, and he felt a little disappointed.
But Xiang Haiqing didn't give up, he decided to repeat his studies for another year and be admitted to university.
Sun Li and her mother also agreed to repeat Xiang Haiqing's studies, and still patiently encouraged and comforted him, saying: "If you want to take the exam again, work hard, don't worry about money, I am willing to support you." ”
In order to support Xiang Haiqing to take the university entrance examination again, Sun Li and his mother bought him a lot of tutoring materials to help him improve his grades.
After a year of hard work, Xiang Haiqing was finally admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University.
And Sun Li's mother suggested that he apply for this university, so that they can see each other often in Shanghai.
After being admitted to the university, Xiang Haiqing told Sun Li's mother and daughter the good news as soon as possible, and the three of them were extremely happy.
On the day of the start of school, Sun Li and her mother went to the station early to greet Xiang Haiqing, and they finally got their wish to meet.
When Xiang Haiqing saw that his sister who funded him was Sun Li, the whole person was surprised, he couldn't believe that it was a big star who had been funding him.
After meeting, Xiang Haiqing kept saying words of thanks to Sun Li's mother and daughter, and he was very emotional.
And this meeting also completely changed Xiang Haiqing's heart, he is no longer as sensible and contented as before.
After arriving at the school, Sun Li's mother helped Xiang Haiqing pay the tuition, bought him daily necessities, and settled him before leaving.
Before parting, Sun Li's mother also said to Xiang Haiqing: "I will send you money every month, don't worry about money, call me and my sister if you are short of money." ”
At that moment, Xiang Haiqing nodded sensibly and obediently.
But after arriving at the university, Xiang Haiqing's whole person has completely changed, and crises and contradictions have gradually been revealed.
At first, Sun Li has always been as promised, sending 500 yuan to Xiang Haiqing every month, and often calling him to ask for warmth.
But later, Xiang Haiqing spent a lot of money, feeling that the 500 yuan subsidy was not enough to spend, so he kept asking Sun Li's mother and daughter for money.
At that time, Sun Li's mother didn't understand why Xiang Haiqing had not enough money, and she didn't know where he spent the money, so she asked why.
It turned out that when I first went to college, the subsidy of 500 yuan was enough for Xiang Haiqing's daily expenses.
But later, Xiang Haiqing became a class cadre because of his good academic performance, and he also entered the student union, and the expenses became bigger and bigger.
Xiang Haiqing explained to Sun Li's mother that he had entered the student union and needed to call his classmates frequently to deal with things, and he had to pay a lot of money every month.
In addition, you need to pay money for miscellaneous things, so the money for funding is not enough at all.
Sun Li's mother told him on the phone that you can quit the school, and you can not spend the money you shouldn't spend, after all, you are a poor student.
Xiang Haiqing verbally promised to quit the student union, but in fact he never really left.
At that time, every time Xiang Haiqing remembered Sun Li saying to him, "You can find her at any time if you have no money", he began to become unscrupulous and unrestrained in demanding.
After that, Xiang Haiqing called Sun Li's mother more and more times, and there was only one purpose for each call, that is, to ask for money.
After a long time, Sun Li's mother felt that something was getting more and more wrong, so she went directly to the school to find the teacher to verify the situation.
After inquiry, it turned out that Xiang Hai cleared the 500 yuan that could be funded by Sun Li every month, and he also applied for a poverty grant of 6,000 yuan per year, and because he was a teacher's assistant, he could also get a salary of 300 yuan per month.
The sum of this money is enough for Xiang Haiqing, who is still in college, to spend, where will there be a shortage of money every day.
Later, after Xiang Haiqing's classmates, he said that he lived in school not at all the life of an ordinary student, spending money lavishly.
He had a girlfriend at school, and he often spent money on dates, and he would buy all kinds of brand-name clothes and shoes, and he didn't know how to save money at all.
After Sun Li and her mother knew about these things, they directly chose not to continue to fund Xiang Haiqing in a fit of anger, because they felt too disappointed.
At this time, Xiang Haiqing also explained to Sun Li's mother, saying that a lot of his money was given to his mother for treatment.
But no matter how you explain it, Xiang Haiqing can't redeem the trust of Sun Li and her mother.
Later, Qiu Chaoju, a reporter who filmed the documentary "Hope in the Mountains", found Xiang Haiqing and wanted to record the follow-up of Sun Li's donation to him, but he was greatly surprised.
Xiang Haiqing told reporter Qiu Chaoju that Sun Li had stopped funding herself since November 2005, and she felt particularly helpless and aggrieved.
The so-called "funding you is love, not duty." ”
Obviously, Xiang Haiqing didn't understand the reason, and made a big surprise and unkind move.
Subsequently, he wrote a 6,000-word article and handed it to reporter Qiu Chaoju to expose the so-called truth of the matter.
Xiang Haiqing's article mainly tells the ins and outs of Sun Li's funding, and explains why Sun Li no longer donates from his own position.
Subsequently, reporter Qiu Chaoju posted the article on the Internet, and instantly sparked controversy among countless people, directly turning into the "Sun Li donation" incident.
In the article, Xiang Haiqing kept telling about his family's poverty and various grievances, and "accused" and "ridiculed" Sun Li's mother and daughter as "chickens" and bullied him.
He said: "And the bottom line of my acceptance of everything is that personality and dignity will not be damaged!
In the article, he said that he is a college student, of course, he must have face and dignity, and his clothes and shoes must also wear famous brands, otherwise he will be despised by others.
Even when he spent 800 yuan to buy two pairs of pants, he said that he was already very frugal.
Xiang Haiqing also said that Sun Li is a big star, she makes so much money, and she should give me some money to spend.
He said: "That rich person is really rich, and I think the money comes quickly in their profession, and it really can't be justified if I don't give me some money." I think it's useless for them to have a lot of money, they really should give me some flowers. ”
He also accused Sun Li and said: "She gave me money just to make a good name for herself, not really to help me at all!"
At one point, he even threatened to "ruin Sun Li", which can be said to be extremely irrational and began to "beat a rake".
For a time, Sun Li, as a public figure, was also pushed to the forefront, and her career and reputation suffered a huge impact, which can be described as suffering.
Later, some classmates stood up and accused Xiang Haiqing of spending money very extravagantly at school, and even often showed off to his classmates that Sun Li funded him.
In this way, things began to reverse, and everyone began to accuse Xiang Haiqing of being ungrateful, staged a realistic version of the story of "The Farmer and the Snake", and became a "white-eyed wolf" who didn't know how to be grateful at all.
Even Han Han angrily posted: "Ordinary people are not even allowed to raise a large dog in the city, why can Sun Li raise a "wolf" in Shanghai?
At that time, the whole thing has been hotly discussed and concerned by the public, and Sun Li also felt helpless and heartache, she and her mother had insomnia all night, sad that she and her mother were slandered.
Despite this, Sun Li remained kind, and she said in front of the media: "He is still a student, don't hurt him because of this incident." ”
After learning the truth of the matter, reporter Qiu Chaoju directly wrote an article titled "Why do the seeds of kindness bear the fruits of mutation?", which restored the truth for the public and returned Sun Li's innocence.
In the days that followed, Xiang Haiqing also began to pay a great price, he began to be unpopular with his classmates at school, and finally chose to take a year off because of various public opinion pressures.
In 2009, after graduating from Xiang Haiqing University, he thought that this matter would become a thing of the past, but he didn't expect that the backlash would continue.
After graduation, when he was looking for a job, because of the "stain" he had, many companies directly rejected him from the door, and he did not dare and did not want to use him.
Therefore, on the way to find a job, Xiang Haiqing has repeatedly hit a wall and is very unpopular, and he has always been labeled as a "white-eyed wolf".
Nowadays, Xiang Haiqing's life is not satisfactory, and he can only be an ordinary employee in a small company, and his life is ordinary and hard.
Although 19 years have passed since this incident, we always get inspiration and caution from it every time we think about it.
It warns us not to be a person who "has a weak heart, a snake swallowing an elephant", otherwise we will definitely reap the consequences.