More than ten years have passed since the last marriage, and the 64-year-old Wang Li (pseudonym) has re-entered the marriage hall and married a young man Zhao Jun (pseudonym), who is more than 20 years younger than herself. They live a newlywed life, come and listen to this aunt tell her true feelings.
My husband is the "face responsibility" I should have
In the late autumn when I was about to enter my life, I met Zhao Jun. At that time, I didn't think about entering the palace of marriage again, because I had already had a failed marriage experience, and I had already mastered a certain touch line for love. However, his youth and sunshine gradually attracted me, coupled with his empathetic personality, I can't help but be moved.
When I first met Zhao Jun, his bright smile and healthy temperament made my heart beat faster. He is the "face responsible" I should have, and I am a little proud in my heart. Traditionally, women are more interested in each other's looks than men, and when I met a handsome and young husband, it really made my heart throb like a girl.
Life after marriage is enjoyable
Stepping into his married life, Zhao Jun showed his intimate side as a husband. Not only does he habitually pay attention to my eating health, but he also reminds me to keep a positive attitude. Every morning when he wakes up, he cooks a bowl of hot egg soup to fuel me. He always held my hand during evening walks, and as we walked down the streets, I felt like I had changed back to the girl I had been when I was younger.
Marriage made me experience the beauty of life again, and I was woken up by Zhao Jun's gentle kiss every morning, and his concerned greetings and care made me feel extremely happy. We played poker and chess together, joked with each other, and shared laughter and tears. I gradually discovered that being with someone younger than myself is not only a complement of personality, but also a collision of life.
Communication is the most important force in marriage
Age differences mean that we have different life experiences and values. Sometimes, I will have disagreements with Zhao Jun because of my thinking habits, but we never quarrel because communication is the most important force in marriage.
Whenever we got into an argument, we would sit down and chat quietly. He would explain his thoughts and positions to me, and I would express my opinions. In this way, we are able to understand each other, and we know how to be tolerant and respectful. This made me realize that age is not the only measure of love, as long as we are willing to listen, understand and communicate with each other, our love will grow deeper and deeper.
The determination to chase your dreams has never gone away
Although my life has entered the late autumn, I have not lost my determination to chase my dreams. With Zhao Jun, he always encouraged me to pursue my ideals bravely and fully supported me. He helps me with the menial chores and gives me more time to devote to the cause I love.
He always told me, "You are the best, and whatever you want to do, I will be behind you silently." "This tacit understanding and encouragement made me feel unprecedented strength. With his company, I believe that I can still chase my dreams and draw the most beautiful stroke of my life.
The days after marriage were happy and fulfilling for me at the age of 64. Together with Zhao Jun, who is younger than myself, I regained the vitality and love of my youth. We overcame age differences and built an emotional bridge that spanned two generations through communication and understanding. In this marriage, I learned to be more tolerant and tolerant, and I also learned to be brave enough to chase my dreams. I believe that no matter what age we are, as long as we are willing to be honest with each other, we can create beautiful stories in each other's lives.