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For a lifetime, it is very important to keep your mouth shut.
Don't say what you shouldn't say, stop at the critical moment, reflect our emotional intelligence and wisdom, and also avoid the embarrassment of the disaster.
Really smart people can control their mouths and their lives, and no matter who they associate with, they will try to talk about these four things as little as possible, otherwise they will be really stupid.
01: Don't talk about how much you've made lately
There are always some people around us who are complacent when they make money, and they want to spread the word, which is actually the most stupid behavior.
Because people do not suffer from widowhood but suffer from inequality, not many people can calmly face the fact that others make a lot of money, and relatives are no exception.
Relatives want each other to live well, but they don't want each other to live better than themselves, this is the normal state of life.
If you don't believe it, ask yourself, if your siblings make more money than you, can you take it as a level?
I believe that most people can't, so don't expect others to be able to bless you sincerely, rather than telling the truth, it is better to keep your mouth shut.
Mo Yan once said: Money is like underwear, you can have it, but you don't need others to prove that you have it.
The more you talk, the more you will attract the covetousness of others, and the one who keeps his mouth shut is the wiser.
When it comes to money, just make money, don't talk about how much money you have, and one day you will benefit from it.
02: History of Shaolian Emotions
On a social platform, a netizen posted her relationship history on the Internet, but she didn't expect someone to find her ex-boyfriend. When the other party disclosed this information, netizens were extremely shocked, and then deleted this news, but it was too late, and some people took this information to threaten him, and then he knew that people were sinister.
Modern social networks are extensive, but at the same time, they also indicate that there are countless pairs of eyes watching your dynamics.
No matter what kind of news you post, you should be cautious, especially if you send something as obscure as feelings, it may cause your own unpleasantness, so it's best not to send it.
If you want to find comfort from the Internet, it is even more important to persuade yourself to give up, because through the screen, you don't know whether the other party is a human or a ghost, don't pour your hope into these illusory relationships, people must learn to be strong and face everything independently.
You should let go of your past feelings and live a good life from now on, so that you can live happily.
03: Talk less about future planning
The ancients said: Self-cultivation is based on a pure heart, and prudence is the first thing to be involved in the world.
The same is true in the workplace, if you have a clear goal, don't just say it to people, because others may plagiarize your ideas and they will probably judge you.
Don't disclose anything before you have done it, otherwise you will be in trouble for the future.
It is the best policy to study hard in the job and work hard to achieve results, and I believe that the leader will prefer you to work hard instead of the state of you talking about it everywhere.
04: Talk less about other people's privacy
When there is no topic to talk about among friends, many people will doxx other people's privacy to get happy.
But as the saying goes: there is no impermeable wall in the world.
If you easily disclose other people's privacy, it will inevitably drift into the ears of others in the future, and plant the root of the relationship.
Even if others don't know about it, it's wrong, because you're not respecting others, you're showing your own despicable behavior.
I believe that the person you talk to will not be happy to hear such a topic, if he has to listen to such a topic, it means that he is not worthy of deep friendship, and you are advised to be cautious.
When interacting with others, you should talk less about your own privacy, let alone the privacy of others.
Never underestimate the power of people, a thing will be passed on ten, ten times for hundreds, and in the end it will become unrecognizable, and the outcome is far from being controllable.
Keeping silent is wisdom, leaving a respect for others, and a way out for yourself in the future.
When interacting with people, you must not be open-mouthed, at least the above four things must not be said.
Opening your mouth is not wisdom, knowing how to keep your mouth shut is the skill, and one day when you can control your mouth, you will also control yourself, so as to get a bright future.
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