I've seen a sentence like this:
When two people are together, it is not that they can love each other forever, but that they can fall in love with the same person again and again after experiencing the frictions of life.
Love is the process of loving the same person repeatedly.
If you want a man to have you in his heart all the time, he can't do without you, and a smart woman will do this.
1. Know his "seven inches" and take it repeatedly
Recently, in the second brush "Beauty Scheming".
In the play, the crown princess Bo Qiaohui and the woman the prince likes, Li Miaoren, are trying their best to please the prince in order to compete for favor.
What Bo Qiaohui chose was to show the role of a good wife and mother in front of the prince, personally sweeping the fallen leaves with a broom, and cooking for the prince herself, so that the prince could see that she was virtuous and virtuous.
didn't expect the prince to be cold at all, he didn't care about Bo Qiaohui's flattery, but listened to the pillow wind blowing by Li Miaoren even more, disgusted the princess for lowering her figure, and being ashamed to do what the next person did.
Until Bo Qiaohui blackened, the design made the prince see his weakness, and finally moved the other party, but he didn't expect that the beautiful scenery that belonged to the two people, Li Miaoren came to a job of crying, making trouble and hanging himself, and successfully stirred up the good things of the two people.
The rank of the two women to please the man, although Bo Qiaohui's way is more in line with the traditional values of women pleasing men, but Li Miaoren's way is to grasp the prince's "seven inches".
She knew that her crying and showing weakness could be exchanged for the prince's love and satisfy the other party's desire for achievement.
Telling such an example is not to let women use the form of crying, making trouble and hanging themselves to save each other's hearts when managing relationships, but to accurately figure out what men care about and put their strength in the most appropriate place.
Second, it can return the past to zero and not turn over old accounts
My girlfriend shared one such thing with me.
My best friend and boyfriend have been in love for half a year, and I feel that the time is almost there, and I want to get married, so I follow each other home to meet my parents.
My best friend thought that according to her boyfriend's age, he should have been in love before, but who hasn't lived his youth, so his girlfriend never cares seriously.
But when my best friend went to her boyfriend's house, on the old computer in her boyfriend's bedroom, my best friend turned on the computer and wanted to play a few games, but found a hidden folder.
Out of curiosity, my best friend opened the folder and looked at it, her face instantly became a little unbearable, and her heart was very sour.
It turned out that the folder contained all the intimate photos and videos of her boyfriend and one of his favorite ex-girlfriends, many of which she had never experienced with her boyfriend.
A lot of emotional chicken soup quotations flashed in the minds of my best friends, and it hurt a little to think that all the love I am enjoying now from the other party may have been trained by this girl in the document.
But my best friend chose to close the computer quietly and pretend that nothing had happened, because, no matter what, it was a person's past.
Not turning over old accounts is the literacy of adult communication, and it is also the preservative of ideal love.
No relationship should be taken for granted.
Good love does not happen naturally, but it requires a little external force to be managed well.
If you want to have love, put in the effort.
All your hard work will eventually see the rewards.