There may be a dark side to everyone's life, but that doesn't mean we can shirk our responsibilities.
The matter dates back to 2015, when Kan Qingzi made her relationship with Ji Lingchen public on social media, everything seemed to be good. Although the two are 5 years apart, they are an impeccable pair in the eyes of the outside world. Soon, Ji Lingchen became the focus of media and public attention, and Kan Qingzi also gained more exposure as a result.
However, just when people see them as models of love, cracks begin to show. In a reality show, they quarrel frequently, and small things often turn into big disasters. Kan Qingzi's tears were enough to drown the entire studio, and Ji Lingchen laughed dryly at it. What's even more puzzling is that when asked to propose to Kan Qingzi, he is always perfunctory.
The news of the breakup came like a bolt from the blue, shocking everyone. Kan Qingzi fell into a long haze, while Ji Lingchen quickly invested in a new relationship. This has undoubtedly intensified the public's accusations and abuse against him. People questioned whether he had ever truly loved Kan Qingzi, or if it was all just a superficial fame and fortune.
It is undeniable that the fates of the two have clearly diverged after the breakup. Kan Qingzi is gradually getting better in her career, and has won many awards and good reputation for her outstanding acting skills. What's even more enviable is that in 2023, she met a new love who knew how to be unique and romantic, and obtained his grand marriage proposal ceremony.
In contrast, Ji Lingchen's acting career has not improved. Despite being involved in several TV series, it has had little influence. In a recent reality show, his performance caused a lot of complaints and criticism. This may have something to do with his lack of professional training, but more people believe that it is the result of what he has done.
It is difficult for people to forgive him for the hurt and ruthlessness he once had for Kan Qingzi. In the midst of her repeated expectations and hints, he either remained indifferent or ignored them. Back then, he boldly said in front of the national audience that he would propose to Kan Qingzi before he was 30 years old, but in the end he broke his promise and became fat.
People laugh at not only his romantic phrase "You like the sea, I have loved you", but also his inaction and lack of commitment to his feelings.
Ji Lingchen tried to exonerate himself, claiming that the nickname had seriously affected his career development. But from another point of view, perhaps it was his attitude towards feelings that made it difficult for people to wholeheartedly support and appreciate his performance. After all, how can a person who can't even manage his feelings well convince the audience of the role he has created on the screen?
We don't have the right to judge the emotional lives of others, but we should at least respect each other and not hurt them. Although Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen's breakup brought an unbearable past, life went on. They should all learn from this and be honest about their next relationship instead of blaming the outside world.
After all, the truth exposed under the flash is often the essence of life. We don't need to hide our ears and ignore it. Everyone should take responsibility for their own past, not only for themselves, but also for others. Only by treating each other with sincerity can we gain the meaning and value of life.
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