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In this field of paternity testing, David is a veteran. He has worked hard for 15 years and witnessed the fate of countless families. This veteran DNA paternity tester has issued more than 20,000 paternity test reports from 2007 to 2019.
In these reports, a staggering 26 to 29 percent of the results show that there is no blood relationship between the child and his or her so-called biological father.
These cruel truths ruthlessly tear apart the façade of family harmony. According to David statistics, in the past ten years alone, more than 4,000 originally happy families have fallen into the whirlpool of divorce because of paternity test reports.
As the operator of the paternity test, David is often referred to as the "destroyer of marriage", which bothers him immensely.
He understands that paternity testing is like a ruthless steel knife that mercilessly cuts through families that are built on falsehood and deception. Whenever family members receive unusual parent-child reports, David can empathize with the fear and despair in their hearts.
Behind the ordinary reports, there is the endless pain of family harmony being torn apart.
Despite being criticized as a "marriage destroyer", David himself never intended to stop his work. For him, uncovering the truth is the right way, and it is the right to let those who are kept in the dark no longer be fooled.
Even if this right comes at the cost of a broken family.
Family scars
For the family trauma caused by paternity testing, David has a first-hand experience. A few years ago, he also experienced a painful emotional entanglement.
At that time, David and his lover had been in love for 8 years, and the two were sweetly looking forward to entering the palace of marriage. However, at this last moment, David was surprised to find that his beloved girlfriend had been disconnected from her ex-boyfriend and entangled behind his back.
Faced with this unbelievable fact, David once said to her angrily: "If you still can't let go of that man, then please leave me and find your own happiness."
But his girlfriend repeatedly and firmly denied it, leaving David in endless pain.
Letting go of an 8-year-long relationship is a difficult decision for anyone. David is well aware that this is a heavy "sunk cost" and that people often involuntarily hold back on past efforts and procrastinate in making decisions.
It is because of this state of mind that David has a heartfelt empathy for his family members who are distressed after learning the results of the paternity test. He understands that the deceived party has the right to know the truth, even if it is destined to be scarred.
Over the years, David has witnessed the reactions of too many families after revealing their lies: some people are relieved to know the truth and find meaning in life again; Some people were in great pain, crying and even fighting at the scene; Others resolutely give up and resolutely end this torturous relationship.
In this way, the dark side of human nature is ruthlessly revealed. The paternity test is like a mirror that exposes the wounded souls. Some people think of it as a means to protect men's rights, but in reality, women often ask for testing in the hope that it will be a way to reassure their hearts.
IVF
Of all the paternity cases Davy has handled, the story of the female client is arguably the most bizarre.
The woman had been married to her husband for many years and had no children. In order to solve the fertility dilemma, they decided to try IVF technology according to the doctor's advice. However, after two failed surgeries, the couple has given up almost all hope.
Just when they were helpless, the husband's relief and encouragement made the wife regain her courage and make up her mind to try again. Although the third IVF operation progressed with difficulty, it finally ushered in the dawn of success, and a ray of hope finally shone in the darkness.
The joy instantly lit up the hearts of the two, but the wife still had an inexplicable doubt in her heart. In the days leading up to IVF, she noticed that her husband's relatives were secretive, frequenting their homes, sometimes hiding in their rooms and whispering suspiciously.
A strong sense of uneasiness led her to suspect that it would be too sad if the child was not conceived by her husband's sperm.
So, in the later stages of pregnancy, the wife secretly collected samples of her husband's fingernails and her own blood, and carefully sent them to an authoritative paternity testing agency.
It turned out that the husband had been suffering from severe azoospermia, but in order to escape his wife's pain, he chose to hide the truth. What's worse is that he colluded with the hospital to illegally use his father-in-law's sperm sample for IVF, which deceived his wife for several months.
In the face of such a horrific truth, his wife chose to remain silent, trying to maintain the existing order of life, and continued to live a peaceful and peaceful life. She seems to be unable to bear the heart-wrenching trauma of this truth for the time being.
This bizarre IVF case illustrates that everyone makes their own choices when faced with an unacceptable reality. Those who are brave enough to face are brave and fearless, while those who are evasive are obsessed and try to maintain the appearance by concealment.
But no matter how you choose to deal with it, it will only be accompanied by endless pain and conscience condemnation. Because the truth will eventually be revealed to the world, there is no absolute secret in the world.
Contraindications love affair
Sometimes, the results of a paternity test can be unbelievable and unbelievable. David once received an eccentric man who asked for a paternity test using his dog's hair.
Although it is impossible for humans and animals to be related, in the face of this strange request, David still maintained his professionalism and patiently explained the truth to the other party.
Surprisingly, the man remained stubborn and insisted on getting tested.
It wasn't until the man confided in him that David understood the reason for his obsession. It turns out that his wife suffers from a rare fetish, dog fetish, and has had an intimate relationship with the family's pet dog.
A few years ago, by chance, the man broke into the scene where his wife and dog were fooling around on the bed, and he was stunned on the spot. The wife was caught red-handed and seemed helpless, so she could only kneel and beg for mercy.
Disturbingly, when the child was born, the distinctive blonde hair made the man even more suspicious.
Still, for some unspeakable reason, the man forgave his wife, who was suffering from a rare disease, and sought psychological treatment for her, which for a time brought her condition under control.
But gradually, the suspicion of the child's background intensified, and finally made him determined to thoroughly find out the true identity of the child's biological father.
After many investigations, I finally made a surprising discovery - the child's father was actually a blonde man in the circus. After learning the truth, the man resolutely decided to divorce his wife and break off this unbearable marriage.
Compared with those bizarre cases, the paternity test case of Mr. Chen's family is undoubtedly more shocking and disturbing. Mr. Chan is a notorious businessman and his wife is a full-time housewife who devotes herself to serving her in-laws and caring for her three children.
The family lived a happy and fulfilling life until Mr. Chan witnessed a gruesome scene.
On that day, Mr. Chen opened the bedroom door and was shocked to find his wife and eldest son lying intimately together!
Mr. Chen was suddenly plunged into unprecedented pain and anger.
After experiencing this blow, Mr. Chen suddenly remembered a detail - when his wife gave birth to her youngest son, she unexpectedly gave birth a month early.
At that time, the wife explained that it was born prematurely, but the child appeared to be very strong. But in retrospect, Mr. Chen began to wonder if his youngest son was really his own flesh and blood.
After this doubt, Mr. Chan quickly took action and found the doctor who delivered the baby to verify the truth.
"I was betrayed by my own son... In the face of such a heartbreaking family relationship, Mr. Chen completely collapsed and chose to divorce and end this distrustful marriage.
As a law enforcement officer, Mr. Chan explained that the instinct of biology is that everyone works hard to pass on their genes. For men, confirmation of kinship with their children is an innate need.
Throughout the ages, practices such as "blood confession" have been less scientific, but they also reflect the importance men attach to it. The paternity test is to tear off the hypocritical mask of humanity and face the courage and fear in human nature.
Moral arguments
Some people make a decisive decision and resolutely end this marriage based on lies. Just like Mr. Chen, after witnessing the incest between his wife and his own son, he completely divorced and ended the marriage that had lost the foundation of trust.
But there are also people who prefer to escape from reality and are obsessed. Just like the man whose wife suffers from dog fetish, he eventually chooses to forgive his wife and maintain the appearance of the family despite discovering that the child is suspected of being related to a man in the circus.
Life goes on after all, and after all the troubles, we have to learn to be tolerant, forgive and look forward. Because each party is to blame, there are often more unknown reasons hidden behind the truth.
As the man said, in a world of complex emotions, everyone struggles, and in the pursuit of truth, the real tragedy is often not as simple as we can imagine.
Life is like a blank sheet of paper, and no one can have a full color life from the beginning. Each of us will leave a thick or faint mark on this paper, forming the puzzle of everyone's destiny.
When faced with struggles, perhaps we should be more tolerant and empathetic to each other, rather than clinging to narrow moral positions and pointing fingers at each other and belittling each other.
Because no one can tell who is the only innocent one in this mess.