There are always many changes in life, and there will be many voices that you don't like, but you have to remember: learn to be tolerant, and you will be able to truly calm down, learn to follow the fate and understand each other to make yourself physically and mentally happy, and learn to let go, and only if you are not too attached will you let yourself be clear.
A lot of times, it's time to let the bullets fly for a while. You have to know that what you don't like, there will be many people who don't like it, and what you like, there must be many people who like it. You are a part of all things in the world, an ordinary member of society. Although there are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no people with exactly the same thoughts, the laws are universal laws, and the laws of operation are ever-changing.
If you rashly judge and make decisions according to your own ideas, many times you will only put yourself on the cusp of the storm and be unstable. If you want to be stable, you must learn to precipitate and stand where you should stand. Don't envy the ups and downs of others, everyone has their own role to play.
If you are stable enough, others will feel that you are trustworthy and will tell you important ideas. You are stable enough, and it also represents a kind of strength of yours, so that people with bad intentions dare not approach you. If you are stable enough, you can better control the direction of things and achieve the results you want.
If you're impatient, you haven't experienced enough. Why is it that some people have more experience and are more concise and to the point, while some people have been in one place for a long time and have no experience but talk about it. It's not that all suggestions have to be rejected, but that someone else has to be given a period of time to perform. To give others a chance is to give yourself a chance.
If you're cranky, then you don't have a better solution. People only lose their temper when they are powerless and want things to be resolved. Gaffes and gaffes, gaffes and then things get worse, vicious circle. Calming down is the beginning of things moving in a good direction.
If you're feeling distracted, it's a blur of thought and a clear goal. There's a saying that if you know where you're going, the whole world will make way for you. In the same way, if you don't know where you're going, there's no road under your feet. Clear your mind, and your troubles will disappear naturally.
If you're feeling anxious, it's that you're wanting too much. For example, you have a white rose, and you want a red rose. If you can't have both at the same time, then you will be entangled, unable to give up anything, and anxiety will arise. You don't have much to be real, you just want too much. If you don't take action, you will be anxious, and if you take action, you may lose everything.
If you feel like you're stressed, you have high expectations for it. Why you are under a lot of pressure at work, either because the current competition is fierce and you don't have absolute strength to support it, or because you want to reach higher heights, and you need to work harder. The higher the expectations, the greater the stress.
If you're scared, it's because you care and are afraid of losing. For example, your current position, salary, and you feel that you can't find a better alternative, you will be afraid of losing. You know your own abilities, you know the fierceness of the competition, and you are not willing to lower your expectations, and it is natural to be afraid. If you don't want to be influenced and constrained by this feeling, then show courage and determination to improve yourself.
Don't be impatient, don't be irritable, don't be upset and afraid, try to manage your own life, always be a simple and kind self, be kind, and be virtuous.
