❂ Author: Jun Jian Yakan Red Mansion
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Jia Mu's strength is the best in Jiafu. Compared with Wang Xifeng, her old man herself said: "I was as old as Brother Feng back then, and I was better than him." Although he is not as good as us now, he is even better, far better than your aunt. ”
Jia Mu said that Wang Xifeng is not as good as her, so she must be inferior. Later, Jia pardoned the mandarin ducks, and when she taught Mrs. Xing, she also mentioned that the management of Rongguo Mansion is unsatisfactory now, but she just sees through it and doesn't say anything.
As a mother, Jia's mother is most commendable for education, and even her performance reflects Lin Daiyu's true value.
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Some people may say that Jia's mother is evaluated by "teaching her son in a good way", but is a joke? It depends on the "achievements" of Jia Yu and Jia Zheng, which one is good? Besides, isn't Jia Baoyu "spoiled" by Jia's mother?
This seems to be irrefutable, Jia's mother did not raise outstanding children and grandchildren who have made meritorious contributions, but everything also depends on comparison.
Jia Yu and Jia Zheng are Jia's mother's biological sons, and they are not talented, but they are not incorrigible.
In terms of security, Jia pardon Jia politicians are more responsible than Jia Jing. They are in their position to seek their own government, and they are not like Jia Jing who picks on their sons and does nothing.
Although the comprehensive ability of the two brothers is not as much as that of their grandfather and father, they do not have a "tiger father and dog son".
Jia Yu is obviously "bad", needless to say.
But Jia's mother married into Rongguofu at the age of fifteen, and after fifty-four years, she was not yet seventy years old, and Jia Yu was already in her fifties, indicating that Jia's mother gave birth to her eldest son at the age of sixteen or seventeen.
At that time, in Rongguo Mansion, Jia's mother was the daughter-in-law of her great-grandson, and several layers of mothers-in-law needed her filial piety, and a large family needed her to take care of it.
The ancestors "loved" their grandsons, and as soon as Jia Yu was born, Jia's mother basically couldn't intervene, just like Jia Baoyu.
What's more, she still has to manage the huge Rongguo Mansion, when the Jia Mansion was at its peak, the situation was more difficult than when Wang Xifeng was in charge.
Jia Mu didn't have much energy to put on Jia Yu. It's too late to wait until the problem is discovered. But Jia Yu still hasn't grown like Xue Pan.
Jia Zheng is far stronger than Jia Yu in terms of character, behavior, thought, and knowledge. He likes to read the most since he was a child, and Rong Guogong loves it the most. Isn't it Jia's mother's "remedy"?
Although Jia Zheng's comprehensive strength is not strong, it is much stronger than Jia Yu. It can be said that "knowing mistakes can be corrected, and good is great".
Jia Zheng's ability, there is no problem with keeping it. In particular, adhering to the policy of governing the family of the Jia family designated by Rong Guogong to abandon martial arts and follow the literature, the education and development of the second room is far stronger than that of the other rooms.
As the saying goes, "manpower is sometimes poor", not everything can be changed artificially, what I am afraid of is knowing mistakes and not changing.
Just like Jia Baoyu, Jia's mother is indeed spoiled, but it can delay his growth of literary style, can poetry and songs come easily?
Jia's mother "delayed" Jia Baoyu's "imperial examination career article", "every time Sun insults the teacher's son", but is Jia's mother to blame for this matter?
Jia Baoyu doesn't like the career of the imperial examination, it's not the material for chasing fame and fortune, is it useful to discipline? Like Mrs. Wang, find a wife and concubine who can "persuade" to accompany him, and he will work hard to make the country prosperous?
Jia's mother had already seen through Jia Baoyu, "I know very well that Baoyu will not listen to the advice of his wife and concubine in the future." I can't figure it out, and I've never seen a child like this. ”
Since the parents don't change their scolding, why do they have to chase ducks to the shelves?
Jia Baoyu is not a person on the road to the imperial examination, so Jia Mu simply did not force him there.
Jia Baoyu did not read the imperial examination articles, and not only did he not fall behind in other studies, but he was erudite and talented, and he dabbled in a wide range of knowledge.
Just looking at his poetry couplets and article style, isn't it like a Nalan character?
Comparing other descendants of Jiafu, it is said that Jia Huan, who has been following Mrs. Wang, can be described as the difference between heaven and earth.
In the whole "Dream of Red Mansions", who is stronger than Jia Baoyu?
Isn't this the work of Jia Baoyu's teaching according to her aptitude? It is only said that Jia Baoyu worked hard by herself, but it is not objective.
Sichun, who followed Jia's mother to be educated, is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and it is difficult not to seek common ground, and each teaches according to his aptitude to encourage the development of interests.
There are also Shi Xiangyun and Lin Daiyu, who were raised by Jia's mother since childhood, are the beautiful crowns, and it is not comprehensive to say that the Shi family and the Lin family are the merits.
Shi Xiangyun was brought over by Jia's mother as a daughter in her infancy, and she was most influenced by Jia's mother, which was similar to raising Jia Min at the beginning.
Shi Xiangyun's "heroic and magnanimous", what kind of open-mindedness and bearing!
As for Lin Daiyu, although she was influenced by the Lin family's literary style, she was not the most influenced by her mother Jia Min?
At that time, the daughter's upbringing came from the mother. Lin Daiyu learned from her mother Jia Min, Jia Min was raised by Jia's mother, and Lin Daiyu was later raised by Jia's mother, isn't it the same lineage?
Xiangling learns poetry, Lin Daiyu is very encouraging and devoted to teaching, and there is no difference between Jia's mother and teaching everyone in Sichun according to their aptitude.
The literary style of the people in the Grand View Garden is at its peak, and it is all the "climate" formed by the people who were educated and nurtured by Jia's mother, isn't this the prototype of the family poetry and book heirloom?
If this style of writing continues to be inherited, it will get better and better like a snowball, how can there be children and grandchildren who are not talented?
On the other hand, Xue Baochai, Mrs. Wang, etc., believe that it is the duty of a man to study for the imperial examination, and for a daughter to have a husband and children, there is only one way to go, which is bound to be a dead end.
If that's the case, Jia Baoyu can only grit his teeth and read the book of the imperial examination, and in the end he is doomed to achieve nothing and his literary talent will dry up.
As for the Sichun sisters, don't say anything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, they may be just another boring "wooden man".
Such a family style continues, and it is also a scholarly family, and poetry and books are heirlooms.
Therefore, Lin Daiyu's value is more than Xue Baochai, which is reflected in Jia's mother.
Jia's mother's ideological inheritance comes from her mother, Mrs. Baoling Hou Shangshuling, who is far stronger than the education inheritance received by Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue.
Jia's mother's advantage is by no means perfect, but the courage to make amends, knowing that mistakes can be changed.
Just like in the face of Jia Baoyu's mistake, Mrs. Wang was appeased, but Mother Jia corrected it immediately.
For example, Jia Baoyu went to Mrs. Wang's room and teased Jin Chu'er in front of her mother. Mrs. Wang didn't educate her son but drove the girl away, causing Jin Chu'er to commit suicide by throwing herself into a well.
After Jin Chu'er died, Mrs. Wang only called Jia Baoyu to lecture her over a few words, and then, just like the deaf and faint old Mumu said, "What's the matter? It's over early." The wife rewarded her with clothes and silver, so why is it okay!"
Her son made a mistake and died, and she only gave money to reward the matter. Not to mention comparing Jia's mother, even Jia Zheng's anger and whipping are far worse.
On the other hand, Jia Mu's mistakes in the face of Jia Baoyu were neither as extreme as Jia Zheng, nor as conniving as Mrs. Wang.
For example, the incident of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's public "drinking" during the Lantern Festival is obviously an inappropriate thing for the two to "can't help themselves".
Jia Mu did not avoid it after seeing it, and immediately made "corrections".
"Breaking Lies" directly deducted the thief love for the story of the talented and beautiful woman, and poured cold water on the hot relationship between Bao Dai and the two.
"There is no such thing in our family", and told Bao Dai and the two that the marriage must be carried out under the "words of the matchmaker of the parents". It is not allowed to be privately determined for life. This time it's a warning, not an example.
"Breaking lies" is not counted, and then the seats are adjusted to completely separate Bao Dai and the two, not allowing them to be intimate and "make mistakes", and make it clear that they will change their mistakes when they know their mistakes, what an atmosphere.
Jia's mother passed on to Lin Daiyu.
Mrs. Wang's Aunt Xue is a compatriot, and the same is passed on to Xue Baochai.
Just looking at the attitudes of Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang towards "mistakes", we can also compare the ideological differences between hairpins and dais.
✍ The above views are sorted out and inferred from the story clues before the 80th episode of "Dream of Red Mansions".