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William Chen
Edited by William Chen
Preface
When we look back, do we still remember the longing for love when we were young?
Do you still remember the vows you once made? However, there is always an insurmountable distance between ideals and reality.
On the way to pursue love, we laugh, cry, grow, or be confused.
Li Lin's story may be the epitome of your and my lives.
Those ups and downs of emotional experience teach us how to love and how to be loved.
A scene, a love
1998 was an incomparably brilliant year for Li Lin.
Her acting career is in full swing, and she has filmed many popular and popular TV series one after another.
However, who would have thought that a work called "Looking at Charliela from afar" would become a turning point in her emotional life.
In the crew, a talented rookie director Wang Xiaolie attracted Li Lin's attention with his unique charm.
Wang Xiaolie is good at tapping the potential of actors, and often discusses the inner world of the character with Li Lin between filming.
The thinking of the two had a wonderful chemical reaction at this moment, and Li Lin was impressed by Wang Xiaolie's talent.
Wang Xiaolie has also been in love with this elegant and intellectual goddess-level actor for a long time.
During the filming, Wang Xiaolie cared about Li Lin meticulously, or discussed the script, or prepared a love lunch, all kinds of intimate actions quietly took root in Li Lin's heart.
However, due to various concerns, both chose to bury this affection deep in their hearts.
The drama was not dispersed, and in the days after parting, Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie pinned their thoughts on each other in messages back and forth.
So, under the brewing of time, love quietly sprouted.
A bouquet of roses, a lifetime commitment
On Valentine's Day in 2000, a phone call from Wang Xiaolie broke Li Lin's busyness.
On the other end of the phone, Wang Xiaolie mysteriously said that he wanted to surprise Li Lin.
When Li Lin opened the door, the surprise came too suddenly—Wang Xiaolie came from thousands of miles away, holding a bouquet of bright roses, and confessed to her affectionately.
That bouquet of roses is full of Wang Xiaolie's love and commitment to Li Lin.
At this moment, time seems to freeze, and the world is left with each other.
Li Lin hugged Wang Xiaolie with tears, and the two hearts were tightly attached to each other, and made a promise to grow old together.
Since then, they have embarked on the best journey of their lives hand in hand.
Sweet love, double harvest in career
In the early days of their relationship, although Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie got together less and left more, they cherished every minute and second of each other.
They secretly hugged on the set, and they were infinitely tired during the short break.
The sweetness of love dissolves the toil of work.
Under Wang Xiaolie's careful care, Li Lin's career has reached a higher level.
With her superb acting skills, she won the "Double Ten" Best Actress crown.
Director Wang Xiaolie's works have also achieved great results and become a leader in the industry.
The two used their strength to prove that love and career do not conflict, but can complement each other.
During that time, Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie were like two trees closely attached to each other, nourished by the sunshine and rain, they thrived together, and wrote the most beautiful chapter of their lives together.
They firmly believe that as long as they truly love each other, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.
The wedding has hidden dangers, and cracks are beginning to appear
As the relationship warmed up, Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie decided to get married.
However, just when preparing for the wedding, an "excellent" script made Wang Xiaolie excited.
At his insistence, a simple wedding was hastily completed.
For this wedding, Li Lin couldn't hide her loss, but she chose to understand and support.
And this became the first discordant note in the married life of the two.
When Wang Xiaolie was busy with work, Li Lin could only face the deserted room and pantothenic heart alone.
She began to wonder if she had been replaced by a career in Wang Xiaolie's heart.
The balance of marriage began to be unbalanced, and Li Lin increasingly felt that her feelings and needs were being ignored.
On the surface, they are still a loving couple, but the undercurrent is surging.
Li Lin knows that maintaining a marriage depends not only on love, but also on tolerance and management.
At this time, she and Wang Xiaolie seemed to be drifting apart.
Family turmoil, broken love
Life after marriage is a new experience for every couple.
From love to marriage, from sweet to plain, from passion to responsibility, every couple has to go through such a process.
In this process, how to keep love alive and marriage stable is a topic that needs to be learned by both parties.
For Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie, life after marriage is not all smooth sailing.
With the increase in family responsibilities and the increase in economic pressure, it is inevitable that there will be some stumbles between the two.
After marriage, the family expenses were mainly borne by Li Lin.
As an actor with a successful career, Li Lin doesn't feel that this is a burden.
On the contrary, she feels that in the face of love, money is the most insignificant thing.
As long as the two love each other, as long as they understand and support each other, no matter how difficult it is, it is not a problem.
However, as time went by, Li Lin gradually found that her expectations for marriage seemed to deviate from reality.
In 2005, the two planned to buy a large house.
Li Lin took out most of the money without thinking about it, but Wang Xiaolie only paid a small part on the grounds of insufficient funds.
What made Li Lin even more angry was that Wang Xiaolie privately wrote the real estate certificate into his name.
After the old house was sold, Wang Xiaolie asked Li Lin to divide half of the sale price of the house with him.
During the dispute, Wang Xiaolie even threw out a business card of a female friend in front of Li Lin.
Anger and disappointment were superimposed in Li Lin's heart.
The quarrel stopped abruptly, and Wang Xiaolie's slap slapped Li Lin heavily in the face.
At that moment, Li Lin's heart was like ashes, and her feelings for many years were not as important as money.
She knew that the marriage had come to an end.
Set sail again, the original intention does not change
After the divorce, Li Lin was not depressed, but devoted all her energy to her career.
She frequently appeared in the audience's field of vision, and won everyone's love and respect with her superb acting skills.
Frustrated in love, proud in the workplace.
Li Lin used her strength to prove that losing someone who doesn't know how to cherish is not the end of the world, and she can still live a wonderful life.
Unexpected encounters, happiness comes
Li Lin, who has achieved fame, once again ushered in the test of love.
Li Dashuang, a mature and steady man, used his sincerity and gentleness to melt the ice in Li Lin's heart.
From climbing mountains and studying together to meticulous care, Li Dashuang interprets his love with actions.
The two eventually registered their marriage in the United States in a low-key manner, but Li Dashuang believes that Li Lin deserves the best in the world.
In Beijing, a grand wedding took place as scheduled.
This time, Li Lin not only reaped the dream wedding, but also reaped a lifetime of happiness.
epilogue
On the road of life, we will inevitably encounter some ups and downs and tribulations.
Li Lin's story tells us that only those who have experienced hardships in life are the most qualified to talk about the preciousness of happiness.
The true meaning of love is never to blindly give and be moved, but to know how to cherish and care.
Only when two people are in step and move forward hand in hand can they go far.
Li Lin's experience is a process of transformation and growth of a woman.
From ignorance to vicissitudes; From the quagmire of emotions to regaining oneself.
In her own way, she interprets the independence and strength of a woman.