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My name is Zhang Min, I am 49 years old and I am an office worker. In this half of my life, I didn't have a wonderful life, nor was it ordinary, but rather a joke.
That afternoon, my daughter, Xiaowen, suddenly told me that she was planning to visit her boyfriend's house, more than 1,600 kilometers away. I immediately objected, for the simple reason that it would be too dangerous for her to go alone for such a long distance. But Xiaowen insisted on going, saying that she had already discussed it with her boyfriend's family, and she was 29 years old, and she was not a child anymore, so she was fully capable of taking care of herself. I tried to dissuade her, but she remained unmoved, and finally lost her temper at me and returned to her room without saying a word.
"Well, why is this kid so stubborn?" I sighed and was alone in the living room, fretting. I know that Xiaowen is already an adult, and I can no longer have full control over her life, but I still can't rest assured. As a mother, I am worried about her safety, and I am even more worried that she will be wronged and bullied outside.
"Would you like to have a good talk with her?" I said to myself, "Maybe try to make her understand my concerns." "
So, I plucked up the courage and gently pushed open the door of her room: "Xiaowen, can I talk to you?"
"However, I am still very worried that you are going alone for such a long way. What if something happens along the way?" I looked into her eyes sincerely, "You are my only child, and of course Mom hopes that you are safe." "
"Mom, I know you're doing it for my good. However, I am almost thirty years old, and I am already an adult, and I cannot be bound by you all the time. I also have my own life and my own choice, can I trust me?" There was a hint of annoyance in Xiaowen's tone.
I had mixed feelings in my heart, and I was both distressed and angry. As a mother, I certainly hope that my daughter will always be obedient and never leave my side. However, I also understand that my daughter will have to be independent after all and make her own choices. What should I do? How can I convince her to change her mind?
"Xiaowen, I know you've grown up, but as your mother, I still can't help but want to protect you. I'm worried about the dangers you'll encounter if you go that far alone. Can you understand my feelings?" I shuddered in my voice, trying to make my tone softer.
I had mixed feelings in my heart, and I was both distressed and angry. As a mother, I certainly hope that my daughter will always be obedient and never leave my side. However, I also understand that my daughter will have to be independent after all and make her own choices. What should I do? How can I convince her to change her mind?
"Xiaowen, I know you've grown up, but as your mother, I still can't help but want to protect you. I'm worried about the dangers you'll encounter if you go that far alone. Can you understand my feelings?" I shuddered in my voice, trying to make my tone softer.
"Mom, I can really take care of myself. You see, I'm 29 years old, and I'm not a child. I'll be careful, I'll be fine. You'll just trust me once, okay?" Xiaowen took my hand, and there was a hint of pleading in her eyes.
I was silent for a moment, but finally sighed: "Well, since you've decided, there's nothing I can do to stop you." However, you must take care, be careful on the road, and feel free to contact me if you have anything. I will always wait for you to come back safely. "
"Don't worry, Mom. I'll be careful and I'll definitely come back safely. Just wait for me at home, and I'll be sure to bring you a surprise. Xiaowen's eyes lit up and she hugged me gently.
Looking at my daughter's expectant appearance, I couldn't help but feel a trace of bitterness in my heart. I knew that this time she was destined to go out alone and experience her own life. As a mother, I can only let her go, even though I still worry about her safety.
Looking at the back of Xiaowen packing her luggage, I couldn't help but take a deep breath. As a 49-year-old single mother, I have been worrying about my daughter all my life, and now that my daughter is finally going to go independent, my heart is inevitably full of mixed emotions.
"Xiaowen, do you really have to go? I'm still worried that something will happen to you outside alone. "I asked tentatively again, hoping to keep her.
"Mom, I've said it many times, I'll be careful. And if I have a boyfriend there to take care of me, you can rest assured. Xiaowen still insisted on her decision, and there was a hint of impatience in her tone.
"But what if something happens along the way, what will you do alone? You know, as your mother, I am genuinely worried about your safety. I frowned and looked at her worriedly.
"Mom, I know you're doing it for my good, but I'm really not a kid anymore. I have my own life and choices, please trust me to take care of myself. Xiaowen stopped what she was doing and looked me straight in the eye.
Looking at my daughter's determined eyes, I knew that there was no way to stop her anymore. As a mother, I certainly hope that she will always be obedient and never leave my side. However, I also understand that my daughter has to be independent after all and has to experience her own life.
"Well, now that you've decided, there's nothing I can do to stop you. However, you must take care, be careful on the road, and feel free to contact me if you have anything. I will always wait for you to come back safely. I sighed helplessly and reached out to hug my daughter.
"Don't worry, Mom. I'll be careful and I'll definitely come back safely. Just wait for me at home, and I'll be sure to bring you a surprise. Xiaowen patted me on the back, her tone full of confidence.
Watching my daughter board the train to a distant place made me feel uneasy for a long time. As a single-parent family, our mother and daughter depend on each other for their lives and have a very close relationship. Now that my daughter wants to go out independently, I am inevitably a little reluctant.
I exhaled softly and turned back to my empty home. I was the only one left in the house, and it was so quiet that it was itching. I am used to living with my daughter, and I am deeply touched by the loneliness and loneliness at this time.
"Alas, Xiaowen is finally going to be independent. As a mother, I'm really happy for her. Still, I couldn't help but worry about what trouble she would get out there alone. I muttered to myself and walked over to the balcony to look into the distance.
The sky was overcast, and it seemed that I felt the worry in my heart. I sighed, took out my phone and sent a message to Xiaowen: "Be careful on the road, tell me whenever something happens." I'll be waiting for you to come back safely. "
So, I dialed Xiaowen's phone and asked softly, "Where are you now?"
"Mom, I just got on the high-speed train, and I'm about to get to my destination. You can rest assured, I was careful along the way and everything went well. Xiaowen's voice came, sounding very relaxed.
"That's good, that's good. Call me as soon as you arrive and let me know you're there safely, okay?" There was a hint of concern in my tone.
"Well, be careful on your way. It's a long way to go, so be sure to take care of yourself. I sighed softly, trying to make my tone seem more natural.
"Got it, Mom. I'll hang up first, you can wait for my call without worry. Xiaowen said with a smile.
Hanging up the phone, I turned around and walked back to the living room. The house was so quiet that it felt a little oppressive, and I couldn't help but turn on the TV to find something to pass the time.
I hurriedly picked up my phone, and when I saw that it was Xiaowen's name, my heart beat faster.
"Hey, Xiaowen, have you arrived?" I picked up the phone in a hurry.
"Mom, I've arrived. Xiaowen's voice came from the other end of the phone, sounding very relaxed.
"Great, you're here safely. I breathed a sigh of relief and smiled involuntarily, "Did the road go well, did you encounter any problems?"
"Everything went smoothly, nothing was a big problem. Xiaowen said, "I am already with my boyfriend, they are very nice and are already helping me arrange accommodation." "
"That would be great. You should definitely enjoy the trip and relax. I said softly, "If you encounter anything uncomfortable, be sure to tell me in time." "
"Don't worry, Mom. I'll take good care of myself. Don't worry too much about me, rest at home. Xiaowen said softly, "By the way, I brought you some special products, and I will give you back when I come back." "
"That's great, I can't wait to try it. I couldn't help but laugh, "Go play and have fun." I'm waiting at home for you to come back safely. "
"Okay, Mom. I'll hang up first, and I'll call you later. Xiaowen said briskly.
"嗯,路上小心。"我微笑着说。
Hanging up the phone, I let out a long exhale. It seems that after Xiaowen arrived, everything went well. I let go of my worries and decided to enjoy some of my rare alone time.
I sighed, sat back on the couch, and turned on the TV. After a while, I was so immersed in the show that I forgot about the passage of time.
Suddenly, the phone rang again. I hurriedly picked up my phone and saw that it was Xiaowen calling.
"Hey, Xiaowen, what's wrong?" I hurriedly picked up the phone.
"Mom, it's okay, I just wanted to talk to you. Xiaowen's voice sounded a little helpless, "After I arrived at my boyfriend's house, they were very nice, but I always felt a little uncomfortable. "
"What's wrong? Did they do anything bad?" I asked worriedly, frowning.
"No, they're nice people and they're good to me. However, I always felt like an outsider and didn't fit in with their lives. Xiaowen sighed, "I miss you a little bit, I'm homesick." "
"Aren't you happy? If you don't want to stay, feel free to tell me, and I'll pick you up at once. I asked with concern.
"No, I'm not unhappy. It's just that it's a little lonely and uncomfortable. Xiaowen whispered, "I just miss you, I miss our usual life at home." "
"I know, I miss you too. I sighed, "But, you're already an adult, learn to live independently." I'm sure you'll be able to adapt to it. You have to believe in yourself and believe that you can do everything well. "
"But, Mom, I still rely on you sometimes. You can always give me the strength to feel safe. There was a hint of choking in Xiaowen's voice.
"I know, and I also hope that you will always be obedient and never leave me. However, you will eventually grow up and become independent. I said softly, "I'll be reluctant, but I'm proud of you." "
"Mom, I really miss you. Xiaowen whispered.
"I miss you too, baby. However, you have to believe in yourself and believe that you can live well alone. I said gently, "When you come back, we'll have a good chat and enjoy our time at home." "
"Okay, Mom. I'll get used to it and won't give you too much trouble. When I get back, we'll make a big meal together to celebrate. Xiaowen's voice regained some spirits.
"Okay, then I can't wait. I smiled and said, "Rest well, don't tire yourself too hard." Feel free to tell me anything. "
"Well, I will. Mom, I'm going to hang up first, and I'm going to talk to my boyfriend about it. Xiaowen said.
"Okay, there you go. Be careful on the road and tell me whenever anything happens. I whispered.
"Okay, Mom. Good bye. Xiaowen whispered.
"Goodbye. I smiled and hung up.
Putting my phone down, I let out a long breath. It seems that Xiaowen is still a little uncomfortable, but I believe that she will be able to adapt slowly. As a mother, all I can do is give her enough support and encouragement to let her know that she is not alone.
I shook my head and refocused on the TV. Before you know it, time has passed quietly, and the sky is getting darker. I got up and walked to the balcony, looking at the darkening sky in the distance, and I couldn't help but feel a little emotional.
As a 49-year-old single mother, I have been worrying about my daughter all my life and pouring all my heart and soul into her. Now, my daughter has finally grown up and is going to start living independently. Although I am reluctant, I am also sincerely pleased and proud of her.
Over the years, our mother and daughter have been close to each other. Now that my daughter wants to go out independently, I am inevitably a little reluctant. However, I also knew that this was the only way for her to live, and I had to learn to let go and let her pursue her own happiness.
Standing on the balcony, I gazed at the twinkling stars in the night sky, and I couldn't help but feel a mixed emotion in my heart. As a 49-year-old single mother, I have devoted all my life to my daughter Xiaowen, and now that my daughter is going to live independently, I inevitably feel a little reluctant.
I sighed softly and turned back to the living room. The room was empty, except for the faint light from the television. I stared out the window with a blank stare, my mind mixed with mixed feelings.
It wasn't until my phone rang, interrupting my musings, that I came back to my senses. Seeing that it was Xiaowen calling, I quickly picked up the phone.
"Hey, Xiaowen, what's wrong with you, has something happened?" I asked eagerly.
"Mom, it's okay, I just wanted to talk to you. Xiaowen's voice revealed a hint of helplessness, "After I arrived at my boyfriend's house, they were very nice, but I always felt a little uncomfortable." "
Hearing my daughter's words, I couldn't help frowning, "What's wrong? Did they do anything bad?"
"No, they're nice people and they're good to me. However, I always felt like an outsider and didn't fit in with their lives. Xiaowen sighed, "I miss you a little bit, I'm homesick." "
"Aren't you happy? If you don't want to stay, feel free to tell me, and I'll pick you up at once. I asked with concern.
"No, I'm not unhappy. It's just that it's a little lonely and uncomfortable. Xiaowen whispered, "I just miss you, I miss our usual life at home." "
Hearing my daughter's words, my heart suddenly panched. As a single-parent family, our mother and daughter depend on each other for their lives and have a very close relationship. Now that my daughter is finally going to live independently, although I feel relieved, I can't help but feel a little reluctant.
"I know, I miss you too. I sighed, "But, you're already an adult, learn to live independently." I'm sure you'll be able to adapt to it. You have to believe in yourself and believe that you can do everything well. "
"But, Mom, I still rely on you sometimes. You can always give me the strength to feel safe. There was a hint of choking in Xiaowen's voice.
"I know, and I also hope that you will always be obedient and never leave me. However, you will eventually grow up and become independent. I said softly, "I'll be reluctant, but I'm proud of you." "
"Mom, I really miss you. Xiaowen whispered.
"I miss you too, baby. However, you have to believe in yourself and believe that you can live well alone. I said gently, "When you come back, we'll have a good chat and enjoy our time at home." "
"Okay, Mom. I'll get used to it and won't give you too much trouble. When I get back, we'll make a big meal together to celebrate. Xiaowen's voice regained some spirits.
"Okay, then I can't wait. I smiled and said, "Rest well, don't tire yourself too hard." Feel free to tell me anything. "
"Well, I will. Mom, I'm going to hang up first, and I'm going to talk to my boyfriend about it. Xiaowen said.
"Okay, there you go. Be careful on the road and tell me whenever anything happens. I whispered.
"Okay, Mom. Good bye. Xiaowen whispered.
"Goodbye. I smiled and hung up.
Putting my phone down, I let out a long breath. It seems that Xiaowen is still a little uncomfortable, but I believe that she will be able to adapt slowly. As a mother, all I can do is give her enough support and encouragement to let her know that she is not alone.
I shook my head and refocused on the TV. Before you know it, time has passed quietly, and the sky is getting darker. I got up and walked to the balcony, looking at the darkening sky in the distance, and I couldn't help but feel a little emotional.
As a 49-year-old single mother, I have been worrying about my daughter all my life and pouring all my heart and soul into her. Now, my daughter has finally grown up and is going to start living independently. Although I am reluctant, I am also sincerely pleased and proud of her.
Over the years, our mother and daughter have been close to each other. Now that my daughter wants to go out independently, I am inevitably a little reluctant. However, I also knew that this was the only way for her to live, and I had to learn to let go and let her pursue her own happiness.
I took a deep breath and turned around and walked back to the living room. Looking at the empty room, I couldn't help but feel a sense of bitterness in my heart. In the past, it was always full of daughters' laughter, but now it is deserted.
Suddenly, the phone rang again. I hurriedly picked it up and saw that it was Xiaowen calling.
"Hey, Xiaowen, what's wrong with you?" I asked eagerly.
"Mom, I'm fine. It's just that, I want to tell you, I'm starting to adjust to life here. Xiaowen's voice sounded a lot more relaxed, "My boyfriend's family is very nice, and they have helped me a lot." I want to tell you that I will take good care of myself. "
"Great, I'm so happy for you. I couldn't help but laugh, "You have to enjoy this trip and don't always think about me." I'm waiting at home for your safe return. "
"Well, I will. Mom, I hung up first, and my boyfriend was asking me to have dinner together. Xiaowen said briskly.
"Okay, there you go. Be careful on the road and tell me whenever anything happens. I whispered.
"Okay, Mom. Good bye. After Xiaowen finished speaking, she hung up the phone.
Putting my phone down, I let out a long breath. It seems that my daughter Xiaowen has gradually adapted to living independently, which is very gratifying to me. As a mother, what I want is for my daughter to be able to live a happy life on her own.