The women who make men ecstatic the most have these 3 qualities!

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They seem to have a magical power that can easily enter a man's heart.

So, what is it about these women that makes men so fascinated?

After so many years of emotional counseling, I have found that they often have these 3 qualities.

active

You know what? Men don't actually have an aversion to women who take the initiative, but they find them special charming.

Because there is a sense of contrast here, you are usually very reserved, and one day you suddenly take the initiative, will that bring him a great contrast, or even the feeling of a deer bumping?

Many girls are reluctant to take the initiative, which may be the behavior of some people we have seen taking the initiative, which is too humble, either to please or upside down, or even to stalk.

It still failed, and it was particularly embarrassing.

But in fact, taking the initiative and currying favor and posting upside down are two different things. And it is precisely because of many times that our initiative is to curry favor, or even post upside down.

For example, I know you like sweet and sour pork ribs, so I get up early to buy them for you, I know you like coffee, so I order you a drink, and so on......

After you took the initiative to do this, you didn't mention your needs, and then there was no follow-up, so it became a pleaser and a backward post.

This kind of initiative will only expose your full sense of need, "I like you, I'm trying to cater to you", don't show it too obviously.

Maybe it's the same with chatting, sometimes there's nothing to talk about, but you just insist on talking to him.

This kind of initiative will only make the other party feel that you are a little too enthusiastic, and even a little unbearable.

Therefore, the key to taking the initiative is to take the initiative to invite a man to meet your needs, rather than blindly pandering to him.

For example, if you also invite the other party to eat or drink, after you invite them, you can take the opportunity to ask him to do you a small favor, "The faucet is broken, the light bulb is broken, you can help me fix it"!

"I don't know how to swim, can you teach me? I always feel that my fitness posture is not standard, can you help me take a look"?

Men will also have a sense of ambiguity, a sense of ambiguity, and they can't help but wonder: "Is she interesting to me?" This unpredictable feeling only fascinates them even more.

Calm

Who can't lose your temper, that's instinct, but if you can suppress your temper, that's called real ability!

Really powerful women are masters of emotional management, even if their hearts are already turbulent, they can be calm on their faces, and they can even smile at you.

They are free, keep their anger deep in their hearts, and can often find solutions to problems quickly.

They are always calm, calm and rational in the face of problems, even if the sky falls, it is a posture of "soldiers come to block, water comes to cover".

Because in their world, there are no hurdles in life that cannot be overcome, and there are no problems in the world that cannot be solved.

You may never have seen them lose control of their emotions, or their joyful and sad appearance, but what you see is mostly their pampered and silent appearance.

In fact, they are not without emotions, but they have learned how to manage them, and they are always tolerant and understanding of life.

Will spend

If you want a man to be obsessed with you, you'll have to learn to spend his money to invest in yourself! Yes, you heard it right!

Men, in fact, have a kind of cultivated mentality. They love to see their beloved woman become better and more attractive because of their dedication.

So, you have to learn to guide him to invest in you.

For example, ask him to buy you beautiful clothes and cosmetics, or participate in some courses and activities to improve self-cultivation, such as watching Mr. Caizi's class and participating in Mr. Caizi's offline sharing meeting.

In this way, you will not only become more and more beautiful and attractive, but also make him feel that you are the perfect girlfriend he has built with a lot of money! This sense of accomplishment will make the man more fascinated by you.

But ah, I have to remind you girls here: although you have to learn to spend men's money to invest in yourself, don't become a "rice worm" who only reaches out and asks for money, which will only make men very down.

So, while enjoying men's investment, don't forget to work hard to grow and progress!