During a marriage, a man's "manhood" seems like a balloon, full of charm and attraction at first love, but over time it gradually deflats. This begs the question, what is the reason for this phenomenon? Perhaps, this is a topic worth exploring in depth.
When they first meet, men's "masculinity" is often a weapon for them to pursue girls, and they will show a confident, decisive, and brave side, attracting the attention of girls. However, as time goes by, when they spend a long time with their daughter-in-law, this "masculinity" seems to gradually disappear, replaced by more blandness and dullness. Does this mean that marriage is the grave of "manhood" and that their charm fades and becomes dull and uninteresting?
Perhaps, there is a deeper reason behind this phenomenon. The trivialities and stresses of married life often make people lose their passion and vitality. Men may gradually become restrained and depressed because of their responsibilities in the family, and no longer show their original arrogance and impulsiveness. At the same time, the stability and security of their marital relationship also made them feel that they no longer needed to show "masculinity" frequently, because they knew that no matter what happened, their daughter-in-law would be there to support and tolerate them.
However, this does not mean that marriage is to blame for the disappearance of "masculinity". Conversely, married life can also be a source of latent charm in men. In marriage, men can learn to be more tolerant and understanding, and learn to deal with problems more maturely and steadily, which are all manifestations of "masculinity". Perhaps, we should re-examine the connotation of "masculinity", which is not only an external manifestation of pride, but also an internal quality and cultivation.
Therefore, we should not simply ridicule and complain about the phenomenon of "masculinity" disappearing after marriage, but should think about it from a deeper level. Perhaps, we need to give more understanding and support to men, so that they can find balance and confidence in their marriage, and regain their original charm and vitality. For the men themselves, they should also examine their role and performance in marriage, and strive to maintain their inner passion and courage, so that "masculinity" will not gradually disappear in marriage, but be better displayed and inherited.
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