On a summer day in July 2020, 63-year-old Li Jianqun finally found it difficult to continue in the arduous battle against cancer, slowly closed his eyes and said goodbye to the world forever.
Sadly, just two years later, her beloved partner Chen Jialin also passed away, and in this way, the "husband and wife" who could not legally become husband and wife were separated forever.
Looking back at this ill-fated artistic couple, their story undoubtedly shows once again the infinite power of love, but at the same time, it also makes people feel the impermanence and fragility of life.
At the end of her life, Li Jianqun finally regretted bitterly that a key decision she made at the beginning - refusing to have children became the biggest regret in her life.
In the long years of racing against death, Li Jianqun faced the torture of illness alone, and his only reliance was on a strange nurse. This undoubtedly highlights the terrible price of her decision back then - the loss of the company of her loved ones, and the inability to even get the warm embrace of her family at the last moment.
If Li Jianqun had been able to follow the advice of her family, bravely enter the marriage hall and give birth to a child, then perhaps in the last stage of her life, she would have been able to have a reliable relative to take care of herself, instead of facing the shadow of death alone.
But sadly, it was too late. Li Jianqun could only watch his life pass by little by little, and finally bid farewell to this world forever in July 2020 at the age of 63.
What is sad is that two years after Li Jianqun's death, her beloved partner Chen Jialin also passed away. This artistic couple was supposed to snuggle up to each other until they grew old, but fate always liked to play tricks on people, and eventually brought them away together.
The only thing missing between them is a blood bond that can bind them together. Perhaps, if Li Jianqun was able to give birth to a child, then even in the last stage of his life, he would still be able to have the company of a blood relative, instead of facing the coming of death alone.
Looking back on the life history of Li Jianqun and Chen Jialin, we can't help but grieve for their regrets. In the end, this unfortunate "couple" failed to escape the end of their lives, leaving behind too many irreparable regrets.
The twists and turns of an artistic life
Born into a family of enlightened intellectuals, Li Jianqun showed extraordinary artistic talent from an early age. With her outstanding dancing skills and painting talents, she was highly anticipated by her family and teachers when she was a girl, and was regarded as a well-deserved "proud woman of heaven".
However, the trick of fate shattered her dance dream, and the tearing of the meniscus forced her to give up her beloved dance career. With the encouragement of her family, she resolutely switched to the field of painting, and with her persistent pursuit and outstanding creativity, she made a name for herself in the film and television industry, winning many awards.
It is worth mentioning that during her work in the film crew, she also worked as a costume designer, carefully created thousands of historical costumes, and finally won a number of awards, which shows the excellence of her talent.
However, a fragmented marriage cast a shadow over the talented artist. In this painful married life, Li Jianqun gradually understood that not all people who love each other can find happiness in marriage.
This emotional journey, full of bitterness and sadness, made her painful, but she still faced it strongly, and with countless days and nights of hard work and perseverance, she created the glory that is now full of honor.
It wasn't until he met director Chen Jialin later that Li Jianqun regained his yearning for love. The two met by chance at first, and then quickly entered an intimate relationship.
Although they did not enter the palace of marriage, they worked together to create countless amazing film and television masterpieces. Their tacit cooperation is like a pair made in heaven, even if they are questioned, they can fight back with their outstanding strength.
It can be said that Li Jianqun's life course is undoubtedly magnificent. From the shattering of her dance dream, to the frustration of her marriage, to her encounter and cooperation with Chen Jialin, she still wrote a moving artistic legend with her tenacious will and unremitting efforts despite all kinds of setbacks and regrets.
Although she did not achieve true happiness in her love life in the end, her brilliant achievements on the road of art have undoubtedly left a strong mark on the industry.
The regret of being lonely and old
When Li Jianqun finally ushered in the twilight of her life, she should have enjoyed the good times of retirement, but she encountered another catastrophe in her life. At first, she just felt a loss of appetite and dizziness, thinking that it was due to her advanced age and declining physical function, but she did not pay enough attention to it.
It wasn't until her condition deteriorated dramatically that she was diagnosed with terminal cancer. This was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue, and Li Jianqun suddenly fell into a huge panic and despair.
Fortunately, her partner Chen Jialin immediately left everything behind after hearing the news and concentrated on accompanying her. However, even with the careful care of her lover, the shadow of illness still gripped her entire life mercilessly.
In the midst of the influx of chemotherapy, Li Jianqun gradually realized that the reason why he faced death so lonely was rooted in a life choice - she never had children.
Li Jianqun painfully realized that if she had obeyed her family's advice, entered the marriage hall and had a child, then at least on her deathbed, she would have a reliable relative to take care of herself, rather than being alone with a strange nurse to take care of her life.
Sadness and regret swept over, and Li Jianqun finally understood that her original decision was not out of rational prudence, but a fear and resistance to marriage and childbirth.
Unfortunately, it was too late, and she could only watch her life pass by little by little, and finally say goodbye to this world forever in July 2020. During this time of racing against death, Li Jianqun has been doing his best to actively cooperate with the treatment, but the shadow of the disease has ruthlessly spread to every inch of skin on his body.
What makes people sigh is that although she fought alone to the end, she still could not escape the end of her life, and left this world forever at the age of 63.
In the face of Li Jianqun's grief and regret before her death, we can't help but feel sad for what happened to her. She was once in her prime, but in the end, she did not have the company of her loved ones like ordinary patients, and was left alone to be cared for by strangers.
This undoubtedly makes us realize that for everyone, family and children are very important, and without this blood and kinship, life will inevitably leave irreparable regrets.
Another choice for artistic couples
Li Jianqun is not the only artist couple in the entertainment industry who choose to live together and marry informally. Famous director Chen Kexin and actor Wu Junru are another typical example of choosing this lifestyle.
Although Chen Kexin and Wu Junru did not enter the marriage hall, they had a healthy and lovely child together. Although the couple's choices are different from those of Li Jianqun and Chen Jialin, they also reflect the hesitation and resistance of more and more young people to marriage and childbearing.
Of course, we can't deny that there are indeed many examples of happy marriages in real life, but young people tend to be more inclined to beautify and imagine things they have not experienced, ignoring the huge cost of married life.
Rather than regretting it afterwards, it is better to think carefully about what you really want to pursue and whether you have the determination and ability to take on future responsibilities independently before making a life decision.
After all, every choice in life will have an unpredictable impact on our fate, and we need to be careful to make the right choice.
From the choice of Chen Kexin and Wu Junru, the artistic partners, it is not difficult to see that the attitude of the younger generation towards marriage and childbirth has changed significantly.
They are more inclined to choose a free-spirited, uninhibited lifestyle rather than a marriage relationship in the traditional sense. Although this change is related to the development of the times and social pressures, we still need to remain vigilant and cautiously look at this new trend.
After all, as Li Jianqun's case shows, avoiding is not a long-term solution, and we need to have the courage to face life's challenges and take responsibility for our own future.
The last moments of life
One summer day in 2020, 63-year-old Li Jianqun finally found it difficult to continue in the arduous battle against cancer, slowly closed his eyes, and said goodbye to this world forever.
This once talented and flourishing artist finally failed to escape the merciless tricks of fate, and passed away alone.
Looking back on Li Jianqun's life, we can't help but grieve for her regrets. She should have had a happy life, but she suffered too many hardships and blows.
From the shattering of his dream of dancing, to the frustration of his marriage, to the suffering of illness in his later years, the artist has undoubtedly experienced the ups and downs of life.
Sadly, at the last moment before his death, Li Jianqun finally realized that one of his key decisions - refusing to have children turned out to be the biggest regret in her life.
In the long race against death, she faced the torment of illness alone, and her only reliance turned out to be a strange nurse. This undoubtedly highlights the terrible price of her decision back then - the loss of the company of her loved ones, and the inability to even get the warm embrace of her family in the last moments.
If Li Jianqun had been able to follow the advice of her family, bravely enter the marriage hall and give birth to a child, then perhaps in the last stage of her life, she would have been able to have a reliable relative to take care of herself, instead of facing the shadow of death alone.
But sadly, it was too late. Li Jianqun could only watch his life pass by little by little, and finally bid farewell to this world forever in July 2020 at the age of 63.
What is sad is that two years after Li Jianqun's death, her beloved partner Chen Jialin also passed away. This artistic couple was supposed to snuggle up to each other until they grew old, but fate always liked to play tricks on people, and eventually brought them away together.
The only thing missing between them is a blood bond that can bind them together. Perhaps, if Li Jianqun was able to give birth to a child, then even in the last stage of his life, he would still be able to have the company of a blood relative, instead of facing the coming of death alone.
Li Jianqun's regrettable life has sounded a heavy alarm bell for us. She once had countless artistic achievements and accolades, but in the end she failed to achieve happiness in her love life, which undoubtedly makes us realize that love and family are essential for everyone.
Li Jianqun's experience makes us understand that even in the case of a successful career, if we lack the company of our relatives and the continuation of life, we will inevitably leave irreparable regrets in our lives.
Let's learn from Li Jianqun's story and plan our own life path with a more cautious and inclusive attitude. Young people's attitudes towards marriage and childbearing have indeed changed dramatically, and they are more inclined to choose a free lifestyle.
However, we need to be vigilant that excessive avoidance is not a long-term solution, and we must have the courage to face life's challenges and take responsibility for our own future. Only in this way can we avoid repeating the mistakes of Li Jianqun, and in the last stage of life, we can also have the company of our relatives, instead of facing the coming of death alone.