Li Jianqun's dance path
In a warm spring season in 1957, the city of Wuhan gave birth to a southern beauty - Li Jianqun. She has the delicate characteristics of a typical southern woman, with black and bright hair and melon seed face, which makes people look at it.
Li Jianqun's parents found out that their daughter was naturally beautiful, so they let her Xi learn ballet when she could sit up. Li Jianqun has a soft body and has shown amazing talent after studying Xi for a while.
Like an elegant swan, she flutters lightly on the stage, attracting the attention of the audience.
At the age of 10, Li Jianqun participated in a national youth ballet competition and won the championship by an absolute margin. The audience applauded her warmly, and Li Jianqun also experienced the joy of being on the stage for the first time.
She was determined to make ballet her life's work and aspire to become a professional ballet dancer. However, the good times did not last long, and at the age of 13, Li Jianqun accidentally sprained his knee during a high-intensity training session.
Doctors said the injuries were so serious that they might never be able to live up to their former professional standards. This bad news made Li Jianqun, who was still in the flowering season, cry like rain. For her, ballet is a collection of happy memories from her entire childhood.
Faced with the shattering of his dreams, Li Jianqun couldn't accept this fact for a while.
However, there are always unexpected surprises in life. Li Jianqun later regained his strength and decided to devote more energy to painting. She discovered that she also had a talent for painting, and gradually found a new direction.
Li Jianqun shows us that any journey in life can be wonderful. We should not give up all our efforts because of a moment of frustration. A heart full of hope and enthusiasm will eventually light the way ahead.
Li Jianqun's first marriage
During his Xi at the Shanghai Theatre Academy, Li Jianqun met a male student by chance. The boy also learned Xi painting, and the two hit it off at first sight and quickly ignited a fire of love.
Li Jianqun once experienced the pain of having his ballet dream shattered, and once lost his life purpose. After meeting this boy, Li Jianqun rekindled her hope that her artistic creation would bring her a new life.
Li Jianqun loves the boy wholeheartedly and is determined to spend his life hand in hand with him.
The ups and downs of love make Li Jianqun full of beautiful longing for marriage. She dreams that the two will always maintain their original intentions and support each other in pursuing their artistic dreams. After graduating from university, the two decisively registered their marriage and began to live together.
However, the reality shattered Li Jianqun's dream, she found that her husband had lived alone for a long time and developed a lazy and casual problem. He rarely participates in household chores, let alone considerate of his wife's feelings.
Li Jianqun had to leave early and return late and take on all the housework alone.
The tragedy occurred when Li Jianqun suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized. She was alone in the hospital bed, tossing and turning and missing her husband. However, after dozens of phone calls, the husband did not care, he was only immersed in the world of painting, and ignored his wife.
Li Jianqun finally realized that the boy who used to love her with all her heart was now indifferent to her. The unsatisfactory life after marriage made Li Jianqun lose confidence in him.
After careful consideration, Li Jianqun chose to divorce and end this heart-wrenching marriage. This has also become an indelible scar in her heart, and she is more cautious about her feelings.
There are many things in life that cannot be forced, and feelings also need to accumulate bits and pieces of understanding and dedication. We must not blindly strive for it, but wait for the right moment. Li Jianqun's experience makes us realize that marriage needs to be maintained by both parties, and unilateral efforts are difficult to last.
Choices and mistakes determine the consequences, which each of us must face.
Li Jianqun and Chen Jialin met and fell in love
In 1986, Li Jianqun began to develop in the entertainment industry, specializing in fashion design. She is good at using her painting skills to design eye-catching costumes. In 1990, director Chen Jialin approached Li Jianqun and invited her to design costumes for the drama "Tang Minghuang", and the two met because of work.
Li Jianqun's exquisite ability and unique aesthetics in clothing design deeply attracted Chen Jialin. He found that Li Jianqun was not only outstanding on the outside, but also full of wisdom and creativity on the inside.
The two had frequent contact at work, and Chen Jialin was gradually attracted to Li Jianqun, but he did not dare to confess rashly. Once, Li Jianqun's elaborate design helped him succeed, and Chen Jialin plucked up the courage to ask Li Jianqun out to celebrate.
The two had dinner together, and the topic shifted from work to life, and they exchanged heart-to-heart conversations.
At first, Li Jianqun was cautious about feelings, because she still remembered the pain of her young marriage. But Chen Jialin was considerate and never forced Li Jianqun. He carefully cared about Li Jianqun's thoughts, making her feel respected and understood for a long time.
Li Jianqun began to open up and share her past with Chen Jialin. She also gradually realized that Chen Jialin is a person worthy of being entrusted with her life. After a long time together, the two finally confirmed their relationship.
Li Jianqun rekindled her hope for love, and she believed that Chen Jialin could give her sincere feelings.
Life is never easy, and we have to go through all kinds of hardships before we can meet the real people. Li Jianqun's experience makes us understand that love requires careful choice, mutual understanding and consideration.
It also needs to be tested by time, and it cannot be rushed. It takes a lot of patience to wait for someone worthy of your trust to appear. And happiness in the true sense of the word is not built overnight.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Li Jianqun has entered old age. In 2012, a sudden illness caused Li Jianqun to be diagnosed with a malignant tumor. In order to save her life, she can only live a quiet two-person world with her lover Chen Jialin, repeating treatment and recuperation every day.
However, Li Jianqun's condition deteriorated day by day, and he eventually had to be admitted to the hospital for more active treatment.
The days of bed rest were very difficult for Li Jianqun, and she looked at the children who came out of the ward to visit their parents, and her heart was full of indescribable feelings. Once upon a time, Li Jianqun also longed for a beautiful family of three, but her parents who died young could not witness her today.
Thinking of Chen Jialin's gray-haired visit alone, Li Jianqun couldn't help but shed tears. She began to reflect on her decision when she was younger, and if she had chosen to start a family, she might have many children by her side now.
The more he thought about it, the more heartbroken Li Jianqun became, and began to blame himself for being willful and reckless when he was young and not thinking about his parents. When she was dying, she only hoped that Chen Jialin would not spend the rest of her life alone.
Li Jianqun held his lover's hand, said heavy apologies with tears, and asked Chen Jialin to live and not be guilty and misanthropic. She hopes that at least one person will remember her, even if it is only occasionally, it will be enough to comfort Li Jianqun during the journey.
Life inevitably leaves regrets, and we should not let that negate the meaning of the whole journey. Li Jianqun's story reminds us to cherish the time we spend with our loved ones.
Timely communication and understanding are necessary to maintain relationships. Only by learning to be grateful and forgiving can we be open-minded and face the impermanence of life.
Li Jianqun's life has been full of ups and downs, she has been affirmed in many artistic fields, and she has also received sincere love. But because of the decision made when he was young, Li Jianqun's life was inevitably a little regretful.
Commentators have mixed views on this.
With a positive attitude, Li Jianqun is lucky, she has not only achieved success in her career, but also experienced the sweetness of love. Childless does not mean that she is not complete, the important thing is that she has been cared for by Chen Jialin in every way.
They have lived together for 27 years, which is a blessing that many people can't ask for.
However, Li Jianqun, who has a negative attitude, is reckless and thoughtful. A woman who has not tasted the joy of raising children cannot appreciate the meaning of life. Li Jianqun was lonely and helpless in his later years, and he was to blame.
If she hadn't been so stubborn when she was young, maybe her life path would have been smoother and more satisfying.
In the face of all kinds of comments, we should not one-sidedly criticize Li Jianqun's choice. The judgment of a life requires looking at the whole process from her point of view. Although Li Jianqun has no children, her wisdom and beauty have won the appreciation of many people.
Moreover, a child's sense of accomplishment cannot be equated with the full value of a woman. Li Jianqun's life is not perfect, but she infects others with her enthusiasm, which is also admirable.
Li Jianqun's story reminds us not to label the decisions of our loved ones, but to put ourselves in their shoes. We all want to be included and encouraged, and that needs to come from family and friends.
If we give each other more space to choose independently, perhaps regret will not be so regretful. To understand a life, we need to look positively, not critically.
Li Jianqun's life inevitably leaves regrets, but regrets cannot negate the meaning of her life. We should not judge a person's worth based on results alone, but on her courage and creativity.
Li Jianqun has made achievements in many artistic fields, and she dares to pursue her dreams and try different possibilities. Although he repeatedly hit a wall on the emotional road, Li Jianqun did not give up, and finally met his soulmate.
We admire her positive heart. Li Jianqun has practiced her love for art all her life, and she is commendable.
Of course, regrets are inevitable because of personal choices. But regret can be a part of life and should not constitute a definition of a person. We value the positive parts of Li Jianqun's life, and these achievements make up her wonderful life.
Li Jianqun's story reminds us to cherish the present and not leave regrets. Communicate in a timely manner and resolve misunderstandings with loved ones. We are all exploring the meaning of life on different paths, and we need to support each other, not criticize and blame.
Only by treating others with tolerance and understanding, and with positivity and enthusiasm towards life, can we live the true meaning of life.
Li Jianqun has completed his life in his own way, which is worthy of our admiration. Her story will inspire future generations to brave the odds and pursue bravely. We will meet the surprises of life with a positive attitude, continue to surpass, and move forward towards the light.