"What do I think, how do I think they are not a good match. ”
This TV series, which has been on the air for ten years, has always been loved by the audience and has a rating of 9.5.
"Parents' Love" can be said to be a warm and loving family drama, telling the happy and loving life of An Jie and Jiang Defu.
What you don't know is that the original book is completely different from the TV series, Jiang Defu in the original book does not love An Jie.
An Jie gave birth to a total of 7 children for Jiang Defu, lived in pain all his life, and finally chose to hang himself in the woods, and the ending was embarrassing......
An Jie, who has suffered a lifetime
An Jie, as a capitalist lady who has had no worries about food and clothing since she was a child, originally had very superior living conditions, but after marrying Jiang Defu, everything changed.
Jiang Defu is a big old man, he was born and grew up in the countryside, and he is an informal person in his bones.
After entering the army, Jiang Defu lived with a group of big men, going to the battlefield every day and lacking supplies, and in such an environment, his life was even rougher.
For Jiang Defu and An Jie, the lifestyles and concepts of the two are completely different.
Jiang Defu fell in love with An Jie at first sight, An Jie was forced to have some intersections with Jiang Defu because of his bad background, and in the process of getting along slowly, he gradually developed feelings.
After the two got married, An Jie followed Jiang Defu to the dormitory of the military academy, and changed from a large villa to a small cubicle at once, and anyone would be unbalanced.
But An Jie is not sad, she will clean up the house every day and do what a wife should do.
In the original book, Jiang Defu and An Jie gave birth to a total of 7 children, and in that era, it was normal to have seven or eight children.
This full family is very happy in the eyes of others, just like in the TV series, An Jie and Jiang Defu have both children and a happy life.
But the original book is not like this, An Jie has been giving birth to children all her life, and her task seems to be just to pass on the ancestry.
Constantly giving birth to children has also led to An Jie's physical deficit, both physically and mentally, An Jie is facing a lot of pressure.
For such pressure, An Jie could only endure it by himself, extracting his teeth and crushing them into his stomach, because Jiang Defu had no love for An Jie.
Even if there is love at the beginning, but after being married for so many years, it has long been exhausted, and people always have a day of fatigue, and so is the relationship.
Jiang Defu didn't understand An Jie, he only knew that giving birth to a child was what a woman should do, and he didn't know how much pain a woman had to endure in this process.
Without her husband's care and care, An Jie was naturally disappointed, whether it was for Jiang Defu or this marriage.
Even their daughter Yaning said: "What do I think, how do I think they are not a good match." ”
This sentence must not have been seen at a certain moment, but summed up after watching the relationship between parents for so many years.
Their daughters have said so, so how much better can their married life be?
Anjie committed suicide in despair
"I'm afraid I'll scare you if I die at home, and I'm afraid I'll wronged myself if I die too far. ”
In the original book, An Jie, who couldn't stand the emotionless marriage and the passionless life, finally chose to hang himself in a grove.
An Jie was able to marry Jiang Defu, and a large part of the reason was her original family.
When the eldest brother Antai learned that Jiang Defu, who was the head of the artillery school, was chasing his sister, his eyes were about to light up, and he couldn't wait to push An Jie directly into Jiang Defu's arms.
He can bear the feeling of not being able to hold his head up in front of others, as a capitalist, he can only walk with his head down when he goes out, and no one can look down on them.
And if you can climb the relationship with Jiang Defu, it must be of great benefit to the An family.
So in order to settle down, Antai, as the eldest brother, always bows his head in front of Jiang Defu, full of flattery, and can't wait to change his name directly to Brother Jiang Defu, he is really fed up with the days of bowing his head and being a man.
At this time, Antai did not hesitate to sacrifice the happiness of his sister An Jie, just in exchange for the "head up" of the An family.
An Jie also married this old man who was older than her in this way.
With the passage of time, Jiang Defu's official position gradually increased, and An Jie became the wife of an officer who was envied by everyone.
However, after becoming an officer's wife, is she really happy?
Anjie's experience tells us that it is not.
Jiang Defu fell in love with An Jie at first sight because An Jie is beautiful, educated and cultured, and has such a woman, no matter where she has a lot of face.
This is also why Lao Ding always envies Jiang Defu, and at the beginning, he would silently beat An Jie's idea in his heart.
Lao Ding thinks that he can also have a well-educated and beautiful wife, and his arranged marriage wife Wang Xiu'e is a real rural woman, uneducated, uneducated, and full of swear words when she speaks.
So not long after going to the island, Lao Ding and Ge Meixia fell in love, Ge Meixia and An Jie are the same kind of people, and Lao Ding's heart has also been greatly satisfied.
But Lao Ding did not have the courage of Jiang Defu, and in the face of pressure from his superiors, Lao Ding decisively gave up this relationship.
This also shows that Jiang Defu and An Jie's marriage has a purpose, and both parties have a purpose.
An Jie is to give An family face, while Jiang Defu is to give himself a long face.
Jiang Defu is also an arrogant person, after all, he is also a relatively good person, he thinks that only excellent women can match him, and An Jie is a woman who meets Jiang Defu's criteria for choosing a mate.
As everyone knows, a perfect marriage in the eyes of others is an abyss for An Jie.
An Jie followed Jiang Defu to this small island where there was nothing, Jiang Defu was an official here, while An Jie gave up his life in the city to come to this place where he was not accustomed to the water and soil, and did not adapt to anything, and lived a rural life that he had never lived before.
In this marriage, An Jie has paid too much for Jiang Defu, and the people here are all born and raised in the countryside, with no culture and no much education.
Gradually, An Jie got used to this kind of life, and gradually became a rural woman.
In the face of all kinds of pressure, in this home without love and passion, Anjie is just a machine that adds people to the family.
In the past, it was Jiang Defu who tied her up, and slowly, it became the children who restrained her, and she endured too much.
The TV series is too different from the original book, An Jie is happy in the play, even if she has given birth to so many children, but she lives in a loved environment, she is very happy.
In the book, An Jie is not happy, she just blindly gives in life.
In the end, she couldn't stand it anymore, so she chose to hang herself, and the ending was embarrassing......
If she hadn't married Jiang Defu, if she hadn't sacrificed herself for the sake of An's family, would An Jie's life be better, and her ending might have been different.