Text: Jing Ma
According to the China Statistical Yearbook (2022), China's single population is 239 million, of which 116 million are female singles!
"Leftover women" refers to women who have not yet married when they reach the age of marriage, although most of them are 20~30 years old, but there are quite a few people over 30 years old, especially in big cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, where 30-year-old people do not get married, and there are even more people who are not married at the age of 35. #春日生活打卡季#
A 35-year-old woman went on a blind date under the introduction of others, since she went on a blind date, her appearance had to be cleaned up, so she dressed up brightly to go on a blind date, and the man couldn't see her age.
After chatting and chatting, we talked about age, and the woman said that I was 35 years old, and the man's face immediately changed, and the woman was about to go through menopause at the age of 35.
And the 35-year-old woman also felt very aggrieved, and she dressed up brightly to go on a blind date, but she was rejected because she was 35 years old.
When I was chatting in the girlfriend group before, I said that she had a neighbor who was a man who was 88 years old and 35 years old, and I wanted to introduce him to an 87-year-old woman, but I thought that the woman was not much older than him, but the man said: If I want to find a partner now, I must look for the post-90s, not more than 33 years old, because I have to consider having children, and it is difficult for women to have children if they are over 35 years old.
These two real cases tell us: there is an important condition for women in marriage and love, that is, fertility, and the better the fertility of women, the more popular they are in the blind date market.
For example, a woman's age is linked to childbirth, and women look thin waist and buttocks, and it looks like fertility will be better, such women are very popular with those matchmakers and men, and women are also very popular for their good looks, after all, good looks are easier to pass on to the next generation.
But with the progress of the times, many women also have their own place in the workplace, and when they are young, they have to fight for their careers, and when they are older, they find that they are picked by men.
So we will find that most of the "leftover women" are in big cities, and the conditions are not bad, because she can support herself through her own efforts, marriage is not a mandatory option for her, and slowly she is in her 30s or even 40s, and some simply do not get married.
And the male singles are often those in the countryside, that is, the income is very average, because they work in the countryside, so their appearance is also very ordinary, and the family conditions are also very average, so it is more difficult to find a wife. After all, if a woman wants to get married, she hopes to give her children a better future, so women generally marry highly, and if they marry highly, they have to find a man with better conditions than themselves.
In fact, this also tells women: it is still very important to do the right thing at the right time, and if you have the need to get married, then it is best to complete the major events in life before the age of 30.
There are three major benefits for women to get married before the age of 30, and women who want to get married should come and take a look
Benefit 1: Having a child is still the best age to have children
If we get married and have children before the age of 30, then it is easier for us to give birth to healthy children, because the quality of eggs is better at this time, and the mother's body is also healthier, and the recovery of the body after giving birth will be faster.
Benefit 2: You can have multiple children
Some women get married at the age of 35 and finally have a child, and if they want to have a second child, it will be extremely difficult, because at this time the fertility declines, and their physical burden is relatively heavy.
But if you get married before the age of 30, you will have a second child after two years, and a third child in two years, there is no problem at all, after all, now that the country has opened up childbearing, if you like children and your family can't afford it, then it will be better to get married when you are young.
Benefit 3: The cost of reversal will be lower
Now that the divorce rate is so high, if you don't get married until you're 35 years old, then if you get divorced at the age of 40, the option for you to want to marry again is very low.
But if you get married before the age of 30 and find that it is not suitable after a few years, you can still remarry yourself, after all, an important prerequisite for women to get married is their fertility, and if the fertility is okay, there is no problem at all to get married.
So if you want to get married, get married as soon as possible!
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