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For the older generation, marriage is a lifelong thing, but with the development of people's concepts, marriage is no longer blindly from the beginning, but the choice of true love.
It's just that the beginning and end of marriage are never expected, which is also the charm of love, which makes people happy and worried. But love will eventually fall into the essence of marriage, which is the firewood, rice, oil, salt and truth of life.
However, marriage and love are different, because there are many more trivial daily routines. Sometimes it's a pity to see other people's love stories. Especially when this relationship is also mixed with the bride price, the story is much more complicated.
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A man gets engaged to his girlfriend and gets married, and gives the other party three gold bride price to change money and other expenses during the marriage, which is originally an affirmation of a person and the sincerity of wanting to stay together for a lifetime.
However, the marriage of the two could not continue in the end, and they filed for divorce. Divorce means parting ways, and the two people who were once close will return to the bridge from now on, so how to calculate the cost of the bride price?
The man asked to get back the bride price he had given, but at this time, the man's calculation of the bride price was not the number given at the beginning, but added other types of marriage expenses.
got married in May and separated in September, and the two people did not get along for a long time from getting the marriage certificate to actually living together. Why did the two choose to separate after only a few months?
Generally speaking, newly married men and women are sweeter, and many newlyweds also have honeymoon travel arrangements, even if there is no honeymoon vacation, people who have just gotten married, they should also enjoy the sweetness of love, but the two men and women in this story chose to live separately not long after they got married.
Separation is easy to affect the relationship, after all, the relationship requires two people to have more contact and more run-in on a daily basis. Moreover, there is another factual basis for the man's proposal to return the bride price, that is, there is no substantive relationship between the man and his former wife, and the two have not had a relationship.
It is precisely because of this that netizens speculated about who did wrong in this relationship? After marriage, the man and woman did not have a round house, is it the man's fault or the woman's fault?
Some netizens concluded that if it is the fault of one party, then it may be that the other party is losing, and if not, it is the other party that is losing. But for this kind of privacy issue, some netizens said that it is best not to ask.
Of course, we shouldn't speculate too much about the privacy of the parties, but it is still very emotional for the rush of such a marriage. From the time two men and women met to the time they decided to stay together, it took time to set off.
However, it is not easy to decide to stay together for a lifetime, because it means that you only identify with each other, and you can never have different intentions, and live with each other in this life, which is to exclude any other possibility, which requires courage and courage.
If two people do not choose to separate when there is a conflict, but try to solve the problem, I think their marriage will not be so easy to break up.
As for the issue of the return of the bride price discussed later, it is actually very hurtful, after all, this number was once sincere, but later it had to be returned, does this also mean that the former sincerity has been taken back?
It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to stay together, marriage is the practice of both husband and wife, maybe in love, people should be more cautious and tolerant!