When I went to the toilet and was looked at, the other party was a 6-year-old boy, and the parents blamed the woman who was looked at, and even escalated to discrimination!
This female victim is full of buffs, and this dumb person is angry enough to see it, is she really wronged?
Listen to the author's details.
Sichuan Dali Airport, people who travel from here are basically tourists from all over the country, but I didn't expect someone to cause conflicts because of a soak of urine.
The victim's name is Xiaoru here, and on April 7, when Xiaoru was using the toilet at the airport, the door was suddenly opened.
At this time, she was very flustered, she clearly remembered that she locked the door,
I believe that many people have encountered this situation, and the worst is just being looked down upon by the same sex, so it doesn't matter.
But Xiao Ru still reminded: "Someone!"
However, the fact was that there was a little boy standing outside the door.
Xiaoru saw that she was being looked at, and she could only secretly complain about which parent did not take care of the child.
Unexpectedly, the next words of the boy's mother angered Xiao Ru.
I only listen to the woman teach in English: You are not wrong, it is she who is too rude.
It is estimated that the child's mother didn't expect that Xiao Ruru, who was squatting in the toilet, was a returnee, and English was so easy for her.
It is precisely because Xiaoru is an international student that she is worried that the other party is a foreigner, which will affect the impression of foreigners on our people, so she needs to make it clear.
So Xiaoru told the other party in English that he was right, there should be a problem with the door lock, and he was locked.
As soon as the words fell, the toilet door was opened again, this time it was the boy's mother who stood outside the door, she scolded Xiao Ru in English, she thought that Xiao Ru spoke too loudly, which scared her baby son, and she also retorted that Xiao Ru had a hard life, why was she so excited?
小如没想到自己的一泡尿竟然会引发如此可笑的争论，她再次解释，结果却成了对方的“典型例子”，女人用英语教育小男孩说：“see that's why i said there're so many crazy people in China”。
This translates to death: you see, that's why I say why there are so many crazy people in country Z.
But you know, there are many meanings of the word crazy, and "crazy" is just a better interpretation to the ear.
In other words, this Chinese mother does not have a good impression of her compatriots, and even has the taste of discrimination, she herself thinks that it is not enough, and she has to impose her three views on her children.
Hearing this, Xiao Ru completely exploded.
She took out her mobile phone to call the police, but was threatened by the woman: Believe it or not, I will slap you with a big mouth?
Unexpectedly, after the airport police arrived, the woman with a foreign style changed her habits greatly, and told the police uncle that it was because the other party did not lock the door.
On the contrary, it was Xiaoru who was looked at, she was emotional and became the one who "messed around".
Judging from the video exposed by Xiaoru, this is a family of four who came to Dali to travel, the daughter and mother took a boy and a girl, and the little girl at this time was too noisy and covered her ears.
And the boy's grandmother also wanted to turn a big thing into a small thing, and kept comforting Xiaoru: "Don't say it, the two children are still young." ”
Xiaoru said that she understands the inconvenience of raising children, and she is pursuing the verbal discrimination of the boy's mother.
"A 6-year-old boy went into the women's restroom and saw me looking half-naked with my pants off and called me rude?"
After listening to Xiao Ru's cry, the woman actually laughed, and Xiao Ru became her laughing stock again.
"I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you're reasonable, I apologize to you, I think you're reasonable, let's pay attention in the future, we've apologized now, can you let the child go!"
Somehow, after such a fuss as Xiaoru and such a moral kidnapping by the child's grandmother, the victim who was watched made people feel that they were messing around, which is unreasonable.
And the little boy's family of four has become a well-informed and reasonable person who is willing to sacrifice his own interests to fulfill her.
Next, things begin to "reverse", the woman's performance time is up, and she has to reverse the game.
She pulled her baby son and told the police that Xiao Ru had frightened her baby son, who had never experienced such a thing.
Seeing that the matter is getting bigger and bigger, the police can only say that if both parties are not satisfied, they can go to the office for mediation.
Seeing that something was wrong, the child's grandmother could only pull the woman away, after all, they were here to travel, and the plane was about to start boarding.
Leaving Xiaoru standing in place crying, the police reluctantly told her that because the other party was a 6-year-old child and a minor, and the boy was not suspected of violating the law when he opened the door of the women's toilet, he couldn't deal with it, so he could only do so.
In the end, Xiaoru said, the police found the airport's infrastructure staff to apologize to her, which was a comfort.
And this result also made many netizens puzzled, many people thought that the boy's mother should be made to apologize, and not to promote the arrogance of the wrong party.
Throughout the whole incident, Xiaoru is dissatisfied with the posture of the boy's mother, giving others a hat, and even giving the child a wrong education, and the woman should apologize for her wrong remarks, which is the right way to educate, not to do things with a different face.
From beginning to end, Xiaoru didn't do anything wrong, if strictly speaking, it can only be said that she was too loud in public, did not control her emotions, and affected other passengers, and the woman and grandma were more at fault.
It was wrong for the child's mother to take her son into the women's bathroom.
It is an indisputable fact that today's children are very precocious, and along with "early" maturation, there is also the children's self-care ability.
In general, 6-year-old boys already have the ability to go to the toilet alone, because "how to go to the toilet" is a compulsory lesson in kindergarten.
However, as an adult, the woman brought her son into the women's bathroom, and the boy's entry into the women's toilet did not stimulate his precocious puberty.
If she could think about other girls, and at the same time consider the difference between men and women, and really for the good of her son, I believe she would not do it.
There is no reason for the child's mother to take her son into the women's toilet, or even let him open the toilet door of the women's toilet without permission.
Because a woman is not traveling alone with her two children, she is accompanied by her children's grandmother.
If the little girl wants to go to the toilet, a parent can take care of the boy outside the toilet.
If the boy wants to go to the toilet, he can go directly to the independent mother and baby bathroom, or even take the child to the toilet when the parents are sure that there is no one in a certain pit.
If the parents were responsible, the little boy would not have opened the toilet door to look at others.
The child's mother's education method and three views are shocking.
As a Chinese, there is no dispute that women communicate with their children in English, after all, it is good for children to live in an English-speaking environment from an early age.
However, the woman blamed others for her mistake in English in front of the person concerned, excusing her son.
The most infuriating thing is that women are suspected of discriminating against and smearing Chinese people, and they also impose self-righteous views on their children.
It can also be seen from this that the woman is a person who is keen on admiring foreign countries, and the irony is that she is taking her children to visit the great mountains and rivers of the motherland.
Most of this kind of people have information barriers, and in today's world where information is so developed and national self-confidence is rising, she still cares that the air abroad is sweet.
We cannot insist on judging that everything abroad is good or everything is bad, but we can say with certainty that the quality of Chinese and the quality of life at home have surpassed most countries.
For example, the cousin of the elder brother ran a red light when he took a random photo in France.
Without swearing, even dogs will wait for traffic lights in China.
The French subway is full of "beggars" who play the role of disabled beggars, while the domestic subway has long been gone.
Even, the eldest cousin was disgusted to the point of retching by roadside feces in the center of Paris.
You must know that France is a developed country, and the existence of one of the five international metropolises of Paris, I did not expect these scenes to appear here.
All in all, the mother of the child in the incident should wake up, her three views will ruin the children, and now some netizens have listed seven sins for her and the child's grandmother, I don't know if the mother and daughter can have a trace of remorse after reading it.
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