Gao Ziqi and Cai Lin, a Chinese-South Korean transnational ex-couple, actually came out after four years of divorce!
Recently, Cai Lin uploaded a happy picture of Gao Ziqi and her son's gift (milk name) meeting and playing together on ins.
In the picture, Gao Ziqi is walking in the amusement park with his son, the child is very lively and cheerful, and has been talking to him excitedly.
Afterwards, the father and son played the slide together.
Shoot together.
Play games together.
Let's ride a spinning car together.
This may be the magic of blood, it doesn't seem to be rusty.
Gao Ziqi and Cai Lin got married in 2014, and Cai Lin gave birth to a son in December 2017.
From the photos of his son's feet posted by Gao Ziqi at that time, it can be known that the child was born in South Korea.
But after the gift was 2 years old, the news of Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi's suspected divorce suddenly spread on the Internet, and finally, the two announced their divorce in 2020.
After the divorce, Cai Lin has been living in South Korea with her son, and renamed the child Park Min Woo. (Cai Lin's original name is Park Cai Lin)
Gao Ziqi has been working and living in China, and the epidemic has been superimposed in a foreign country for three years, according to Cai Lin, his son has not seen his father since he can remember, and he once thought that he had no father.
When the child was older, Cai Lin said that she could clearly feel her son's desire for his father, and the son also wanted to know why he didn't have a father at home.
When I go outside, I always stare at the children who are with my father, but the children are very smart and don't say anything even if they want to know about their father.
Once, Cai Lin couldn't bear it, so she asked her son if he wanted to see his father?
Cai Lin took the initiative to tell her son, "You don't have a father, you have a father." ”
When Gift heard that he had a father, his expression changed.
Cai Lin comforted her son, "You have a father, but you can't see it now." ”
After that, she showed the child a photo of Gao Ziqi, and the child didn't speak, so she kept looking at her father's photo quietly for a long time.
And finally said, "Is this Daddy?"
After learning that he had a father, the gift would never pay attention to the family with his father again.
One time when I went to school, a friend asked for a gift, "Where's your dad?"
The gift said very calmly, "My dad can't come in China." ”
At this moment, Cai Lin felt that she was right to tell her children about her father, and the gift could respond well to other people's questions about her father.
After understanding that her son needs a father, Cai Lin will also mention Gao Ziqi with her son from time to time, and every time she finishes speaking, the gift will have a loving hug for her mother.
Cai Lin couldn't hold back her tears when she said this, she really felt sorry for the child.
And it is impossible for Gao Ziqi not to want children, or not to see children, he sends blessings every year on the child's birthday.
As for why they haven't been able to see each other for a long time, it has to start with his divorce from Cai Lin.
At that time, there were still many rumors about the reasons for the divorce of the two, and the deterioration of their relationship was suspected to have occurred in 2018.
In February 2019, Gao Ziqi posted on Weibo to summarize the past year, saying that a lot of things happened and experienced in 2018......
Cai Lin emptied her Weibo attention and content without warning, and felt like saying goodbye to the past.
can vaguely feel that their breakup is not so harmonious.
After the two officially announced their divorce, it was revealed that Cai Lin suffered from postpartum depression after giving birth to her son, and wanted Gao Ziqi to follow her back to South Korea for development, but Gao Ziqi felt that her roots were unwilling to go in China, and the two were estranged.
Cai Lin has been living in South Korea with her children, Gao Ziqi has lived alone in Beijing for more than a year, and then Gao Ziqi went to South Korea to find Cai Lin's mother and son, Cai Lin came out to see Gao alone, and the whistleblower said that Cai Lin "didn't let Gao see the child".
Although the truth of this revelation has not been verified, it is true that neither side is suitable for the life of the other country, and neither is willing to compromise for the other party.
Compared with the couple Qiu Zixuan and Yu Xiaoguang, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi are poor in language communication, the previous pair before falling in love, because Qiu Zixuan's Chinese level is very good, there is no problem in communication, but Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi need to rely on translators after marriage.
One is unwilling to learn Chinese, and the other is not learning Korean. Texting each other is written in English.
Gao Ziqi and Cai Lin joked that she was "neurotic", and the meaning changed after the translator translated, Cai Lin's face was not good when she saw it, and asked Gao Ziqi Why are you this kind of person.
Communication is difficult, let's say, how can you have fun playing?
Judging from the situation at that time, both Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi wanted to live in their own country, and they were full of reasons and there was nothing wrong with that.
From Cai Lin's point of view, she is in a foreign country, does not know Chinese, has no friends, and is very lonely.
After giving birth to a baby, whenever her husband goes out to work, she has to take care of the child alone, and it is difficult to communicate with her in-laws, think about how helpless and lonely she should be!
And Cai Lin has a very tough personality, once she encounters an uncomfortable situation in her relationship, she will decisively choose to divorce, which can be clearly felt from her first marriage.
Cai Lin married South Korean singer Lee Seung-hwan in 2003, and the two were very affectionate at the time, but suddenly announced their divorce three years later. According to media reports, the main reason for the divorce of the two was personality differences.
There is also a theory that Lee Seung-hwan was revealed to be ambiguous with the actress who cooperated in the shooting of the MV. The third party was once so arrogant that she directly approached Cai Lin and asked her to do it herself, and it was best to quit.
Cai Lin has always dared to love and hate, it is said that after the relationship between the two was not good, Cai Lin went to China to work in anger, and Lee Seung-hwan tried to redeem it many times, but in the end Cai Lin still chose to divorce.
And in this marriage with Gao Ziqi, she is also very decisive.
In South Korea, Cai Lin is indeed much more comfortable, and everything is a familiar environment.
She doesn't need to worry about work either, after all, she is the original Korean goddess.
Representative works include "The Temptation of Eve" (also known as "Falling in Love with a Female Anchor"), "Tatsuko's Spring", "Green Grass", etc., and opportunities are everywhere.
Standing on Gao Ziqi's side again, it is understandable that he is unwilling to give up his life in China.
Gao Ziqi and Guo Jingfei are college classmates, graduated from Shanghai Theater Academy, although they are not well-known, they are powerful actors.
He played the role of "Xiao Jian" in the new version of "Huanzhu Gege". (Zhao Liying played "Qing'er" in the play, and the two also had scandals)
"Scarlet Xiangxi" played "Long Yaowu".
also starred in "Cha Classmate Boy", playing "Liu Junqing" in the play.
has been rooted in the mainland entertainment industry for many years, and suddenly gave up going to South Korea with his wife and children, and anyone has to struggle.
In addition, Gao Ziqi's parents are old, in poor health, and have many underlying diseases, and he, as a son, cannot go away.
A few years ago, Gao Ziqi didn't take much drama, and it is said that he has been taking care of his parents in Taiyuan, Shanxi.
In December 2022, during the epidemic, Gao Ziqi posted that her mother died of the epidemic and was grief-stricken.
It's easy to say anything when you love Nong, but after a long time, in the face of firewood, rice, oil and salt, life is trivial, and when the contradictions between the two parties cannot be adjusted, the only choice for the two is to divorce.
Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi are very good in that they have never said a bad word about each other.
When the woman was suspected of responding to the divorce, she only said, "I'm not the kind of character who wants to explain and understand, I just spend my life silently and with all my might." ”
And Gao Ziqi sincerely blessed Cai Lin, hoping that she would not be disturbed and that everything would be fine.
When Cai Lin took her son to participate in a Korean variety show, she showed the letter she and Gao Ziqi wrote to her son together, which shows that she did not lose all of their past lives, at least the part about her son, Cai Lin has kept it well.
Just this morning, after Gao Ziqi came back from seeing his son in South Korea, he also posted many photos with his son on Weibo, saying that he was very happy to meet his son and looked forward to seeing him next time.
The most important thing is that Gao Ziqi thanked Cai Lin, the mother of "Liwu", and said that Cai Lin trained her son so well.
Cai Lin really teaches the child very well, the little guy is never picky, chubby, and loves to eat any food.
The gift child is smart and cute, and the mouth is super sweet, especially coquettish, and especially good at coaxing the mother to be happy.
Sweet words to his mother, often praise his mother for being beautiful.
Because her son is so cute and well-behaved, Cai Lin always can't help but kiss her son.
Cai Lin is very attentive to her son, and will teach her children to recognize the national flag on weekdays, etc., which is entertaining.
In addition to Korean, the gift children also speak English very well, and they are very good at drawing inferences, and Cai Lin also let her son learn Chinese.
The gift is eco-friendly and will go to pick up trash with mom.
He also loves animals and plants very much, and grows vegetables in the vegetable garden with his mother, and Cai Lin also raises insects for his son.
Occasionally, Cai Lin also took her son to attend the event, so that her son was not afraid of big scenes.
It is precisely because she loves her son that when Cai Lin sees that her son wants to see his father, she will unreservedly fulfill her son's wishes.
This time, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi reconciled and played with their children in South Korea together, which truly explained what it means to be a parent who loves a child.
It is said that the little guy looks like his father, and he is completely Xiao Gao Ziqi.
No wonder the father and son just met, they played together and posted it.
Many people saw the picture of Gao Ziqi and his son getting along happily, and hoped that he could remarry Cai Lin. But the problem is that the two of them are still not going to compromise and change for the other person, and the problem is still not solved.....
One of the reasons why they can be so calm is that the parties have moved on to the past, and the main reason is that they love their children more.
In fact, it doesn't matter whether you remarry or not, just be happy.
And the so-called decent divorced couples are probably like this.