My name is Zhang Xiaoming, I am 30 years old this year, and I am an ordinary office worker. I was born in an ordinary family, my parents were ordinary workers, and my life was ordinary and unpretentious. I'm an ordinary person myself, and I don't have anything special about it, but I'm still satisfied.
My life was peaceful until one day, I received an email from a stranger. The content of the email was simple, just a few words: "One will figure it out, the other will not figure it out." When you understand these words, you will be relieved. "At first, I didn't pay much attention to the email, thinking it might just be a stranger's joke.
However, these words pierced my heart like a thorn and made me unable to let go. I began to think about the meaning of these words over and over again, but each time I felt confused and powerless. One moment I feel that I understand, and the next I feel that I don't understand, and my mood is fickle.
I began to take the initiative to find the answers, trying to understand these words from different perspectives. I read a lot of books, consulted many friends, and even found a counselor. However, I have never found an answer that satisfies me.
As the days passed, I found myself getting more and more stuck in a difficult situation. My work and life were affected, and I became more and more depressed and anxious. I felt as if I was being bound by an invisible force that prevented me from living freely.
Until one day, I decided to put this thing aside for a while and focus on my work and life. I started working harder, actively participating in various activities, and gradually shifting my attention to other areas. I found that when I focused on my work and life, my mood gradually became lighter.
As time went on, I slowly forgot those few words that bothered me. I realized that there are some things in life that cannot be fully understood and explained, and we can only go with the flow and go with the rhythm of life. Perhaps, the real relief lies in letting go of obsessions and accepting the reality that you can't control everything.
Now, I live a peaceful and happy life, and I have learned to cherish the people and things in front of me and stop worrying about things that I can't understand. I learned that life doesn't stop moving forward because of our troubles, we just have to go with the flow and enjoy the beauty of life.
Thank you for your support!