My name is Wang Li, and I am a girl from an ordinary family. I was born in a small city, and my parents were ordinary working-class people who worked hard every day for the life of my brother and me. I am the only daughter in the family, and I have been pampered since I was a child, so I have developed a relatively independent and strong character.
After I graduated from college, I met my husband, Li Ming. He was a very attractive man, handsome and funny, which made me fall in love at first sight. We fell in love for two years and finally entered the palace of marriage.
However, life after marriage was not what I wanted. Li Ming is a lazy person who has nothing to do all day long, and he is completely unenterprising. On the other hand, I have to be busy with work, taking care of household chores, and my life is very stressful. I tried to communicate with him in the hope that he would change, but he always found all kinds of excuses to shirk responsibility, which made me feel very disappointed and helpless.
One night, I couldn't stand his laziness and selfishness and decided to have a showdown with him. I told him that I couldn't go on like this, that I needed a partner who could take responsibility and work together. I don't want our marriage to go down like this, I want him to be aware of his problems and try to change.
However, instead of taking my words seriously, he blamed me for not being considerate of him and not understanding him. I felt so depressed and sad that I began to doubt my choices and decisions. I felt like I was stuck in a quagmire that I couldn't get out of.
Eventually, I decided to leave him and go back to my mother's home. I told him that I needed a period of calm thinking and that I didn't want our marriage to fall apart because of mutual incomprehension and communication. I hope he can seriously think about his problems and work hard to change, otherwise our marriage will really be meaningless.
When I returned to my parents' home, I told my parents about my troubles and worries. After hearing this, they felt very sorry for me and advised me to be strong and not to give up my happiness because of someone who did not know how to cherish me. I felt their love and support, and I realized that I should be stronger and braver, and I should not give up my happiness and dreams because of temporary difficulties.
Just as my family and I were debating how to deal with the marriage issue, there was a knock on the door. When I opened it, it was my husband's father-in-law. He looked at me with a solemn expression and said, "Li'er, it's my son who is not worthy of you. He failed in his duty as a husband and made you suffer. I will advise him to reflect on it, and I hope you will forgive him. ”
When I listened to my father-in-law's words, I was so moved that I almost burst into tears. I saw a deep apology and remorse in his eyes, as well as his concern and understanding for me. I know that at this moment, I finally got his understanding and support, and it also made me more determined to start over.
Eventually, my husband and I finally got back together after a long period of communication and hard work. He realized his problems, worked hard to change, and became a responsible husband and father. Our marriage has also become stronger and happier because we have both learned to value each other and understand the importance of each other.