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Brilliant career
Yu Ting, this resounding name is well known in the backfield of CCTV. From an unknown ordinary girl in a small town to a well-known host who was later named "Little Ni Yan in the New Era", her life trajectory is by no means smooth.
Fortunately, since she was a child, Yu Ting has shown extraordinary talent and unique temperament. In the small town where she grew up, this outstanding girl is far behind her peers in both academic and other aspects, and shines brightly.
With her diligence and self-motivation, she was finally admitted to the Communication University of China, her dream school, which paved the way for her ideal road to radio and television in the future.
After entering the university, Yu Ting did not become complacent because of the superior environment, but was more diligent than ever. Her attitude towards learning is almost paranoid, and she is immersed in hard reading all the time.
The hard work paid off, and with her excellent academic performance, she quickly stood out and became a recognized representative of the top students in her classmates.
After graduating from university, Yu Ting got her wish and entered the high-profile stage of CCTV and started a more brilliant and dazzling career. Every newcomer who enters CCTV is eager to prove himself as soon as possible and show his worth, and Yu Ting is no exception.
At that time, she was simply the embodiment of an exemplary employee. Every morning, before the sky is completely bright, Yu Ting is ready to go, full of energy, and braves the cold wind and frost to embark on the journey to CCTV.
For others, an hour and a half commute may be long and tedious, but for Yu Ting, these journeys have become a precious time for her to think about planning the show.
As soon as she arrives at the TV station, Yu Ting will immediately devote herself to the busyness of work, and treat every task with an extraordinary persistence. Sometimes she is so devoted to her work that she is so paranoid that she often forgets that she may be too much in the eyes of outsiders.
One year, during the Spring Festival, she took the initiative to take on an urgent task, so that for the first seven days, she worked around the clock. When the project was finally successfully completed on schedule, Yu Ting's face was pale due to overwork, and the corners of her mouth even cracked into some small openings.
However, the hard work has finally paid off with sweet fruits. With her warm, kind, and friendly hosting style, Yu Ting quickly won a place in the hearts of the audience, and was soon affectionately called "Little Ni Yan" by the audience.
Her career is getting better and better, and her life is getting better and better, just when Yu Ting is about to enter the next stage of her life, fate has opened a new door to her life.
Cancer experience
April 2024, a sunny day. At a public speaking event, Yu Ting slowly stepped onto the stage, ready to share her personal experience with everyone present.
"Dear friends, today I would like to share with you a special story. Yu Ting's tone was sincere, and her eyes flashed with perseverance, "This story happened to me."
"That day, I was in the hospital and was diagnosed with breast cancer. Yu Ting's voice suddenly vibrate, and her face was full of the vicissitudes of struggle, "At that moment, my world seemed to collapse in front of my eyes.
There was an uproar in the audience, and everyone was moved by Yu Ting's sincere narration, as if they were in her experience.
The scene was silent, and only Yu Ting's firm voice lingered in everyone's ears. Everyone held their breath and looked forward to the more brutal experiences that would be uncovered one by one.
Despair and struggle
On the day of the operation, Yu Ting came to the hospital with trepidation, for fear that everything would change. At first, she thought that the doctor would only need to remove a small piece of the tumor for her and be fine, but she never expected to hear the bad news next.
"Ms. Yu Ting, depending on your situation, we have to remove the entire right breast for you. "
This is undoubtedly a blow to Yu Ting. As a woman who loves beauty and values her own charm, being forced to have her breasts cut is tantamount to death. When the doctor finished recounting the details of the operation, Yu Ting closed her eyes and let out a long sigh, the expression on her face was as gloomy as the night.
In this way, the six-hour operation kicked off in Yu Ting's anxious waiting. She had a sense of foreboding, as if she was being split apart, and her body was being artificially "reorganized".
Sure enough, the surgeon not only removed her entire right breast, but also implanted a catheter in her left arm in preparation for subsequent chemotherapy.
From that moment on, Yu Ting felt that she had been robbed of the charm that a woman should have, and the whole person seemed to be doomed to a fate that was incompatible with ordinary people. However, what was more brutal than the surgery was the next 8-month chemotherapy process that she had to face alone.
"Every 24 days, there is chemotherapy. Recalling those days, Yu Ting's eyes couldn't help but moisten, and her tone was full of pain, "As long as I think of those days, I feel extremely painful, and I once fell to my knees and begged the doctor to prescribe painkillers for me."
However, the doctor bluntly said that he could not do it. "You can only get through it by your own willpower. This is undoubtedly the most cruel test for Yu Ting.
She later described the physical and mental torture as if someone was holding a sharp sword and repeatedly cramping in her body, as if she was in a fire and could not sleep.
"At one point, I even wanted to kill myself by jumping off a building. Yu Ting said sadly, "That kind of pain is almost tearing apart my life." What was even more terrifying was that I was unarmed and didn't even have the courage to end my life.
As the mother of a 5-month-old baby, Yu Ting is indeed under unimaginable pressure. She clearly remembers that every time she looks at her daughter's innocent smiling face, she will be entangled in incomparable self-blame and pain in her heart, for fear that her departure will make this innocent life lose her mother's love forever.
For Yu Ting, hugging her daughter is a luxury, let alone taking care of her daily life. Due to long-term chemotherapy, she has no time to take care of anything else, even if she drinks a sip of water or swallows a mouthful of food, she needs to be taken care of by her family throughout the whole process.
Every time she thinks back to that period, Yu Ting feels that she is a physically and mentally exhausted person.
Inner monologue
Every time she thinks back to those days, Yu Ting is like sitting on the edge of a burning crater, and her whole person is shrouded in endless pain and suffering. However, it was that long process that made her begin to reflect on her past lifestyle and re-examine the true value of life.
"I used to be like a wild horse that was forever galloping, lest I fall behind. Yu Ting sighed, her face full of reminiscences of the past, "From a small town to Beijing, I was admitted to a prestigious school, entered CCTV, and later changed careers to start a business, which seemed to have a smooth journey, but I also paid too much physical and mental price."
Speaking of this, Yu Ting couldn't help but fall into a short contemplation. She looked out the window thoughtfully, her eyes in a trance, as if she was recalling the hardships of those years.
"For the sake of fame and fortune, in order to be praised as 'excellent', I work overtime day after day, sometimes even all night. Yu Ting sighed, her tone was full of sourness, "I used to stupidly think that only in this way can I realize my own value and be worthy of these two words."
These words were like a hammer, hitting the hearts of everyone present. Yes, in this utilitarian society, how many people have unconsciously hurt their body and mind for some kind of vanity or achievement, until their lives are seriously threatened, and they suddenly realize the value of health.
"If I could do it all over again, I would definitely prioritize my health. Yu Ting's words were firm and powerful, as if telling the pain in her heart, "Because the greatest wealth in life is not money and status, but having a strong body."
Without health, all dreams will come to naught.
This sentence is simple and thought-provoking. Putting aside all utilitarianism, for everyone, having a healthy body is the most valuable asset. Just as Yu Ting experienced, when trapped in the cage of cancer, everything that she had worked hard to pursue in the past seemed so small and pale in front of life.
"I really hope that through my personal experience, more people can realize the value of health. Yu Ting earnestly taught the young people present, "Don't repeat my mistakes, the achievements that are exchanged for life are not real achievements."
Being alive is a kind of happiness in itself, and having a healthy body and mind is the greatest gift.
After coming out of the haze of cancer, Yu Ting witnessed the preciousness of life and re-examined her focus on life. In the past, she was like a wild horse that was always galloping, moving forward bravely and iron-clad.
Now, after experiencing that period of time that seemed like nine deaths, her heart has a new awakening.
"After surviving, I had a new understanding in my heart. Yu Ting said, her face full of calmness and relief, "Now I don't have so many greedy requirements for life, I just hope that my family is healthy and my children grow up healthy and healthy."
Being surrounded by family and friends and spending my old age in peace is my greatest wish.
Once upon a time, Yu Ting was still that vigorous and ambitious young man, and her pursuit of career was almost paranoid. However, after experiencing the line of life and death, she finally realized that health is more precious than fame and fortune.
Today, she spends most of her time and energy on the company and care of her daughter.
"As a working woman, I have been on the go all year round and missed out on the bits and pieces of my daughter's growth. When Yu Ting said this, tears appeared in the corners of her eyes, "If I hadn't experienced that encounter, I might have regretted it for the rest of my life."
Yes, for every mother, stealing time to spend with her children and watching them grow up healthy and happy may be the greatest wish. This is also the thing that Yu Ting cherishes the most after she regained her life from the hands of illness.
"I used to put my work first, but now I finally understand that life comes first. Yu Ting smiled and said, "Without a healthy body and mind, it is difficult for us to achieve any ideals and dreams."