In his previous life, he enjoyed too much happiness, and in this life he became a parent in Pudong
Text | Thirteenth sister
Recently, the high-frequency words in various old mother groups are life events that test cardiovascular strength, such as small promotion and lottery......
Parents of Xiaoshengchu are the most excited, even more excited than parents of the middle and high school entrance examinations, because Xiaoshengchu contains a "lottery", which adds metaphysical elements to it.
Everyone began to discuss the probability of "winning" in the lottery in each district, and some parents were ready to give up.
A parent of a junior high school in Pudong said: "Shake, you must shake, it is impossible not to shake!"
She said that her child has reached the 8th grade in mathematics and can take the English test level 4......
See, people are very sure that their children must be "chicken heads" when they go to public counterpart junior high schools, and it is not interesting, only lottery into a private cattle school is the best arrangement of fate.
Then a parent in Xuhui District jumped out and advised her to "don't be so absolute", and said, "As long as the child has the ability, in fact, he can have the last laugh in any school he goes." ”
Hearing this, the Pudong parents threw out a picture:
The one in Xuhui stopped talking.
Jing'an, Yangpu, Minhang and Putuo are also quiet.
The concept of having the last laugh in 30,000 people is not the same as having the last laugh in 8,000 people.
Pudong's huge number of high school entrance exams is scary enough, if you come to a "comparison chart of the number of schools in each district", everyone will feel more sorry for Pudong parents, so who doesn't want to enter a "sure" junior high school, after all, everyone wants to go to high school.
In the area of educational resources, there is no harm if there is no comparison, and if we compare it with the "people-school ratio" of educational resources in other districts, how can we understand the situation in Pudong? It is almost equivalent to Shanghai stuffing the entire Gansu Province east of the Huangpu River.
Imagine that an entire Gansu province of high school students competes with students from all districts of Shanghai except Pudong, and not every district of high school can take the exam and is willing to go. What do you say is the position of Pudong parents in Shanghai's education circle?
It must be that he enjoyed too much happiness in his previous life, and he became a Pudong parent in this life, and he must bear more.
Parents in other districts also rolled, but they rolled because they wanted to, and Pudong parents rolled because many of them didn't know what the days were like when they didn't roll, and they wouldn't.
Several large communities in Pudong are crowded with new Shanghainese who have graduated from prestigious schools and have a good income, and as the "second generation of students", their children do not know what it means to not roll.
I'm also in Pudong, but I'm a late maturing and late starter, and I'm quite "unsociable" at first. A few years ago, I was shocked when I first heard some Pudong mothers give me an "ideological education class". They analyzed the importance of Xiao Shengchu and described the basic Xiao Shengchu strategy, which is about 90% of the proprietary codes and secret terms, which is the first time I have heard of it.
All night, my mind was full of those fascinating and terrifying code words like underground organizations—small blackboard, occupy pit, reserve, Australian cattle, British cattle, point moves, small W class...... As soon as I looked in the mirror, I saw that I had school choice, school choice, school choice written on my face...... When he saw his son in a blink of an eye, he seemed to have Caichang Middle School, Caichang Middle School, Caichang Middle School written all over his body......
I feel that my life has officially turned on the yellow light from that day, and I am desperately tossing it, it may be a green light, and a little slack and slack is a red light......
When the child's father heard that I had insomnia, he put down his soldering iron and began to comfort me: Isn't the school in front of my house very good?
I know that all the parents of elementary and junior high school students in Shanghai are in full swing, but the intensity in Pudong is obviously more evil, and it is "the opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared".
But in Pudong, there are too many people who are prepared......
If middle-aged people are anxious, then Shanghai is anxious about middle-aged people looking at Pudong.
If anyone opens his mouth to "have something to be anxious about", I don't even bother to tell him "I am a Pudong parent".
Anyone who talks about humanitarianism will not persuade Pudong parents to want to open something.
How do you want to open, you want to open more before you want to open, you let me want to open, I will live a life of sit-ups, and I will be rolled up by everyone after not lying down for two minutes.
Those who persuaded me to open a few points have made me disrespectful.
My mother told me to eat, but I turned a deaf ear. Dad called me to drink water, but I was indifferent. My husband told me to sleep, and I excused myself in every possible way. My son took the certificate of award from the school and asked for praise, but I turned a blind eye, is this thing helpful for your junior high school entrance examination? Is it useful for the high school entrance examination? It is useless for the college entrance examination? Take it aside.
Pudong is a special presence in Shanghai's educational community, as Jerusalem is to the West.
People all over the world say how rich the educational resources of children in Shanghai are, how easy it is to go to university, and it is effortless to go to university...... Even Xuhui wouldn't agree with that, let alone Pudong. Especially in the whirlpool of policy information that will change every few days, we are sucking in all kinds of exciting and mysterious changeable rain and dew.
I propose to include Pudong in the Global Uninhabitable Areas.
There are many advantages here. But there are more candidates.
Parents in other districts can also develop the habit of "participating in community activities" and "enriching their spare time" in addition to studying, but what about parents in Pudong? Community activities are to learn from neighbors what classes are available nearby, and their spare time is to see how much of their children's extracurricular homework is left to complete.
Middle-aged people who have never been parents in Pudong will laugh and say nothing when they say that they are miserable.
Do you know what it means to have too many children, that is, how do you feel that there are prodigies everywhere?
How can the children who win at the starting line grab a lot of handfuls?
People's babies are surrounded by all kinds of cups and competitions with high gold content, and my child, what does he have......?
Statistics says that experimental data with large sample sizes are more reliable, and when you think about it, it's even more terrifying.
Parents in Pudong know best what the "chain of educational discrimination" is.
In other districts, the chain of parental discrimination may look like this:
Free-range > happy education > step-by-step education > homework education > extracurricular class education > no weekends and no rest education > non-stop rush exams and competition education > tiger mom and wolf dad forcing children to death education
In Pudong, the chain of parental discrimination is as follows:
Very curly> a little curly> curly
When I was in the first grade, my mother told me that she had already decided which junior high school her child would attend, and that she was already training her child in that direction.
We laughed at her at the time, "The child is so young, you decide his life for him, isn't that right?" The child just wants to play, to release his nature, don't push him too hard......
By the fifth grade, my free-range parents (like me) had silently burrowed into the corner, quietly wiping away tears with the empty "Little Junior High School Plan".
only to understand:
Those "visionary" parents, now standing proudly on the top of the mountains, overlooking all living beings, holding in their hands the amount of information and secret information accumulated in the past five years, far ahead of the overwhelmed people who are still messy in the wind, I suddenly woke up, it turned out that the starting line is here......
In Pudong, most of the middle-aged people who have to seriously face the promotion of kindergarten to primary school, junior high school, high school entrance examination, and college entrance examination are preparing for various ways in a cramped and panic manner just like preparing for the college entrance examination back then, plus the policies are turning over tricks every year, and they can write a 600,000-word paper just by familiarizing themselves with the prospects of policy analysis.
The most exciting thing is that most of the "ways" are still something you can't see through at all, and you can only rely on "guessing".
Since there has been a "lottery", there have been several batches of Pudong mothers in major temples and Taoist temples.
Xiao Shengchu is about to rise, and their greetings are "Are you shaking" and "Are you burning".
It's just that in Pudong, the parents of high school students seem to be much lighter, compared with the parents of the junior high school entrance examination and the parents of the high school entrance examination, the parents of the college entrance examination candidates are more unfazed, because there is finally a battle that is not divided, and the parents of Pudong finally stand on the same starting line with the parents of all other districts.
Round after round, every year, many Pudong parents escaped, and at the same time, there were also many Pudong parents who had just started to cultivate immortals. Moreover, this is the subtlety of Pudong - the younger the baby, the more the parents will be involved, after all, it seems that their cultivation path is still far away......
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