Text/Han Xueli
Make a decision – they always have a big reason to prove that they are right better than you, they are the most wronged people, and they are all for your good
Don't talk too much with women, talk too much, don't say no trouble, this is Jiang Hanxing's words, Jiang Hanxing to this subordinate who is separated by a few levels, looking at Tang Tao and Qiao Ting's face, I have to come forward to chat for a while, his words, the person you like, just talk more, the woman you don't like, just be polite and polite, and then, what people say, you shouldn't hear it, don't be reasonable, the more you talk about it, the more you ignore it, they always have a big reason to prove that they are more correct than you, they are the most wronged people, and they are all for your good.
Now Ma Qianli believes that Mr. Jiang is amazing, it's really true, for example, when he is at home, as long as he says anything, whether it is her mother or Zhao Yan's mother, he will open his mouth, you know a fart, I am not for your good, I am not a cow and a horse for you, what am I living for, what life do I owe to you, you have no conscience and don't know what to do, anyway, no matter what, this is an essential word, such words make his head big, so he simply doesn't say anything, so at least, don't scold, scold people, scold people, he can't be reasonable, can't communicate, can't do anything, what can he do, he found that he contributed his ears。
After this, at least, there is less conflict, but I feel a little lost, when, when is he going to spend his days like this, is there a sense of happiness, I can't say no, for example, the son he is holding, when he is eating, he also holds his son with one hand and eats with the other, at this time, he feels full of strength.
Thinking of Accountant Wu's words, it is not easy for women, and it is not easy for your wife, on the one hand, it is your mother, on the other hand, on the other hand, it is not easy for her, you are almost done, don't look at anything else, look at the son born to you, how rare people are raised to be white and fat, okay, life is almost enough, where there is right and wrong, only compromise, if you are troubled, it is you who do not compromise enough.
He and Accountant Wu still have to talk, Accountant Wu is an intellectual, patient and gentle, will not scold, will not be impatient, he sighed, yes, compromise, I have compromised, my savings for a few years, let my mother-in-law not even see a splash in investment, how can I compromise.
Accountant Wu patted him on the shoulder, forget it, the old lady is kind, but this liar is too hateful, specializing in deceiving the elderly, they are all immoral things that are thundered and thundered, and there will be no good reward.
Ma Qianli blames the old lady even more in his heart, why do you take other people's money, as your own money, you are kind to do bad things, but also bad things, the result is that you cheated me, I have a dime relationship with the liar, I only have a relationship with you, you make your own opinions, do not consult with others, no matter whose business, it is her decision, he sighed that Zhao Yan has no backbone, she listens to her mother, her mother just sold her, she is also very grateful, and he, because of a junior, he can't say anything and can't complain, as soon as he says that the old lady says that he has no conscience and doesn't know what to do, he doesn't know how to be filial to his elders, he became unreasonable, and he deducted a bunch of hats, he and Accountant Wu sighed, I don't blame her, I know she is kind, but she didn't do anything wrong, but opened her mouth and closed my mouth I have no ability, so she invested for us.
If you make a decision, it is a karma to create, and if you can't create it, you are digging a pit and burying yourself
This is hurtful, Accountant Wu said, okay, don't be with her general knowledge, don't be influenced by her, the ability she wants, that is the family has a mine, ordinary people, where do you have that ability, she is too, if you want to just let her daughter marry a wealthy family, you are amazing, you inquire, your income is not low, our treatment, it's okay, you still do two jobs, very diligent. It is to eat by labor, this is practical, not all people can start a business, creating is a business, and not creating is digging a pit to bury themselves.
Ma Qianli thought so, his parents also meant this, my son is quite capable, the car loan and housing loan are almost repaid, the wife and son have it, it is not stronger than which baby in the village, your seventh brother also said that you can do it, start a business, forget it, there is no capable father and mother to give resources, there are few good relatives, what do you take to start a business, what do you take, it doesn't matter if you want to have a relationship, you want to have experience or no experience, you want to start a business, let's be a salesman first.
Ma Qianli, who entered the house, was focused on his son, and he didn't have time to think about Xiang Huilan, and Xiang Huilan, when she returned to Zhou's house, she was more down-to-earth, she left in a hurry, in Sun Ning's place, Sun Ning hoped that she would live for a longer period of time, don't go back easily, can't make sense, can't go, it is necessary for Zhou Zhiyuan's mother to come to apologize, the old lady is too ugly, what hen lays eggs, what kind of words is this, what age, besides, they have only been married for a few months, even if they urge, they are not so urged.
But Xiang Huilan understands that Zhou Zhiyuan's family is a typical strong woman and weak man, Zhou Zhiyuan's mother, don't look at the village is a good person who is easy to talk to, but in his own home, it is a typical posture of the old queen mother, Zhou Zhiyuan Don't look at the emotional intelligence is not low, when the sales for many years, but that little clever is still outside, in his own home, it is basically to bow his head and compromise, that is, to coax people to play.
Xiang Huilan is not a person like Sun Ning who is particularly eloquent, but she understands in her heart, she grew up in the village, she doesn't know anything about the situation in the village, and her family is the same, if it weren't for her brother and daughter-in-law, she was pregnant in March after entering the door, and now she has a son, I'm afraid her parents are not so easy to talk to.
That's the custom. She somewhat understands what kind of mentality Zhou Zhiyuan's mother has, the eldest son doesn't come back to mix outside, and now he is not married, saying that he has a girlfriend, and he seems to want something unmarried, of course Zhou Zhiyuan's mother jumps to her feet, but if she wants to make trouble, people will turn off the phone, and she will not contact her family for a few months, and said to Huilan and Zhou Zhiyuan, your eldest brother is powerful, he is a ruthless person, selfish enough, and his mother has this attitude, he must have two mobile phone numbers, one for the family and one for the outside, you see, your mother has no way at all, it is to squeeze you.
Of course Zhou Zhiyuan understands this, he himself has three mobile phone numbers, and he has long understood his brother's attitude, that is, he doesn't want to be bound to his family.
And the mother, but also for this perennial absence at home, seems to be a little afraid of the eldest son, people can not contact the family for half a year, people are angry can not come back for the Spring Festival, what can she do, naturally she has to be very polite, so the eldest son is so, the younger son is very tight, especially afraid that this will also fly, is really concerned about Zhou Zhiyuan, what to eat and wear, everything is worried, cooking is completely based on Zhou Zhiyuan's preferences, it can't be said that she is not good to Zhou Zhiyuan, but it's too good, it's also troublesome, she can't see Zhou Zhiyuan to do a little work for Xiang Huilan, as soon as she sees it, she shouts, what I'm tired, I'm hard, you have to feel sorry for him, sometimes even Zhou Zhiyuan's father feels that his wife is a little too much.
It's a good move—but it's a problem
This time this big trouble, the old lady was somewhat taboo, it turned out that Xiang Huilan, who looked good-tempered, also had a temper, and came up and left directly without arguing or arguing, it was completely wilting and having an idea, this one has been going for almost a month, Zhou Zhiyuan said at first that it was okay, calm down for a few days, and then he had some opinions on his mother, and he didn't say it, but he didn't eat dinner at home, and often went out to dinner with Xiang Huilan, and went back to his room when he came back.
In private, the old lady and her wife complained, what kind of life do we have, one of them, if he doesn't come back, and the other one, he is obviously afraid of his wife.
Zhou Zhiyuan's father persuaded her, let's do less, they have a house, and there are people in the village who don't live at home, if you really want to move out, it's good if you can see the second child in ten days and half a month, if you want to do that, whatever.
The old lady was angry and scared, which made Xiang Huilan not so ironic, but when she came out and went in, she was obviously unwilling to deal with Xiang Huilan, feeling that this daughter-in-law was too thoughtful. It turned out to be like a little sheep, it turned out to be a tigress, but people don't quarrel, they flash people directly, this is the powerful master, Zhou Zhiyuan doesn't care about this, as long as he doesn't and clash head-on with Xiang Huilan, he will be satisfied, Xiang Huilan naturally doesn't pick this.
Zhou Zhiyuan is not satisfied with Ma Qianli, your classmate, is he just a classmate, he is too arrogant, what does he mean to be responsible for you, what is his responsibility. Is he eligible.
This Xiang Huilan is a little weak-hearted, not good for her boyfriend in advance, she smiled, we are all outsiders, everyone helps each other, he is Sun Ning looking for me, in fact, it is the same as supporting me, Sun Ning is looking for my brother, I don't feel suitable, my brother comes, it's too troublesome, it's not good for you, Sun Ning just looked for him, he is that person, that's the case, you can ask our director, his company has business with us, Director Li said that he is a nerd, but people have wives and sons, you don't think too much, some people don't understand the world, they are very straight, a little stupid。
Zhou Zhiyuan is not stupid, Sun Ning deliberately asked Ma Qianli to help, but obviously, Ma Qianli is Xiang Huilan's classmate, but Sun Ning is not, they are in a dormitory in the school, and later shared a house together, and the relationship is good, but Sun Ning and Ma Qianli are not classmates, she can find a person from outside the class, there is only one possibility, this Ma Qianli and Xiang Huilan are not ordinary, the relationship is closer than classmates, it can only be an ex-boyfriend, however, he is a person, some things are not serious, even if it is an ex-boyfriend, at this age, who does not have an ex-girlfriend, he has a lot of his own ex-girlfriends, of course, then the two are not。
He nodded, I see. He knows that there are some things, if he doesn't find fault with it, the other party will be weak-hearted, and once he puts it bluntly, he will be justified. He nodded, he was a real person, and there were not many such real people. He didn't say bad things about Ma Qianli, it was too stingy, he sighed, his wife is not easy, this husband is responsible for other women, if she knows, she may not be angry.
He knocked on Whelan, since you know that people have wives and sons, he is not sensible, you know.
Xiang Huilan really frowned, yes, that's right, it's really out of proportion, I mentioned to Sun Ning, don't trouble others about some things, it's not good.
Xiang Huilan has a good attitude, Zhou Zhiyuan won't mention this, but he has three chapters of the law, he can't deal with family problems like this, and he will leave when he is angry, how bad it is, in a village, whose family's affairs are not known, which makes people laugh.
Nodding to Whelan, I know, I just feel, otherwise your mother won't be restrained, it's too ugly to speak, I can't quarrel with her, what do you say, I'm just for you, I don't live in our own house, if your mother really can't tolerate me, let's let the old man be quiet and comfortable, don't disturb other people's happy life.
Zhou Zhiyuan nodded, my dad said that my mother, her temper, she has a mouth and no intention, don't worry about it, with the elders, always have the younger generations to be humble, he smiled, your mother also said so, so you must be filial, you forgot.
Nodding to Whelan, my mother said it to my brother and daughter-in-law.
Zhou Zhiyuan nodded, yes, they are all mothers-in-law.
If you are determined - some things, if you don't pick them out, the other party will be weak-minded, and once you put it bluntly, you will be justified
Xiang Huilan's words, her mother is also very powerful, beating her, in fact, beating her brother and daughter-in-law, but the stomach is angry, it is a son, and she will immediately become majestic at home, her aunt said two words on the phone, this son is the ability, you have to gain a foothold in the Zhou family, this is the ability. She went back at the time, my son and daughter, do I have the final say, you don't understand anything, you originally quarreled with your mother-in-law, you can say, sons and daughters depend on their father.
Xiang Huilan's aunt had no temper and hung up the phone, Xiang Huilan didn't understand, how could her aunt treat herself and others.
She is satisfied with her relationship with Zhou Zhiyuan, anyway, they didn't quarrel anything, Zhou Zhiyuan asked her to give way at most, don't be as knowledgeable as her mother, you are educated, you have seen the world, what is it to compete with an uneducated old lady. He took Li Luan as an example, Li Luan and her mother-in-law also had a lot of things, but Li Luan never ignored it, what do you say, Li Luan never ignored it, this is true, Li Luan is really clear, she said, what do I have to do with her, shame on me, she is an uneducated old lady who doesn't understand anything.
Nodding to Huilan, I know, I've learned it, I don't understand, why is Li Luan so high, she is in the village, she is very cold to people, and she loves to ignore her, but the strange thing is that no one said anything behind her back, only that the girl was like that, and that person was a cultural person, if Li Luan took the initiative to be polite to anyone, people would be proud for a long time.
Zhou Zhiyuan thinks about it, she was like that when she was a child, she didn't look like her family, she didn't dress like her, she was very tall, her grades were good, and she became a teacher, anyway, her parents had a good temper and good popularity, her brother You know, you don't have to choose, among our relatives here, the most capable, the village chief gives face.
Qiao Ting agreed to Ma Qianli, naturally she wanted to talk to Li Luan about it, she hadn't come over for a few days, she brought snacks over, Li Zhu was very polite, the second elder of the Li family, they are all honest people with a particularly good temper, and they are very enthusiastic about their daughters and sons' friends.
Li Luan said, look, my parents like you so much, I say all day long, I want to be like you, I don't like to interact with people and have nothing to say about people, that's not a piece, and I say what to do, I don't like it.
Li Luan's mother came over and brought Qiao Ting the rice cakes made by her own family, because Li Luan likes it, and the Li family often makes it, shaking her head, you Ni, you like it all day long, you don't like it, people interact with people, where do you like it, it is human affection. You have to like it every day, how can there be those you like. It's not all about face.
Li Zhu is doing her homework on the side, she is a very worry-free child, she knows that her home is different from other people's families, she is different from other children, her mother rarely contacts her when she goes abroad, she also understands that that woman may really not want her anymore, someone in the village said so, however, she didn't feel anything, she didn't lack love, aunts and grandparents, and father, all loved her, and even her aunt and grandmother loved her just as much.
Someone shouted like this, she didn't speak, once her aunt Li Luan heard it, and went directly up to the child, and went to the other house to sue directly, in a word, if I hear your child say this again, I will let Zhou Dashu solve it.
As soon as she mentioned Zhou Dashu, people immediately apologized, Zhou Dashu is the manager of the construction company in the village, and the business is not too big, but many people in the village work there, Zhou Dashu has no culture, but luckily, his uncle is the village head, and he is the king of fights when he is young, but he can obey his wife Li Luan's words. People are not afraid of Li Luan, they are afraid of Zhou Dashu. Li Luan didn't mind scaring Zhou Dashu.