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First acquaintance with Fang Qi
From which sentence did you know "Fang Qi"?
I am starting with the following sentence:
"He is strong, he is strong, and the breeze blows the hills!"
It was a variety show, and Zhang Hanyun, who was bullied by the Internet, said in the backstage of "Praise for the Song", "I often hear a lot of bad voices, but this time I heard a good voice." I didn't expect the beautiful voice to be so moving. ”
The comment area is all saying, "Because, that's what Fang Qi said!"
Yes, I read an article that said, "There is poetry and calligraphy in the belly, and this kind of brilliance appears on Fang Qi's body!"
Seeing her encouragement to Zhang Hanyun as a judge, I suddenly felt that this person's voice was so warm, and this person's language was so magical.
No one knows how this sentence will explode in my heart like thunder and bring me strength!
Flip through her books
I rarely watch her videos when I'm working, but I read her book "I Wish You Like Yourself Too".
As for the malice and abuse of those strangers, we can't control it, let alone hope to use our own experience to win sympathy. There has never been real empathy in this world. Many difficult and dangerous crossings have to be on our own. Whenever I feel sad because of these malice, I will tell myself: "The apes on both sides of the strait can't stop crying, and the light boat has passed over the ten thousand mountains." ”
The apes on both sides of the strait can't stop crying, and the light boat has passed the ten thousand mountains!
For the main characters in the TV series, love and adoration are at your fingertips. But for every ordinary person in life, every respect has to be earned by oneself.
This is also the original words in the book, it is hard to imagine that a girl who was still very young at that time could have such a thorough understanding of life, such a strong spiritual core, as if her power is endless from the inside out.
Travel blogger
Later, I saw that she quit her job as a host and became a short video blogger. Later, she has always been two people, climbing over a city, leaving behind the gentleness of flowing water!
Now she is a travel short video blogger with tens of millions of fans on the whole network, and she is happy and working hard to become a "modern Sanmao"!
Everyone said that she was a vlog blogger who was cured by filming more and more - Fang Qi
Fluent in speech, admirable persistence
The short video gave me a turning point in my life, and it gave me my first taste of success. So, at that time, I was excited and eager to try. I stood on many stages and loudly announced that I told Fang Qi not to give up, wishing that people all over the world would know how inspirational I was and how hard I worked.
But after seven years, I have changed, and now I no longer think that hard work is something worth being talked about, I think hard work is just the most basic ticket.
Hard work is just the most basic ticket! Her words are always clean, short and powerful.
There's a line in the movie Brooklyn that I'm very impressed with, and I want to share it with you, and I think it's funny.
The store manager said to the salesperson that you need to be friends with your customers so that they will come back to our store often. The salesman said I would do my best, and the store manager said that trying my best was not enough, would you try your best to wear underwear every day? The salesman said no, I just need to put it on, I don't have to try. The manager said, now you understand what I mean?
I think the story is probably saying that we have to put our goals (what we want to do) into our daily agenda. Not doing enough means that you want to do what you want to do like dressing and eating, and you will do it every day without thinking.
Doing your best is a normal state of life, in this world, in order to live, there is no one who does not work hard, but everyone who can reap the turning point of fate is inseparable from timing and luck. So now, instead of emphasizing my own efforts, I prefer to say that the times have given me opportunities. But behind such opportunities, everyone's choices are different. Seven years ago, some of the friends who set off with me, some of them left the industry either actively or passively, and some of them may have changed their identities. But today I am still a short video creator in its purest form, standing here. So we talked about the change of thinking in these seven years. Then maybe what I want to talk about next is that in the past seven years, my unchanged will be.
Seven years later, I'm still two people, sometimes with three assistants. We carried two suitcases on our backs on one machine and traveled to countless cities. Polishing one shot at a time, one copywriter at a time, I am still updating my videos, trying to ensure that the output of each video can ensure its quality. I just stuck to the path I was on, day after day. So, that's why I rarely show up at industry summits anymore to share and speak. Because I have nothing to say, in an industry that seeks innovation and change, and if it doesn't move forward, it is a regression, in an emerging industry where we often want to put explosive products, summits, and data in the forefront of the industry, and a short video creator who has not changed much and has been relatively stable for seven years, there is nothing else that can be used to share with you a fresh experience.
How can we put "life is like a boat sailing against the current, and if you don't advance, you will retreat." Fang Qi is really the same as Dong Yuhui, who can turn the expression of words into warm dialogues, which makes people can't help but be attracted, and then understand, empathize, and be healed.
I'm very flat and stable. The words dull and stable seem to be inherently mutually exclusive with the short video industry and self-media. Whether it is people in the industry or people outside the industry, it seems that it is difficult for everyone to regard self-media as a very long-term and stable career. In such a context, many practitioners in the industry will become very anxious, everyone is anxious to chase traffic, everyone is anxious to pursue hot spots, as if we only have today and no tomorrow. Speaking of which, some people may say that the industry is full of a lot of uncertainty and instability, but in fact, I have heard this when I first entered the industry in 2018. There is no tomorrow, but I have been here for seven years! How long is that many of the people who said these things to me at that time may have left the industry. So in fact, in our lives, most of the work, it can't be completely called stable, it is full of uncertainty and variables. Whether it's a short video or a self-media, it's just a part of it. So when we discuss whether an industry is stable, maybe we have to think about it, sometimes it is not the industry itself that is unstable, but the people!
"Haojie's thousand-year-old past
Fisherman sings
In the blink of an eye, the wind passes through the rain
Clever calculations
Hero Iron Horse Kingo
How about the struggle for fame and fortune
There will be a cause and an effect!"
With so much foreshadowing, I'm going to talk about what I really want to talk about.
Earlier we said flat and stable, which seems to sound mutually exclusive with short videos, and it seems that in my case, it is not a compliment. But in fact, peeling back the shell, plainness and stability are what I really want to pursue in this industry.
Stability, is not to stand still, to be steady, is to move forward in a down-to-earth manner, only to take peace and stability as the background, when we harvest and rise, can we feel down-to-earth, feel at ease! In many people think that unstable, even full of variables in the industry, to be able to really do "not to play the table" is rare; to be able to really trickle the water, only tomorrow.
The wheels of history are rolling forward, and the tide of the times is mighty. History will only favor those who are determined, forge ahead, and fight, and will not wait for those who hesitate, slacken, or fear difficulties.
Over the years, frankly, I have encountered a lot of temptations and possibilities. For example, I had a lot of opportunities to build some wealth more quickly, but I didn't. Because I know that I am a very good fighter, fighting alone, fighting for myself, and charging into battle, so a small but beautiful team is the most suitable way for me to develop. Once I've found my own way of developing, I don't want to break my rhythm, I just want to have my persistence. This is also the one thing I am most proud of in the past seven years. This is also what I want to share with you on this stage today, don't disrupt your own rhythm because of other people's achievements, so as to give up your own persistence! This sentence sounds easy, but how difficult it is to do. How many of us are in the examination room, because we see others handing in the papers in advance, so we are anxious to answer a random answer, and the final result is a mess; how many of us are in the track, see others running in front of them, so they can't wait to copy a shortcut, but in the end they get lost; how many of us know the importance of polishing internal skills, but they can't help but look around, and see that others because they have gained a cheat, so they have achieved great success in a short period of time, and they are also anxious, and their previous efforts are all lost, and every inch is in chaos。 So I couldn't wait to start burning tomorrow, and sighed: Look, what I said, it turns out that there is really only today.
"Moss flowers are as small as rice, and they also learn to bloom peonies. The Qing Dynasty poet Yuan Mei wrote. In this era, everyone can stand out, even if they are like moss flowers, as long as they are ambitious and down-to-earth, they can also bloom and live their own functions.
It is true that in human nature it is difficult for us to find peace from the happiness and fulfillment of others, so we are especially disrupted by this happiness and fulfillment. In the four words "relatively happy", if there is no way to eliminate it from human nature, we might as well explore what happiness is.
I used to say a sentence, this sentence is: people don't live a point, people live ups and downs. But I think that all the pursuit of ups and downs is not to win, a life like a roller coaster, nor to pursue a peak. Because no one is going to be above the peak forever. If one is always above the peak, when the points of the peak are connected into a line, then the concept of the peak is dissolved.
Stand on a high place and look at the abyss, fall into the abyss and know how to climb. People don't live a point, people live ups and downs. - "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an"
Therefore, I think that all the pursuit of ups and downs is to obtain a relatively smooth waveform, and this may also be my understanding of happiness. Of course, it's not that easy for me to do. In the course of these seven years, I have also witnessed many people, who set off later than me, but ran ahead of me; I have also witnessed the occurrence of many myths, which made Fang Qi, who was particularly energetic at that time, feel very frightened when I did not give up; I also had many, many moments, almost disrupting my inner rhythm, and almost forgetting what was most suitable for me. I finally found this way, I should polish my internal strength, and I almost gave up. Every time this happens, I soothe myself and find a way to calm down. During this time, there is a new way that can bring me peace, which is a poem, which I saw in the video of an up master I like very much, Bohai Xiaoli, who also came to the scene today. I also want to share this poem with you, I don't know if I can, in the depths of your own heart, when you are shaken countless times, give you a little encouragement. Haojie's thousand-year-old past
Fisherman sings
The black flying rabbit walks like a shuttle,
In the blink of an eye, the wind passes through the rain
Clever calculations
Hero Iron Horse Kingo
How about the struggle for fame and fortune
There must be a cause and an effect!
History has proved to us countless times that no matter how many times there are, you fight for me, you advance and I retreat, you come and go, and in the end it is just a blink of an eye, and the wind and rain pass. And in the end, all our persistence will definitely have a cause-and-effect result. So you have to believe that your persistence and dedication are meaningful. If you've been chasing a mountain, there's a new mountain beyond it, and if you've been running after the tide, you don't know who you're going to drown when the next wave hits. I heard a phrase that day, and it called the joy of violence, and the end of violence will come to an end.
I think I want to say that in this battlefield-like life, which we are either active or passive, we will inevitably be involved, and each of us should have our own set of strategies.
And the set of strategies that belong to me, that is, my theme today, I didn't let them hit it in advance, because the sentence I want to say at the end is: Flowing water is not competing for the first thing is gushing!
Enlightenment
Flowing water does not compete for the first, but for the gushing endlessly! Not striving for the first is not not seeking progress, but respecting the laws of nature, not destroying the balance, not losing the big because of the small, and losing oneself. It's like flowing water, flowing slowly. It does not compete for priority, but accumulates its strength little by little. The water flows for a long time, waiting to burst out.
The poet of the Tang Dynasty wrote: "The holly tree hangs in the sky, and the flowers of the year do not wither." Everything has its own root, and planting grass will never give birth to bean seedlings. "As human beings, we should not learn flowers and plants, but holly trees, and have the quality of proud snow and frost, not afraid of the test of severe cold.
If there are difficulties on the way to perseverance, I will believe that all the troughs are ready to start, and if the road of perseverance is surpassed by others, I will believe that the winner is the one who goes to the end.
May you also have the stubbornness of flowing water, with the surging power, to the distance!
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