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Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

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Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

As the sun sets in the west, in an ordinary courtyard in an old residential area in Beijing, a middle-aged woman sits alone in front of the window. She looked down at the darkening sky outside the window, her eyes revealing a little tiredness and vicissitudes.

Suddenly, the silence was broken by a child's playful laughter, and she couldn't help but turn her head to look at the nearby playground.

I saw three lively and lovely boys chasing and frolicking there, looking innocent and innocent, and they didn't seem to worry at all. The woman's face couldn't help but soften a lot, and the corners of her mouth rose slightly, revealing a rare peaceful smile.

Those three children were the greatest pride and reliance in her sons' lives.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

How could Wei Wei have imagined that she would embark on such a bumpy and tortuous road of fate in her life? At that time, she was just a dream-chasing girl with a passionate love for music.

He began to learn to sing at the age of 6, performed on stage at the age of 8, and changed his original name to Wei Wei at the age of 9. With her extraordinary talent and hard work, she won the first prize in the 1986 CCTV Young Singer Competition, and then was invited to participate in many large-scale performances and won many awards.

In 1989, she performed the song "Love Dedication" in the Spring Festival Gala, and the melody instantly spread all over the country and became a popular idol. No one expected that this ephemeral splendor was like a firework blooming, brilliant but fleeting.

A rumor that "Wei Wei is infected with AIDS" has severely damaged her career and reputation.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

What's even more shocking is that she actually sued her mentor Li Guyi in court, which led to the breakdown of the former master-apprentice relationship. In this way, Wei Wei at his peak was full of ambition and gradually fell into a trough.

Like a short-lived splendid prosperity, it is just a fleeting mansion in the air.

It was one night in 2004, in an old community in Beijing, Wei Wei suddenly received a call from a friend. The shocking news came over the phone that her elderly father had been diagnosed with terminal cancer, and that there were few days left, and perhaps this was the last time to be together.

Hearing this bad news, Wei Wei burst into tears, his steps became angry and hurried, and he galloped away in the direction of home. She hadn't seen her father for years, and their relationship was increasingly estranged, and the connection was almost frozen.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

When she hurried to the hospital ward, she saw her long-lost father lying quietly on the hospital bed, and the two looked at each other and hugged tightly, tears streaming down their faces. Listening to her father's weak voice telling her "ask for forgiveness", Wei Wei's heart was filled with endless remorse and guilt, and she hated her incompetence as a daughter, which disgraced her father.

Back in the 80s of the last century, it was the golden years of the superstar Wei Wei's fame. Coming from a military family, she has had an extraordinary love for music since she was a child.

At the age of 6, she began to learn to sing, and at the age of 8, she performed on stage for the first time. When she was 9 years old, her grandmother came to visit, hoping that she could change her mother's surname to Wei, so she changed from the original Zhang Juxia to the current Wei Wei.

Relying on his extraordinary talent and hard work, Wei Wei stood out in the 1986 CCTV Young Singer Competition and won the second prize in the popular group in one fell swoop.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

The victory in this competition allowed her to shine in the industry and won high appreciation from professionals. Immediately afterward, she was invited to participate in an organized performance to commemorate the International Year of Peace and served as the lead singer of the theme song "Let the World Be Full of Love".

In 1989, Wei Wei's acting career climbed to a new peak. At the Spring Festival Gala that year, she perfectly performed the song "Love Dedication" with a unique Western style, which instantly spread all over the country and became a popular idol with household names.

No one expected that such a splendor would be unique for a while, brilliant as fire but as short-lived as a flash in the pan.

Soon, a rumor that "Wei Wei is suspected of being infected with HIV" spread to the outside world, which severely damaged her reputation and public image. What's even more shocking is that she actually sued her mentor Li Guyi in court, and the master and apprentice broke off, and the two fell into a tense relationship.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

In addition to the twists and turns in his career, Wei Wei's love life is also full of difficulties. When she was young, she fell in love with Fu Disheng, an unknown flute musician at the time. The two maintain a life of poverty with tenderness and dreams, and despite the constraints of life, they love each other deeply.

Fu Disheng loves Wei Wei wholeheartedly. Every morning, he would get up early to prepare a hot breakfast for Wei Wei. After work, he personally cooked dinner and took care of all the housework, showing his meticulous care for Wei Wei.

This unforgettable love made Wei Wei feel what sincere love is.

However, the good times did not last long, and with the start of his career, Wei Wei gradually became estranged and tired of dealing with Disheng, a person from a humble background and with little future. Finally one day, she relentlessly and resolutely abandoned this once innocent love.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

After that, Wei Wei became entangled with the popular cross talk actor Hou Wenyao. Hou Wenyao had already entered the marriage hall at that time, and his wife Liu Yan was a virtuous and gentle wife. However, Wei Wei's appearance undoubtedly added a lot of waves to this harmonious family.

In the fierce conflict, Hou Wenyao finally chose to betray his family and fell in love with Wei Wei.

Liu Yan tried to maintain this originally happy little family, but Hou Wenyao had already moved his mind to divorce. Although he became Hou Wenyao's junior, Wei Wei still failed to marry into a wealthy family in the end.

After the divorce, Hou Wenyao actually married someone else, which made Wei Wei regret it.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

She once wanted to seek the re-acceptance of her first love, Fu Disheng, but the other party had married Ren Jing, and the song "Intimate Lover" that the two collaborated on was very popular. Fu Disheng seems to have been relieved from the bottom of his heart and restarted a new life.

While Wei Wei was in pain, a Swedish singer Michael Smith, who was 25 years older and already had a wife, appeared in her life. Despite many obstacles, Wei Wei still fell in love and married the singer without hesitation.

Wei Wei, who is infatuated with love, would rather suffer all the harm than leave, so he has suffered domestic violence and abuse for nearly 10 years and lives in an endless haze. It wasn't until her three children grew up that she finally made up her mind, took up the weapon of the law, started a divorce lawsuit with her husband Michael Smith, and finally won custody of her sons.

In 2004, Wei Wei, who finally got rid of the haze of domestic violence, returned to China with his three sons and opened a new chapter in his life. In order to support her family, she had to return to her old job and devote herself to the arduous music career again.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

Although the years are ruthless, her moving voice still makes many old fans familiar and nostalgic.

At the beginning, Wei Wei took the three children to his elderly mother, so that they could grow up healthily surrounded by the warmth of the family. Mother and son are reunited, and the family lives in an ordinary courtyard in an old community in Beijing.

Every morning, Wei Wei would get up early and prepare a nutritious breakfast for the children. When her children leave home for school, she relaxes at home or chats with the elders in the neighborhood.

After school in the afternoon, the children will be excited and talk to their mothers about the interesting things of the day.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

Wei Wei is sometimes gentle and amiable, and she is kind and persuasive; Sometimes he gives strict instructions, hoping that the children can grow up healthy and happy. As the sun sets, a family walks in a quiet courtyard to enjoy this rare family fun.

Occasionally, some neighbors will point fingers and make irresponsible remarks about Wei Wei's tortuous past life, but she always smiles implicitly and generously returns more warm love to her children.

With the warm company of the children, she feels that the meaning and value of life have long gone beyond fame, fortune, power and money.

Every time Wei Wei looks at the innocent smiling faces of her three sons, she will deeply reflect on her tortuous and bizarre life journey. The past is like a cloud of smoke, and the entanglement of right and wrong accompanies the passage of time.

Leaving his first love to be Hou Wenyao 3, marrying a foreign husband and being "abused" for 10 years, Wei Wei: I don't regret it

How many times, she could have given up everything to pursue fame and fortune, but she insisted on it again and again without hesitation.

Now, through the clear eyes of the children, she finally understands that having three lovely children and the company of her loved ones is more precious than fame, fortune, status, and financial wealth.

Their laughter and laughter are the greatest wealth and happiness in life.

Standing at a new starting point in life, Wei Wei felt that he had been reborn. She still cherishes her love for music, and her heart is full of anticipation and yearning. Maybe one day, she will return to the stage again, pour out her inner joy and feelings with a graceful singing voice, and add more warmth and joy to this world.

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