What is the most speechless relative you have ever seen? Netizens shared their personal experiences and watched their blood pressure soar

On that day, the atmosphere of the family gathering was supposed to be warm and harmonious, but unexpectedly, because of the "wonderful" performance of a relative, the whole party became extremely embarrassing, like a farce.

I was chatting with a few cousins, and the atmosphere was quite good, when suddenly, a sharp voice broke the peace: "Yo, isn't this Xiao Ming? I haven't seen you for a few years, why are you still so poor and sour?" I looked up and saw that it was my distant cousin who was talking, and he looked at me with disdain, as if I was some kind of exhibit.

I chuckled in my heart, but I still tried to be polite, smiled and said, "Cousin, you are right, life has to pass slowly." ”

"Take your time, look at yourself, and then look at your cousins, who doesn't drive a luxury car and live in a mansion? You're still here slowly, it's really useless!" the cousin became more and more energetic, as if he had found some outlet to vent.

I was furious when I heard it, but because of the family gathering, I had to swallow it. The cousins next to me also began to whisper, and some even looked at me secretly, their eyes full of sympathy and embarrassment.

I was about to find an excuse to leave, but my cousin spoke again: "Xiao Ming, I didn't say you, you have to learn from your cousin, you are now an executive of a large company, with an annual salary of one million! Look at you again, alas, what a ......?"

I couldn't take it anymore and interrupted him: "Cousin, I understand what you mean. Everyone's life trajectory is different and cannot be generalized. I'm also trying to live my life, so you don't have to worry about it. ”

When my cousin heard this, he seemed to be even more energetic: "Yo, you still dare to talk back? I'm educating you, do you understand? Who do you think you are, and you dare to talk to me like this!"

I was completely enraged, but I still tried to stay calm: "Cousin, I think you may have misunderstood. I'm not talking back, I'm just expressing my thoughts. Also, I feel that everyone has their own way of life, and there is no need to compare them with each other. ”

"What kind of attitude do you have? I'm your elder, and you're talking to me like that?" my cousin seemed to be irritated by me, and his voice grew louder and louder.

I took a deep breath and decided not to dwell on him any longer: "Cousin, if you feel comfortable talking like this, then go ahead." But I don't think there's any point in such a conversation. If you don't have anything else to do, I'd like to miss out on it. ”

With that, I turned around and was about to leave. But my cousin refused to give up and grabbed me: "What kind of attitude do you have? I haven't finished speaking, you want to leave?"

I was really fed up with such a farce, so I broke free from his hand and said coldly: "Cousin, I don't think there is any point in the conversation between us. If you have other things to do, feel free to do so. ”

With that, I left the awkward party without looking back. On the way home, I had mixed feelings. That cousin's words and deeds were so speechless, and his condescending attitude and disparaging of others made me really unbearable.

When I got home, I told my parents about it. They were also angry when they heard this, but they could only shake their heads helplessly. After all, relationships between relatives are complicated and sometimes really difficult to deal with.

That night, I lay in bed for a long time and couldn't sleep. Thinking back to my cousin's words and deeds, I still feel uncomfortable in my heart. But at the same time, I also learned that everyone has their own way of life and values, and we don't need to pander to others or compare them. As long as we live well on our own, that's enough.

Since then, my attitude towards that cousin has also become much colder. Every time I get together, I try to avoid contact with him. And he seemed to sense the change in me, and stopped pointing fingers at me like he used to.

As time passed, I gradually came out of that embarrassing experience. I started to focus more on my life and work, and stopped paying attention to the nonsense gossip. At the same time, I also learned how to get along with different people, and how to maintain a harmonious relationship with others while respecting myself.

Looking back now, that family reunion was a bit unpleasant, but it also taught me a lot. It made me more aware of my values and goals in life, and also taught me how to face and deal with complex interpersonal relationships. Perhaps, this is a kind of tempering that life gives us.

The unpleasant experience of that family gathering was like a stone thrown into a lake, stirring up ripples in circles. It not only changed my relationship with that cousin, but also affected my philosophy of life to a certain extent.

I've come to realize that there are always people in my life who, for various reasons, like to point fingers at other people's lives and judge them. For such people, I chose to keep my distance and try not to be affected by their words. But at the same time, I also cherish those who really care about me and support me, they are the motivation and spiritual pillars for me to move forward.

At work, I also learned how to deal with different types of people. I no longer easily deny myself because of other people's evaluations, but I am more determined to follow my own path and pursue my dreams. I believe that as long as I work hard enough, I will be able to create my own wonderful life.

Of course, I also understand that it is impossible for people to be completely free from the evaluation and influence of others. But I've learned to sift through the valuable suggestions and ignore the pointless accusations. This way, I can focus more on my own growth and development.

Time flies, and years have passed in the blink of an eye. The family reunion was gradually forgotten in the corner of my memory. Until one day, I met that cousin again.

It was at a relative's wedding, and my cousin and I happened to be sitting at the same table. At first, we were all a little embarrassed and didn't know what to say. But as time went on, we found common ground and talked about our lives and experiences.

I was surprised to find that my cousin seemed to have changed a lot. He is no longer as swaggering as he used to be, but has become much more humble. He told me that he has also experienced a lot of things in the past few years and gradually understood the true meaning of life. He said that he had really overestimated me and others in the past, and hoped that I would forgive him.

I listened to his words and felt some emotion in my heart. I told him that I had forgiven him a long time ago, but that our relationship would take some time and new experiences to re-establish. I also shared the growth and harvest over the years, and we listened to each other and understood each other.

After that encounter, my relationship with my cousin gradually returned to normal. Although we can't be as close as brothers, at least we can get along like normal relatives, respect each other, and support each other.

Looking back, I am grateful for the unpleasant experience that family gathering gave me. It has taught me how to face and deal with complex interpersonal relationships, and it has also strengthened my beliefs and pursuits. I believe that in the days to come, I will be more mature and confident in facing the challenges and difficulties in life.

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