My name is Liu Ming, and I am an ordinary office worker. I was born in an ordinary family, my parents are ordinary people in the countryside, and they have always hoped that I can have a happy family, so they are also very concerned about my relationship with my wife.
My wife and I were classmates in college, and she was the school flower in the class at that time, beautiful and generous, and was deeply loved by her classmates. I had a crush on her at the time, but I didn't dare to confess it to her. It wasn't until after graduating from college and we met again by chance on social networking sites that I mustered up the courage to confess to her, she readily agreed to me, and we began our love journey.
However, as time went on, I found that my wife's beauty became a burden in our lives. Whenever I take her out, there are always people who cast envious glances, and some even blatantly tease her. I began to feel upset and angry, fearing that she would be seduced by someone else.
So, I began to restrict my wife's freedom, not letting her go out, not letting her meet her friends, and not even letting her go back to her parents' house. I told her it was for her safety, but deep down the real reason was jealousy and low self-esteem. I couldn't bear to see her with other people, afraid she would leave me.
My wife didn't notice my uneasiness at first, but just listened to my arrangement and endured it silently. But as time went on, she began to feel depressed and dissatisfied and began to argue with me. She reproached me for being too cautious, for not trusting her, and even for restricting her personal freedom.
As a result, our relationship became more and more strained, and I felt more and more isolated, but I didn't know how to release my inner turmoil. It wasn't until one day, when I saw the disappointment and sadness in my wife's eyes, that I realized my mistake.
I deeply reflected on my behavior and began to try to change. I sincerely apologize to my wife and promise not to restrict her freedom anymore and to give her more space and respect. I started to work hard to improve myself, improve my self-confidence, and make myself strong enough to no longer be shaken by the eyes of others.
My wife saw my efforts and changes and was willing to give me a chance. We have re-established trust and communication, and our relationship has become more harmonious and satisfying. I understand that true love is not possession and control, but tolerance and understanding, mutual respect and support for each other.
Now, my relationship with my wife is stronger and better. We face life's challenges together, support each other, and grow together. I thank her for giving me a chance to rediscover myself and love. We will always be with us, forever.