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Stick to Day 3: If you want your child to get pain, then be obedient to him!

When I woke up in the morning, someone made a bet with me that I was just copying a book for three minutes, waiting to see my jokes.

好吧‬,没关系!

You can be cowardly, but you must not admit defeat.

If there is three minutes of heat, there will be three minutes of harvest.

Keep loving, keep harvesting!

大家好!今天又是橘子的抄书时间,给‬大家‬带来‬两个‬关于‬爬山‬的故事‬。

Regret for the city in the sky

Is it too early to make plans for this year's summer vacation in the past two days? Thinking about the high school entrance examination that is about to end, I feel a sense of relief and impatience.

Soak up the sun, breathe in the fresh air, climb one mountain peak after another, climb high and look far away, and feel relaxed. This is the life that many people yearn for.

Stick to Day 3: If you want your child to get pain, then be obedient to him!

The city in the sky - Fanjing Mountain

The first stop is to take my sons to climb Fanjing Mountain. One is to enjoy the infinite scenery of the "Castle in the Sky", and the other is to make up for the regret that I did not reach the summit for the first time.

The last time I went to Fanjing Mountain was 20 years ago, and I climbed to the mushroom cloud at an altitude of 2,200 meters in one breath, and I was exhausted before I had time to appreciate the scenery carefully.

Looking at the Jinding Peak that went straight into the sky, 2494 meters, my legs trembled, and I could only give up the infinite scenery on the dangerous peak. At the foot of the Golden Dome Mountain, waiting for the return of friends.

Stick to Day 3: If you want your child to get pain, then be obedient to him!

I really regret it in retrospect.

The scenery at the top of the mountain cannot be replaced, and only after experiencing the hardships of climbing can you reap the happiness after reaching the top.

Infinite scenery is at the dangerous peak

This is another story about climbing a mountain.

Stick to Day 3: If you want your child to get pain, then be obedient to him!

Hill Climb – "Delayed Gratification"

In the story, the friend taught the children that the purpose of climbing a mountain is not only to exercise, but also to know how to stop and enjoy the different scenery along the way, and to encourage children to persevere and endure in order to achieve the final goal.

‬今日感悟

Speaking of which, we have to mention the phenomenon of unlimited satisfaction of parents for their children. Nowadays, most families in China are only children, because there are few children or only one child, parents unconsciously spoil their children too much, and respond to their children's needs, so they have created many "little emperors" and "little princesses". And when a child grows up and has a problem, many people don't know where the crux is.

我认识一个3岁的小朋友,每天至少‬要哭上‬几十回:每每遇到不合‬他心意的事就开始大哭;大人刚想要批评他,可还没开口,他便躺在地上打滚;一出门看到任何喜欢的东西,都一定要买才肯回家,不买绝不善罢休。

The educator Rousseau said to parents in Emile:

Do you know what to do to make your child suffer?

That is: 100 according to 100 smooth.

We should try our best to meet the inner needs of our children and give them enough love and respect, which will help them improve their self-worth.

However, loving children does not mean that there are no boundaries, and there must be clear rules about what can be done and what cannot be done.

As for that degree, it is up to parents to grasp it through study and cultivation.

epilogue

Well, that's all for today's story.

The best way to convince others,

It's what you've always been doing.

Love as first seen......

Copying books, I'm serious!

I'm Tangerine, see you tomorrow!