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Shocked by her fanatical pursuit that borders on "toy-fetish".
With a peerless style and extraordinary temperament, Carina Lau is definitely a well-deserved queen of the film industry. But even a big star like her can't completely hide the unique side of her heart. A few days ago, some media paparazzi directly broke the secret of her "special hobby", which was jaw-dropping!
It turns out that Carina Lau is a veteran "toy collector"! The Bear doll at home alone has a collection of tens of thousands. Your jaw drops when you see her full house full of colorful stuffed animals, dolls, and Lego bricks.
What's even more surprising is that Carina Lau's fanatical pursuit of toys has reached a crazy level. A staff member revealed that whenever she was filming in other places, she had to set aside one or two large boxes to fill her beloved toys. And these toy boxes must be treated as "valuables" as if they were damaged!
"Once, during filming, one of Miss Liu's boxes of toys was accidentally broken, and she cried on the spot, and her emotions were out of control for a while. The staff rushed to fix it, but she was still as heartbroken as a child who had been robbed of her beloved belongings. A director who has worked with Carina Lau said.
Indeed, it is a bit unreasonable to treat toys with such a big deal of care. But for Carina Lau, this is her precious "soul partner". Perhaps, it is precisely because of some shadows and traumas in her heart that she is so fanatical about placing her emotions on toys.
The shadow of being kidnapped back then may never be completely healed. And toys have become her most loyal and innocent reliance. In the face of their simple smiles, she was able to temporarily forget the hardships of the world and regain the purest innocence.
No wonder, Carina Lau would rather choose to be a "Dink Queen" than have the secret of childbearing gradually unraveled.
The unrelieved childhood nightmare made her silent about the topic of children
For ordinary people, getting married and having children is almost a necessary stage of life. But Carina Lau and Tony Leung, the gold-medal old couple, have never planned to have children. Even if the two have a stable relationship and a prominent status, it is not that they are incapable of raising children.
So, what was the reason that made them make the choice of "Dink"? It is rumored that this is closely related to Carina Lau's background and childhood shadow.
Having lost her parents since she was a child, she was forced to spend a cruel childhood in a poor environment. For that time, she still can't let go, as if she has become a permanent shadow of her soul. As Carina Lau herself said in an interview: "I didn't live the childhood life I should have the most. "
In the face of life's heavy blows, she seems to have lost her yearning for life. So when someone asked her why she didn't want children, she just calmly said, "I can't bring a life to this world full of hardships with my own hands and let him repeat my mistakes." "
In her eyes, the world is not beautiful. How could it allow another innocent life to suffer the same nightmare?
Those places that Carina Lau deeply dislikes are the necessities of parenting
On the other hand, Carina Lau's "cleanliness fetish" is also considered to be an important factor contributing to her "refusal to have children".
As a person who is extremely clean and tidy, she has a deep hatred for hospitals, delivery rooms, nurseries, etc. For her, the abundance of unknown bacteria and viruses lurking in those places made her feel more anxious and frightened than ever.
Carina Lau has to clean and disinfect even the bathrooms used by friends at home. Not to mention the dirty delivery room and childcare place, which will undoubtedly become a huge psychological obstacle for her. An insider commented.
Don't forget, it was Carina Lau who was subjected to a thrilling kidnapping that almost devastated her physically and mentally. That haze may be the root cause of her extreme cleanliness.
Because of this, it was a huge test for her to face those dirty and chaotic childcare places. Not only is it mentally unbearable, but even the body feels a strong discomfort. How can you still have the courage to choose to have children in such a situation?
Firm "Dink" line, Tony Leung supported his wife with actions
Faced with such a complex psychological shadow of his wife, Tony Leung did not deliberately force her, but chose to tolerate and understand her in his own way.
From the two getting married to the present, Tony Leung has insisted on supporting Carina Lau's Dink life. Whenever asked why he didn't have children, he would say lightly: "Jialing has her own ideas, and I can understand it." "
Tony Leung understands that his wife's inner world is not simple. Out of love and protection for her, he didn't want to disturb her psychological defense too much. Instead, through a series of subtle acts, she created a safe and relaxing private world.
For example, Tony Leung never objected to the cleanliness requirements at home, but accommodated them silently. He will pay extra attention to his hygiene habits and carefully organize his territory. Moreover, the bathrooms of the two are separated, and Tony Leung's own room is simply a "decorative artwork".
In addition, Tony Leung also tried his best to cooperate with Carina Lau's special penchant for toys. Not only does he pay for his wife's collecting habits, but he also spends his time at work and plays with her like a big child.
"Although Brother Chao Wei looks cold on weekdays, in front of Miss Liu, he is like a warm man with honey. The two of them are huddled in a pile of stuffed animals, and you can't tell who's teasing whom. A staff member said.
It is with Tony Leung's support that Carina Lau can release her heart to the greatest extent and live the life she yearns for. Without the distraction of children, she can be free, engage in fun and enjoy being a "child forever".
So, why did Tony Leung accept Dink's life so obediently, and does it also imply some men's 'careful thinking'?
Praised as "great, more comfortable without children"
As soon as Carina Lau's fanatical habits were exposed, they immediately sparked a heated discussion among netizens.
Someone joked: "Carina Lau is simply a 'super baby', seeing that she is so fanatical about toys, I really want to give her a baby!"
Some netizens also expressed deep sympathy for this: "Poor Jialing, the things she lacked when she was a child were made up for when she was an adult, and people have had enough of the 'addiction' in their hearts." "
More netizens directly pointed the finger at Tony Leung: "Chao Viagra can finally be at ease and don't have to worry about children's affairs, it's great!"
"If you give birth to a child, you will definitely have to deal with Carina Lau's cleanliness every day. It's really a lot of money to marry her, and it's more comfortable to have no children!"
It can be seen that Carina Lau's "special hobbies" and Dink's life are mixed by the outside world. But it is undeniable that she and Tony Leung have indeed set a good example of mutual understanding and tolerance between men and women.
Sometimes, love is not necessarily about catering to each other, but more often it is about appreciating and identifying with each other's unique side. Just like Tony Leung's attitude towards Carina Lau, he is doting and respectful, giving her the greatest freedom and support.
So, have you ever chosen to give up or change some living habits for the sake of your loved other? Welcome to speak freely in the comment area and tell us what you think about this anecdote between Liu Liang and his wife!
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