Sometimes I really can't understand the thoughts of older leftover women.
There is an older leftover girl, who is 35 years old this year, graduated with a doctorate and is still a high school teacher, earning 15,000 a month, and she is fair-skinned and beautiful (she thinks so).
There are two conditions for her blind date: 1. The man must be handsome, and 2. She will not have children after marriage. As a result, dozens of men went on blind dates in a row, and they were all scolded.
has a blind date, the vice president of the company, 32 years old, with a monthly income of 50,000, tall and handsome. Normally, such a man is definitely a hot commodity in the blind date market, and ordinary women see it like a wolf seeing meat, but the female doctor thinks that it just barely meets her requirements.
In order to show her talent, the female doctor talked about literature and art with the vice president, but the vice president was not interested at all. The female doctor was anxious and directly put forward her request: The purpose of my marriage is spiritual love, to put it bluntly, we don't have children.
Nowadays, men mainly choose "virtue" and age when looking for a spouse, that is, virtuous and young. As for "talent" and wealth, I don't care. What a "quality woman", men don't care at all.
When a man marries a wife, he has to live at home, and the family is incomplete without children. A man marries a wife, not a doctor. 365 days, three meals a day is a must, housework is also a must, of course, conditions can hire a nanny, daily life needs to be normal, the family is stable and stable.
The essence of marriage is that men and women pick each other and cooperate to create, women demand that men take on more family responsibilities perfectly, men and women are equal, and men can also fully demand women.
It's not wrong to go up to the kitchen under the hall, but it's okay to look passable, and women who are too beautiful usually don't have the first quality, a vase, don't.
As long as you can have the first thing, as long as the man is not scum, he is basically willing to go out to make money to support you, so what you said is wrong except for the first one.
When a woman falls in love, only talks about marriage and says that she will not have children, she has departed from the meaning of marriage. The purpose of marriage is to have children in common with two people and inherit the genes of two people, since you don't want children, what is the purpose of marriage?
My friend's daughter was also chosen in this way, on the grounds that her cousin was older than her and was not in a hurry. As a result, my cousin found a little girl to marry! She realized that the criteria for finding a partner for men and women were different.
The most precious thing for a lady is youth, and the most important thing is fertility, if these two aspects have missed the best time, they will no longer have an advantage and attractiveness in front of men.
Many men said that they would rather choose a 25-year-old with a monthly salary of 2,500 yuan than marry a 35-year-old with a monthly salary of 25,000 yuan.
The leftover women and men are all pre-set conditions, one by one, and there are not so many multiple-choice questions in life! On the contrary, it has a lot of randomness! We are all ordinary people, and there are not so many immortal couples version of idealism!
No one is perfect, including ourselves, don't just look at others, sometimes we have to look at ourselves!
It's all about getting by, as long as the younger unmarried women are compatible, and they look average. What Ph.D., what annual salary are all subdivision options.
If a girl misses the best childbearing age, the blind date market will plummet, so don't want the so-called external conditions, your so-called high-quality conditions will be worthless in front of men with the same conditions.
Looking for a daughter-in-law, who lives at home, is not looking for a young grandmother to provide, and you are not the life of a young grandmother, I am really for you, I am afraid that you will be lost.
I can understand the idea of not having children and not wanting to be tied down by children. But why do you want to get married, and be bound by marriage? Marriage is the product of human reproduction, and if you don't have children, I don't think it's necessary to get married at all, it will be freer.
Women with a little money and status will overestimate themselves, often high or low, and eventually lonely and old! Children are the crystallization of husband and wife love and never give up, and don't want children to be more miserable when they are old and go to nursing homes. Sad?
Born as a woman, the most important thing is the word virtuous, the vast majority of men in China marry virtuous women as the first condition, the more excellent men want to marry virtuous women.
Since you don't have children, why do you get married, don't get married directly, so that you can make your life your own decisions, don't harm others, what's the point of a man spending so much money?
Age is a hurdle for women, and at this point, women can't get over it. Men will not look at your academic qualifications, nor will they look at your family assets, but look at your personal appearance, height, age, whether your body is healthy, whether your personality is peaceful, virtuous, these are important.
Older women, independent women, and women who only fall in love and don't have children are not suitable for marriage and are suitable for themselves. If you're lucky enough to meet someone you like, you'll be together, but the chances are not high.
A normal man chooses a partner, the same conditions, a 20-year-old girl and a woman over 30 years old, they are called differently, 20-year-old girls are energetic, and 30-year-old women are old, if you have no choice, who will choose a woman over 30 years old?
Upholding women's independence and equal status of men and women is the progress of society. But marriage is a two-way choice, no one should dream, and there are many surprises in the world to get Prince Charming and the Diamond King......
No matter how beautiful a beautiful woman is, no matter how much you read a book, or if you finish recognizing Chinese characters and then run to finish recognizing American characters, these functions of yours will be finished by the age of 60, and at most they will be reduced to ashes after the age of 80, and everything will be miserable at that time. A woman's greatest wealth is to have a child and be happy when she is old.
What is the point of marriage if men and women are given their own roles and missions by society? What is the point of getting married if they don't have children? What kind of spiritual love does the rampant nihilism of the West produce and destroy a large number of so-called elites? Women's reproductive function is the advantage, and everything else is nonsense.
The girl is suitable for cohabitation, but not for marriage. If the two sides get along, they will be together, and if they can't get along, they will be divided directly, which is called a literary fan. A doctoral student is still so old-fashioned that he still has to get married. Doctoral students should be ahead of the avant-garde. Why do you think so feudal, to get married?
Men are looking for wives in order to form a new family, help each other, live together, and grow old together, including having children and reproducing offspring.
A woman who is unwilling to give birth is like a hen who is unwilling to lay eggs, what is the use of asking her? Not to mention that most of the women with high educational qualifications are unwilling to do housework, and it is not interesting to marry such a woman, so it is really better to find an ordinary woman to marry.
Leftover women over the age of 35 have a house and a car, and have a high salary, so they can find a low-income and good-looking boy in his 30s who has no house or car. In fact, you can post it upside down, otherwise you will find a mature and stable uncle who is 45-55 years old and has an income slightly higher than yours.
All older women's competitors are not men, but younger women. Don't point the finger at men, no male would choose 35 when faced with the choice between 35 and 20 (all other things being equal). So you should take a good look at yourself and what your strengths are with a 20-year-old woman.