Writer Su Qin said:
"I admire a kind of person: don't say hard things, don't do soft things. ”
Speaking with a pleasant face shows a person's wisdom, and being tough and skillful in doing things is a winner in high-level life.
Being a low-key person and doing things in a high-profile manner can allow us to gain a broader world and win a better life.
Not doing soft things is to maintain the bottom line and red line of being a person
The ancients said:
"Heaven can forgive you for your iniquity, but you cannot live for your own iniquity." ”
From ancient times to the present, those who cause trouble have not ended well.
Sooner or later, the cause of planting will produce corresponding results.
Come out and mix, sooner or later you will have to pay it back!
Don't cause trouble, it is "do not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself", and not to interfere, hinder or hurt others is actually to accumulate virtue and happiness.
Don't make trouble, it is "convenient with others, convenient with yourself", which is not only self-cherishing and self-respecting, but also respecting others, and ultimately benefiting yourself.
If you don't cause trouble, it's okay. There is nothing in the heart of a bed wide, nothing is a little fairy, nothing is the realm that the ancients dreamed of.
Don't do soft things, be ruthless and independent
Let's be clear, people are different from each other, just as there are no leaves in this world.
Therefore, when it comes to dealing with people, generalized theories are always wrong.
Besides, honest people can also hide their edges.
For example, Han Xin, is Han Xin an honest person? In life, he is an honest person.
Empress Lu summoned him to the palace, and he went, without a single soldier, and then was hacked to death with a knife. Before he made his fortune, his sister-in-law asked him to go, and he left.
Being bullied by a bully made him drill his crotch from under his crotch, and he drilled.
However, Han Xinxin has proved one point, honest people are also ambitious.
When he had a million soldiers in his hands, was he still an honest man Han Xin? On the battlefield, Han Xin was never honest.

兵者,诡道也。
Han Xin took this doctrine to the extreme, and it was Han Xin's forte to win more with less and the strong with the weak.
Such people are not easy to mess with. The edge of an honest man never appears in ordinary times, and once it appears, then the person he is facing must be the moment of destruction.
To be a ruler, you should know how to measure
Stop for three points in case of trouble, leave two points for speaking, and leave one point for being a person. Don't talk too much, it's too full, it's hard to justify, don't do things too much, it's hard to retreat.
When getting along, don't poke people's scars, and don't talk to people behind their backs.
Don't talk about what others care about, and don't be arrogant when others are frustrated.
In life, do not fly impetuous, do not act recklessly.
Everyone has a temper, but we must learn to be restrained, observe in silence, and think in calmness; everyone has a bottom line, but we must know how to grasp it, and we must emphasize principles in major matters and be measured in small matters.
There are advances and retreats in life, and the shades are always appropriate, so why is it difficult for people to divide them, leaving room for the world to be wide.
Write at the end
Really powerful people usually keep a low profile and silently build their own strength; when the opportunity comes, they will make decisions immediately, cut through the mess quickly, and are not soft at all.
Be a normal person and work with an enterprising heart to achieve a wonderful life.