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Edit|Lonely drifting dreamer
Have you ever seen a table with two gift books?
Some time ago, my uncle unfortunately passed away, and I went to my uncle's funeral. But as soon as I got there, I found that there were two gift books on the table at the door, and I didn't know how to give them, and the two brothers were not there, so I had to give all 5,000 yuan to my aunt.
But I didn't expect that this one move completely angered the eldest brother, and said that I didn't pay the gift money to their family, I can't explain it, just say that I have no courtesy.
Narrator: Enthusiastic young lady (Disclaimer: This article is not my own experience, it is based on the narrator's words)
The other day, I was eating out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, and I happened to run into my big brother at the next table. I thought we were all relatives, so I said hello to him, and I happened to know my boyfriend too.
I walked to my eldest brother's table with my boyfriend: "Big brother, what a coincidence, this is my boyfriend." ”
But I never expected that my eldest brother didn't even stand up, but slowly looked up at my boyfriend, and then smiled perfunctorily.
My boyfriend was also embarrassed and shouted, "Brother, I'll take Xiaolan over there first." ”
At that time, I was embarrassed, and I warmly greeted my eldest brother with my boyfriend, who was so cold. My boyfriend asked me, "What do you mean? Do you have a bad relationship with your brother?"
I didn't even know what the reason was, so I was puzzled, and I turned my face in the direction of my eldest brother and said, "I don't know." ”
Later, when we left the show, we happened to pass by my eldest brother's table.
I wanted to walk out quickly while my eldest brother was bowing his head, but I didn't expect to be stopped by my eldest brother.
The eldest brother pointed to the bench next to him and said, "Come, let's sit here and have a drink." ”
Very reluctantly, I took my boyfriend's hand and signaled to him that I wanted to go.
But my boyfriend thought it wouldn't look good if he walked directly, so he pulled me and sat down.
At first, my boyfriend exchanged a few words with him, and then the two of us chatted.
It was my boyfriend who spoke first and said to the eldest brother, "I thought there was any conflict between you two brothers and sisters? I didn't dare to say hello to you just now." ”
At that time, my eldest brother told my boyfriend that his father, who was also my uncle, passed away some time ago. I went to the funeral but didn't give him any money. "Little brother, do you think this is a bit inappropriate?"
I looked at my eldest brother suspiciously, and told him, "Why didn't I give you the money, big brother?" ”
The eldest brother replied: "Who did you give the money to? You said that you gave the gift, I have read the gift book, and my brother has also read it, and there is no your name at all." ”
I suddenly felt a lot more relaxed, and it was because of this that I dared to love my brother.
I only learned at this time that when I was giving the gift, I may have given the money to the eldest mother, but the eldest mother did not share the money with the two brothers.
So I patiently explained: "When I went at that time, I saw two gift books on the table, and I didn't know who to give them to, so I gave all of them to the eldest lady a total of 5,000 yuan." ”
After saying that, my boyfriend felt a little embarrassed. So he cautiously patted his eldest brother on the shoulder and said, "Hey, it's all a misunderstanding." ”
I thought that after I explained, my eldest brother would change his attitude towards me. But I never imagined that things in their family would be far more complicated than I thought.
I didn't expect that after the eldest brother called the eldest mother to confirm, he still didn't give up and could still break with me.
What the eldest brother means is that I give the money directly to his mother, that is, I honor my eldest mother, not the bride price.
When my boyfriend saw this scene, he also made an excuse and took me away.
On the way, he asked me, "Why is your eldest brother like this?"
I don't know what to say, I just think it's ridiculous. My uncle was very kind to me when he was alive, and this time my mother only let me follow a thousand.
But when I went, it was not easy to see the eldest mother, so I secretly took out 5,000 yuan to the eldest mother.
Since then, I have rarely been in touch with my eldest brother.
Unexpectedly, my mother told me in the past two days. There was a distant relative who said behind my back that I was the kind of person who didn't return the favor.
I looked at my mom in confusion, and later I realized that it was my eldest brother who did it.
The eldest brother has always had an argument that he has already got married. I and my aunt are two families, and I gave the money to my aunt and it has nothing to do with him. So with him, I'm the kind of person who doesn't return the favor.
That's when I told my mother about the cause and effect of the incident. I complained to her about my uncle's two sons.
My mother was not surprised at all when she heard this, and I asked my mother strangely, why is the uncle such a good person, but his two sons are such cold-blooded and calculating family people?
The mother said that long before the uncle's death, the two brothers had a particularly fierce quarrel.
Because the boss got married early, the bride price that the woman asked for at that time was 60,000 yuan, and this money was still given to the boss by the uncle.
At this time, the boss didn't have any ideas, the problem was that when the second child got married, because of the changes of the times, the money the woman asked for was about 20,000 yuan more than when the boss got married.
At that time, the eldest brother said that it was unfair and felt that the uncle was partial. So he asked the uncle to give him an extra 20,000 yuan.
The uncle didn't give it, what he said was that the eldest and the second child themselves are the same, and this money is all bride price for the woman, and there is no reason to give the boss an extra 20,000 yuan.
The boss has completely changed since then, and he always talks to his family in a weird way on weekdays.
also said that when the parents are old, they will let the second child take care of everything.
After hearing this, I was actually quite chilled, I didn't expect my eldest brother to make such a fuss with his family for 20,000 yuan.
Then I asked my mother again: "Then I gave this money to my mother, and it has nothing to do with them, and I didn't get the money, so what is there to be angry about?"
After hearing what I said, my mother smiled, touched my head and said to me, "How do you know that your eldest mother will tell your two sons truthfully that we are going to give a gift?"
I suddenly understood what my mother meant, but what I didn't expect was that it was obviously a family. There is such a back-and-forth calculation, which is really a weak friendship.
Their family really refreshed my three views, have you ever met such a family?
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