Zhang Xiaoxian said: "I used to think that sadness would shed a lot of tears, but it turns out that the real sadness is not a single tear." ”
I used to think that the real sadness was hysterical and heartbreaking, but in fact, there is nothing more sad than the death of the heart, and the sadness is more than silence, and the real sadness is to see through the other party thoroughly, and no longer disdain to entangle with it, and even crying feels like a waste of energy.
Some people say that in this life, a woman will inevitably meet a few scumbags, it doesn't matter, it's just over.
I think so. In reality, there may not be many people who are desperate for love, but there are many women who are stuck in the quagmire and can't extricate themselves. As a woman, you must know that only by giving up rotten peach blossoms can you get a lover, and only by withdrawing rotten feelings can you get true love.
A 74-year-old woman in Sichuan chose to pursue a career after suffering emotional trauma, and finally regained a love at the moment when her career ushered in the peak, and properly played a bad deck of cards into a king bomb.
The 95-year-old guy married the 74-year-old bride, and the scene was very lively
Although the proportion of sister and brother love is getting higher and higher, but when the age difference between men and women is too big, the people around them are still easy to sigh, at the Sichuan wedding scene, the combination of the bride of 74 years and the groom of 95 years has attracted many onlookers and photos.
On the day of the wedding, I saw the groom wearing a light-colored suit with a flower scarf, the whole person looked delicate and fashionable, and the metal-framed glasses made him more bookish, and he was surrounded by a group of sister-in-law women with a sunny and handsome appearance, and everyone shouted and asked him for a red envelope, and some even went directly to his clothes pocket and turned it in.
In the face of the enthusiasm of the woman's relatives and friends, the guy was obviously a little overwhelmed by the crowd, and he could only deal with it with a smile throughout the whole process. Although the guy kept taking out red envelopes, the group of sisters and sisters-in-law around him did not intend to let him go easily, some pulled their clothes and did not let go, and some were eager to wave their hands on their faces.
Seeing that the guy was not only handsome, but also had a strange temper, the woman's relatives and friends were even more excited, and all kinds of bad people who were close to each other asked for red envelopes, and those who were far away took out their mobile phones to take pictures, and the scene was full of people and lively.
The groom is busy dealing with enthusiastic relatives and friends, and the bride calmly drinks tea and watches
Compared with the guy's hurry, the bride's side is much calmer, seeing the groom being looted by a group of relatives, she was not angry at all, sitting on the bed with a cup of tea and watching, domineering, like a big heroine.
After drinking the tea, the bride waved her hand lightly, and immediately two slightly older ladies came over to help her remove the lid of the thermos cup and take care of her properly.
I saw that the bride was a little fat, although she was wearing a bright red dress, she still couldn't hide her wealth, but judging from her makeup and dress, it was obvious that her economic strength was not ordinary.
Although the woman's skin is firm and well maintained, after all, there is a 21-year-old age difference between her and the guy, so even if the two are not in the same frame, they give people a sense of mother and son, so many people are confused after seeing it.
"My son is 95 years old, my son is 74 years old. ”
"As long as it's not my son, bless it!"
"Find a mom. ”
There are also many people who say that the guy is estimated to be interested in the bride's money, so he will make such a choice, after all, at the bride's age, it is estimated that he is unable to have children, and the parents of the average family will not agree to this family business.
In the face of various doubts, the woman's relatives and friends said that although the age difference between the two people is not small, but the bride's courage and strength are worthy of admiration, 20 years ago, the woman was betrayed by her ex-husband and ruthlessly abandoned, she was at a low point in her life and did not collapse, but worked silently and finally broke out of a career, and now she has a small career success before reconsidering her life's events.
As for the age difference between the bride and her mother-in-law, relatives and friends also said that although the bride is indeed much older than the groom, she is still more than 10 years younger than her mother-in-law, so the family is not too awkward to get awkward.
Sentiment Analysis:
When it comes to women, they can't escape the label of "sensual". When it comes to feelings, women are indeed much more emotional than men, and once they are invested, they are difficult to give up. Many women, even if their feelings fade and even suffer betrayal, they will choose to continue to make do for love, and if a man treats her badly, she will lose her soul and feel that she can't see the hope of tomorrow.
But after reading the woman's experience, we can see that whoever leaves can take care of it, women should not use men as lifesavers at any time, as long as you are financially independent enough, in fact, you can have absolute initiative in love.
Jimmy once said: "The best way for a woman to look in a relationship is: don't take the initiative, don't please, don't be cheap." ”
In the long run, a woman's sense of security is always a sense of self-fulfillment, only when you are financially independent, material calmness can make you slow down the pace of marriage and love, so that you can no longer be like a monkey anxious girl, desperately trying to marry a pot, no matter what material is in the pot.
The more independent a woman is, the more free her marriage is, and when you are strong enough inside, no matter how much criticism there is from the outside world, it seems that it cannot influence your choice.
Today's Topic Discussion: What do you think of this marriage?
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