People only find out after 60 that if you want to easily live for 20 more years, you have to do these 7 things well
If a person is over 60 years old, if he has not lived to understand, he has lived in vain.
When you reach the age of 60, if you still want to live for another 20 years without panic, then you must be mentally prepared for the following eight in order to live unhindered to the age of 80.
First, don't compare with anyone
How much money, how big things to do, no matter how much your retirement salary is, just be content. If you don't eat and drink indiscriminately, and don't squander wantonly, you can do it without reaching out to your children to ask for it. If you are sick and have medical insurance, you can take the bus and have a bus card, you don't rely on the old and sell the old, you respect each other, you live with dignity, you are in a good mood, you have a smile on your face, you have no worries in your heart, and it is not a problem to live easily for more than 20 years.
Second, take care of yourself and don't worry too much about your children's private affairs.
It is a blessing for your children to take care of themselves so that they do not get sick or get sick less, and your children worry less, and you are happy if you suffer less.
Don't worry too much about your children's affairs, it's not that you don't care about anything, but don't care about the things that have a generation gap, don't care about their private space, don't care about their planned future, so as not to impose their own values on them, disrupt their life planning and life rhythm, and make everyone unhappy.
As for the grandchildren, depending on the situation, if you have energy, you will bring it, and if you don't have energy, you will not bring it.
It's not that you don't want to, but while helping others, you have to stubbornly do things that your body has more than enough energy to do, and your body will protest.
Make it clear, explain your physical condition clearly, I believe that your children will not blame you, and you can live for another twenty or thirty years with peace of mind.
Third, after the age of 60, reduce social interaction and drill less into the crowd.
Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are many people, there are many rights and wrongs.
When you are old, you can't stand the toss, stay away from the noise, don't care about idle things, don't have nothing to do, don't make trouble for your children, don't make trouble for yourself, live an easy life, live a comfortable life, and naturally live for twenty or thirty more years.
Fourth, develop good living habits.
After the age of 60, no matter how good your spirit is and how good your body is, you have to admit that you are already on the road to aging, and you are no longer the same as when you were young: you can eat to last, and you can do things for days and nights in a row.
Now, when you are full, you will be full, and if you eat a little more, you will not be able to stand it, or develop good living habits, go to bed early and get up early, do not eat and drink, good for the stomach, good for the body, good for yourself!
Good health, no disaster, no disease, no pain, good mood, it is not difficult to live for another twenty or thirty years.
Fifth, save some pension money for yourself, and don't ask for help at critical moments.
Be diligent, don't be lazy, and don't think that I have this or that I can rely on, and they can provide for me in old age.
Although this kind of thinking is good, but it should also be based on their own conditions, if the conditions are good, and filial piety to you, you are happy, if the conditions are not good, it will add more pressure and burden to them.
It's better to work harder when you can earn money, be diligent, earn more, spend less, and when you can't earn money, it's good to have money in your hands.
With money in hand, when your children encounter difficulties, you can not only help your children in an appropriate amount, but also live with peace of mind, and you can live a long life without anxiety.
Sixth, your own house must be in your own hands.
In old age, no matter how big or small your house is, you must be in your own hands, and don't sell your house because of the poor money for your children to change houses.
It's okay to meet filial children, but if children don't know how to be grateful and filial, they won't even have a way out.
As the saying goes, the house is your own harbor, even if you are small, you can live in your own house to feel comfortable, you don't have to look at other people's faces and listen to others' numbers, you will naturally live a relaxed and happy life, your soul is relaxed, happy, and you will not feel old if you live for more than 20 years.
Seventh, it is not as good as being good to one's wife as good to oneself.
In a lifetime, it is not your parents, not your children, but your wife who will accompany you the longest.
Parents will leave when they are old, children will leave when they are older, and only their spouses are the ones who will accompany them for a lifetime!
Therefore, it is better to be good to anyone than to be good to your wife!
In real life, there are always some people who are kind to everyone on the outside, but they are a different face when it comes to treating their wives.
Some people say that they are ignorant and do not understand that the person who really accompanies him to old age is not someone else, but the person who eats three meals with him for four seasons!
Therefore, we must be good to our spouses and our spouses, so that we can support each other and go further on the road of aging, live better and live longer.
What do you think?