The depreciation of academic qualifications is already a well-known thing.
With the development of society, there are more and more college students, but the gold content is getting lower and lower. When many children are in high school, their parents tell them to work hard, get into a good university, and after being admitted to college, it will be easy.
Many students listened to this sentence and thought that it would be really easy to be admitted to university.
In fact, no, there are many important courses in the university, especially those related to your major, and you must not fall behind! Otherwise, you will be unemployed after graduation. Many parents are still in the dark and don't know why.
After graduating from college, these 3 types of children are easy to "gnaw at the old" at home
1. Lack of ability and unwillingness to engage in basic work
Nowadays, there are a large number of college students, and the employment situation is grim. Some graduates feel privileged because they have a university degree, and they tend to dismiss low-paying jobs when looking for jobs, hoping to find high-paying and easy jobs.
However, regardless of the university they graduated from, graduates usually need to start with the basics and gradually gain experience to advance their professional status.
Graduates with low levels of skill often find it difficult to find satisfactory jobs, and if they do not have a correct understanding of their own abilities, they may find themselves in financial difficulties dependent on their families. Therefore, graduates should take a rational view of the job market and choose job opportunities pragmatically in order to achieve smooth employment.
2. There is an entrepreneurial dream, and the execution is very poor
Some people aspire to start a business after graduation and fantasize about the wealth after success, but entrepreneurial success requires real ability and rich industry experience, as well as accurate judgment of the future situation, not just luck. University graduates lack work experience, so they should start with basic work, keep their feet on the ground, and avoid unrealistic illusions.
3. It is difficult to find professional employment, and it has always been degenerate
Universities in mainland China have unpopular and popular majors, and graduates of popular majors are relatively easy to employ. Graduates of unpopular majors are easily frustrated when applying for jobs, leading to a loss of confidence and may eventually become a victim of the elderly, and their parents are worried about depression.
The Employment Dilemma of Modern College Students: Perspective and Reflection on the Phenomenon of Gnawing the Elderly
In modern society, the employment of college students has always been the focus of attention of families and society. With the popularization of university education, more and more young people are stepping into the university gate, however, when they step into the society after graduation, they find that the employment situation is not as optimistic as they imagined.
Among them, some graduates have become "gnawing the elderly" for various reasons, which has triggered people's deep thinking about the problems of modern parents for gnawing the elderly and the difficulty of employment.
First of all, we have to deal with graduates who are not very talented, and who are not willing to engage in basic work. They tend to think highly of themselves because they have a university degree, and they tend to be overly idealistic about their jobs.
During the job search process, they tend to be dismissive of low-paying jobs and always expect to find a job that pays well and is easy.
However, the reality is brutal, regardless of the university they graduate from, graduates usually need to start with basic work and gradually gain experience to advance their professional status.
When these graduates find the gap between reality and ideals, they often find it difficult to accept it, and then choose to escape, and may end up in financial hardship dependent on their families.
Parents often have mixed opinions about this phenomenon. On the one hand, they want their children to be able to find a good job and live a stable life;
On the other hand, they also understand their children's plight and helplessness. However, parents often feel disappointed and worried when their children are unable to find a satisfactory job for a long time or even start to rely on their family.
They begin to question their children's abilities and attitudes, and at the same time they begin to reflect on whether something is wrong with their own approach to education.
Secondly, there are some graduates who have an entrepreneurial dream, but their execution is very poor. They aspire to start a business after graduation and fantasize about wealth and glory after success.
However, starting a business is not an easy task, it requires real ability and extensive industry experience, as well as accurate judgment of the future situation.
For college graduates who lack work experience, the road to entrepreneurship is full of challenges and risks. When their business plans encounter setbacks, they often find it difficult to bear the pressure of failure and eventually choose to give up.
Parents are often both expectant and apprehensive about such graduates. They want their children to be brave enough to pursue their dreams, but at the same time, they are worried that their children are too impulsive and blind.
When a child's business plan fails, parents often feel disappointed and sad, and at the same time, they will reflect on whether they have given enough support and encouragement to their child.
Finally, we can't ignore the graduates who have been degrading because of the difficulty of finding a job in their profession. In mainland universities, graduates of unpopular majors and popular majors often face different situations in the job market.
Graduates of popular majors are relatively easy to find satisfying jobs, while graduates of lesser-known majors tend to face greater pressure to find employment.
When they are repeatedly frustrated in the job search process, their confidence is often gradually lost, and they may eventually choose to give up their efforts and become a gnawing old man.
For such graduates, parents often feel helpless and distressed. They understand their children's plight and helplessness, but at the same time, they also hope that they can be strong in facing reality and actively looking for solutions to problems.
However, when children are unable to get out of a difficult situation for a long time, parents often feel helpless and hopeless.
In the face of these phenomena, we can't help but think: How should modern parents look at the problems of gnawing at the elderly and the difficulty of finding employment? I believe that parents should maintain a rational and objective attitude, not only understand their children's plight and helplessness, but also give them sufficient support and encouragement.
At the same time, parents should also guide their children to take a correct view of employment issues and help them establish correct employment concepts and values.
As the saying goes, "It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish." "Parents should focus on nurturing their children's independence and autonomy, so that they can learn to think independently and solve problems.
Only in this way will children be better able to cope with various challenges and difficulties in their future lives.
In short, the employment dilemma of modern college students is a complex and serious problem. We need to think about it and solve it from multiple angles.
It is very important for parents to understand and support their children and guide them to view employment issues correctly.
At the same time, we also need the joint efforts of all sectors of society to create a better employment environment and opportunities for young people. Only in this way can we embrace a better future together.