introduction
The term "cheating marriage" comes from the article "The Book of Deception" written by Zhang Yingyu in the Ming Dynasty, in which there is such a sentence:
"This woman is the wife of a big stick, and she is suspected of cheating on marriage, and she found that there are eight old mothers in the house, so she sent her on leave to be his wife. provoked him to fight with the rich store, and then beat him to death. Then the mother of the house will tell you, you will get the silver, and then you will run away with the silver, which is to kill people, and Peter will also be profitable. The treacherous danger of the stick is so dangerous, can people be infatuated, and commit their tricks?"
Since then, the term "cheating marriage" has been coined.
A historian said that the phenomenon of cheating marriage has existed since ancient times, and in ancient times, let alone ordinary people, even princesses have been deceived in marriage!
The historian went on to say that in ancient times, most of them were "men cheating women", and some gentlemen would always pay attention to the women in the rich family's boudoir, and then disguise themselves to wait for the opportunity to cheat the marriage, and when the rich family's wealth was in their hands, they would quickly run away, resulting in the rich woman's marriage cheating.
The historian went on to say that with the development of society, there has been a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, and the phenomenon of "marriage squeezing" has become increasingly serious.
The historian went on to say that according to the survey, there are some women with financial difficulties who will cheat their marriages with a variety of modus operandi such as false documents, fake divorces, bigamy, and formal marriages. They will make up all kinds of lies to the deceived person, conceal their identity and true situation, deceive the deceived person's trust, and then induce the deceived person to come up with a huge bride price and choose the opportunity to escape. This kind of marriage fraud will bring huge economic losses to the deceived person, which is not only immoral, but also a crime, and will be held legally responsible.
The historian concluded that in order to prevent fraudulent marriages, some older young men should always be vigilant, resolutely not to believe the words of women of unknown origin, and resolutely not to pay high bride prices if they do not know the true situation of women. Only in this way can you avoid being deceived into marriage.
However, in real life, there will always be some older young men who are not very vigilant and will be cheated on marriage!
No, on April 5, a man in Hebei posted on a self-media platform that he was deceived into marriage by a woman in Qiu County, Handan, Hebei!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
On April 5, Hebei man Song posted on a self-media platform that he had been deceived in marriage, and the woman who deceived him claimed to be called Lu Moumou, 32 years old, about 170 cm tall, living in Qiu County, Handan, Hebei Province, and wanted to ask netizens for help, so he quickly found Lu Moumou to ask for the 330,000 property that Lu Moumou took away!
Song said that on January 24, he married the woman Lu Moumou, but the day after the wedding, Lu Moumou claimed that he wanted to go to Tianjin to deal with things, so he took a taxi and ran away. When Lu Moumou ran away, in addition to carrying an Apple mobile phone, he also carried a large amount of cash, mobile phone transfers and gold jewelry, etc., which totaled 330,000 yuan!
Song went on to say that he was immediately confused after inquiring about the identity of the woman Lu Moumou. After inquiry, it was learned that the woman Lu Moumou was an old man and belonged to a dishonest person, and when the two got married, the "father-in-law, mother-in-law" and "woman's relatives" they had seen were all fake, and after Lu Moumou ran away, he went to the place where Lu Moumou lived before marriage to check, and later learned that the house where Lu Moumou lived was rented. In desperation, he had to seek help from netizens so that he could find the cheating marriage as soon as possible.
In order to seek the help of netizens, Song also specially attached a photo of the cheating woman Lu Moumou for netizens to identify.
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizens are crooked: The bride price is very high now, and there will be bad people who take advantage of loopholes to cheat money. I hope that the public security organs will crack down on such criminals!
Netizen Chunhua Qiuyue: Song Moumou was careless, and he casually believed the words of a married woman, Lu Moumou didn't lie to you, who to deceive!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
Nowadays, there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women, and in this case, some single older young men are worried about their marriage.
However, Lao Hu believes that marriage needs to be cautious, and before figuring out the woman's identity or her own true situation, you must not give a large amount of money, otherwise, you may encounter a deceived marriage!
Lao Hu thinks: The ancients said that "there is no big mistake in being careful" is very reasonable. As an older young man, you must be vigilant on marriage issues, as long as you are vigilant, you will avoid being cheated into marriage!