In today's fast-paced society, blind dates have become an important way for many single men and women to find their other half. However, behind a seemingly ordinary blind date, there may be many unnoticed details. This article will tell the story of a man who was disgusted by the girl's eating behavior during the blind date, and conduct an in-depth analysis of this, in order to provide readers with table manners suggestions during the blind date process.
The hero of the story, let's call him Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang is 28 years old this year, engaged in the financial industry, and has a successful career, but his love life has been vacant. Under the introduction of relatives and friends, he began to go on blind dates many times. The object of this blind date is Xiao Li, a gentle and beautiful girl. At first, Xiao Zhang had a good impression of Xiao Li, and her elegant temperament and appropriate words made Xiao Zhang feel more comfortable. However, that all changed when they ate together.
Xiao Li sat opposite Xiao Zhang, and his actions during the meal made Xiao Zhang feel more and more uncomfortable. First of all, Xiao Li ate very quickly, almost one bite after another, and turned chopsticks back and forth in the pot, which made Xiao Zhang feel very uncomfortable. What made Xiao Zhang even more unacceptable was that Xiao Li kept fiddling with his mobile phone during the meal, laughing from time to time. This made Xiao Zhang feel as if he had become an ornament on the dining table, and he couldn't attract Xiao Li's attention at all. In the end, after Xiao Li finished the meal, he actually picked up his mobile phone to take pictures and send them to Moments, and giggled at the mobile phone screen. This series of actions made Xiao Zhang instantly lose his favor, and even feel disgusted.
First of all, Xiao Li's excessively fast eating speed made Xiao Zhang feel that she lacked education and was far from the image of his ideal partner. Secondly, looking at his phone frequently during meals made Xiao Zhang feel neglected and his self-esteem was hit. In the end, Xiao Li used the eating process as a capital to show off, making Xiao Zhang feel that she was too vain.
This blind date ended in failure, which had a big impact on Xiao Zhang's psychology. He began to reflect on his blind date experience and realized the importance of table manners in the process of finding a partner. The experience of this failure made Xiao Zhang understand that details determine success or failure, even in the seemingly simple process of blind date, it cannot be ignored.
Summary: Table manners in the blind date process are very important, it not only affects the first impression of both parties, but also determines the success or failure of the blind date to a certain extent. To this end, we make the following suggestions: first, eat at a moderate pace, not too fast or too slow, second, keep in communication with each other, try to avoid looking at your phone frequently, and finally, don't use the eating process as a bragging rights, respect each other as well as respect yourself. Only in this way can you leave good memories in the blind date and lay the foundation for the emotional development of both parties.