Who's at fault?
Xiaobian thinks: In a civilized society, it is really wrong to beat people!
The location and course of the incident
It is understood that it happened on March 31, in a Malatang store in Jining, Shandong:
As can be seen from the video of the scene, there are quite a lot of people eating in the store, everyone keeps quiet, and suddenly a child's crying and hoarse sound came, which lasted for a long time, and the parents played with their mobile phones on the side and did not stop it in time.
At this time, a woman who was eating in the store was affected by the noise of children, and because the distance was a little far, she stopped loudly: "Shut up"!
However, this stop did not succeed in silencing the child, so the woman got up and walked to the child and shouted, "You tell you to go out again, don't call it!" "Public place, public place, what is it called?"
Although she successfully shut up the child, the woman's attitude also caused dissatisfaction among the parents, and they ran directly to the woman's side to quarrel with her!
Although I couldn't hear the content clearly, it can be seen from the video that there was a fierce argument, during which the woman also said: "Tutor" and "No tutor!"
In the end, the child's parents directly took action and gave the woman a slap, and the two successfully tore up!
It was originally a very simple matter, but I didn't expect it to end up being complicated!
Netizen comments
Many netizens have expressed their opinions on this, and they also have different opinions!
Some netizens feel that the parents of the children did not teach their children well, did not stop them in time, and even started beating people, which is really wrong!
Netizens commented:
Parents don't care, just let yourself be managed, there's nothing wrong with it!
After the girl finished speaking, the child immediately quieted down, so it is true that the parents did not teach well, and it is not that the child does not understand
Children are not sensible, and adults are not sensible?
However, it seems that the child really didn't scream when he shut up, so whether the child is ignorant or the parents didn't teach him well
Call the police, the parents hit the person first, ask for compensation, and do not accept mediation
However, some netizens think that it is not right for the woman to yell loudly to stop the child, after all, the child is still young, and she must also take care of the child's feelings.
Netizens commented:
It's not right to yell at children, are adults willing?
You shouldn't reprimand it out loud.
The adult who yelled at the child was the same as this child. Parental discipline is required
Some netizens feel that children are small, and it is not a big deal to make noise, so they should be tolerated.
Netizens commented: Isn't it normal for children to be noisy, why can't we be more tolerant?
outcome
In the end, the matter was big, and I had no choice but to call the police to deal with it and get mediation!
The editor has something to say
The woman's eating was affected, and there was nothing wrong with stopping the child in time, and it was not wrong for the parents to come forward to defend the child as soon as he was yelled.
But the attitude of both sides is not good!
If the child's parents had stopped the child as soon as possible, the result might have been different!
If the woman hadn't stopped the child loudly in front of many people in the store, maybe the result would have been different!
If the parents didn't come to quarrel after the child was stopped, maybe the result would have been different!
I believe that many people think that it is not good for children to make noise in public, and parents have a certain responsibility for discipline, right?
So the question is: what would you do if this were your child?