On the stage of Do Not Disturb, every time the lights are turned on and off, it carries the expectations and disappointments of countless people. And on that special night of December 4, 2018, a unique blind date story was staged.
The male guests of the night gave people a sense of simplicity as soon as they came on stage. He was dressed simply, and there was a kind of humility in his words. He claims to be a small security guard, and although his job is ordinary, he loves his job and loves life. However, when such an introduction reached the ears of the female guests, most of them reacted coldly. They didn't seem to be interested in this seemingly ordinary security guard, and pressed the lights out button one after another.
In the face of such a result, the male guests did not show too much emotion. He continued to calmly tell about his life, as if telling a story that had nothing to do with him. However, just when everyone thought that this blind date was about to end in failure, the male guest suddenly changed his words and revealed his true identity.
He tells everyone that he is actually the owner of a security company and is worth a lot of money. As soon as these words came out, the scene exploded instantly. The female guests who had turned off the lights before showed expressions of surprise and regret, as if they saw the huge wealth they had missed.
In the face of such a reversal, the male guests did not look very proud. He said lightly that the reason why he hid his identity was to find someone who treated him sincerely, not those money worshippers who only valued money. In this way, he filtered out those who did not meet his expectations in an intuitive way of avoiding danger to the greatest extent.
I have my own opinion on this blind date.
Although the approach of the male guest is somewhat extreme, it also reflects a reality in today's society. In this era of material supremacy, many people see money and status as the only criteria to measure a person's worth. In this context, it is indeed not easy for male guests to find someone who does not value money and treats each other sincerely.
Understand the choices of those female guests. After all, everyone has their own values and pursuits. Some people may be more materialistic, while others are more spiritual. We can't blame others just because we have different values.
However, this blind date also made me see a question, that is, when we are looking for a partner, we should pay too much attention to the material conditions of the other person? I believe that true love should be based on mutual respect and understanding, not just money transactions. If we see money as the only measure of a person's worth, then such love is destined to be fragile and short-lived.
In addition, a long time ago, I also had some opinions on the blind date show If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb.
As a blind date show that has attracted much attention, every guest on its stage has become the focus of public attention.
However, with the broadcast of the show, the words and deeds of some guests also sparked widespread social discussion and controversy.
Among them, Ma Nuo, who participated in the show in 2010, is one of the controversial figures.
Major's "poisonous tongue" performance in the show is impressive. She often relentlessly hits back and complains about those male guests who do not meet her aesthetic or material conditions. This direct and sharp expression made her a topic of conversation in the show.
However, this kind of words and deeds also exposes her overemphasis on material conditions, as well as her shallow understanding of feelings and interpersonal relationships.
Mano makes no secret of his love for money on the show, often asking male guests questions about family wealth. Although this straightforward attitude reflects her honesty to a certain extent, it also raises questions about her real motives for participating in the show.
Do you put the search for true love in the first place, or do you use the show as a platform to show yourself and pursue material conditions?
And Ma Nuo's astonishing answer of "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" pushed her to the forefront.
This quote not only reveals her pursuit of money and material life, but also reflects a distorted set of values. In her opinion, it seems that happiness can only be found in a BMW, and riding a bicycle means the hardships and misfortunes of life.
This idea of directly linking happiness to material conditions is undoubtedly a misunderstanding of true love and happiness.
It is said that her life is not ideal now, which shows that although everyone has the right to pursue their own happy life, it is undoubtedly a narrow and short-sighted idea to take money and material conditions as the only criteria for measuring happiness.
True happiness should be based on mutual respect, understanding and support, not just money transactions.
There is no doubt that it was a good show at the time, and the original intention was to help people find a partner, but too much emphasis on material conditions and external image made it easy for people to form a distorted view of marriage and love.
Although as a variety show, it undoubtedly provides a lot of entertainment and topics for the audience. However, we also cannot ignore the social problems it brings. In the show, many guests will put their conditions and requirements on the surface, which seems fair, but it is also easy for people to form a prejudice that "conditions determine everything".
In fact, love is not a simple exchange process, it involves many complex factors, such as personality, interests, values, and so on. These factors are far more important than money and status. Therefore, when we choose a partner, we should pay more attention to these inner qualities, rather than just the external conditions.
This little brother who pretended to be a security guard did teach his sisters a lesson at the time, and made the blind date a dramatic turn, but he also let us see some practical problems in today's society.
The influence of money and status in love is still long-lasting, and there are signs of intensification, but many girls forget their own efforts while pursuing money and fame, and eventually hold their own bitter fruits, or have no eyes, and miss a good marriage.
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What do you think about the behavior of rich people pretending to be security guards?