A friend told me in the evening that it would have been a happy thing to go shopping with his girlfriend on the weekend, but when he came back, he was so tired, and he had a wild meal at night to soothe the discomfort in his heart.
The friend's unhappiness is that the two of them are shopping, and most of the whole process is girlfriends chatting, and friends have been listening.
When ordering, my girlfriend orders what I like, but not what my friends like.
At the end of the day, her friends are exhausted from shopping, but her best friend has happily started to ask her out and prepare for the next movie.
When I was talking to my friends, I suddenly sighed, what is a real friend?
If it is a unilateral sacrifice of one's own feelings, expressions, and preferences in exchange for the happiness of the other party, is such a relationship comfortable for both parties? Is such a relationship reciprocal?
Rui Xiaodan's first sentence to Xiao Yawen impressed me deeply,
The recently hit "Flowers", there are more than 1,000 "no sounds" in the original book, and in various scenes, there will be all kinds of people "not talking", and "not talking" means "not talking", which means not speaking and being silent.
Not speaking has many meanings: agree, disagree, don't want to say, dare not speak, can't speak, and it's useless to say......
But the dialogue between Xiao Yawen and Rui Xiaodan is not "unpleasant", and they will be "uneasy" if they have problems.
The two hugged each other when they met at the airport, and when they hugged, Xiao Yawen felt Rui Xiaodan's perfunctory.
If you experience this situation, even if you feel the other party's perfunctory, do you rarely ask the other party, why are you perfunctory to me?
Because, we will feel that it is too impolite to ask like this, and it will hurt the feelings of the other party. What if people just want to perfunctory you? What if you just don't matter that much to others?
But as soon as she got in the car, Xiao Yawen directly said that Rui Xiaodan's hug was insincere and perfunctory.
Rui Xiaodan explained that she was talking to Rui Xiaodan to guess what was on her mind, and Rui Xiaodan couldn't be sincere.
As soon as this question was answered, the subtle embarrassment between the two was resolved.
However, despite this explanation, Xiao Yawen still had to further determine the extent of the relationship between the two, and she went on to foreshadow, mentioning that the two met from the police university.
Actually, here Xiao Yawen wants to make sure that the affection of the old classmate is still there, after all, I haven't seen him for so many years.
Rui Xiaodan's 5 words made Xiao Yawen settle down - his best friend.
When Rui Xiaodan said these 5 words, Xiao Yawen officially said his request, that is, if they meet this time, Rui Xiaodan will really meet perfunctory, and he will not mention that the two are best friends.
Then, Xiao Yawen is likely to post the money by himself, run for nothing, accompany Rui Xiaodan to have a cup of tea, and then return to China.
Even if Rui Xiaodan agreed to help Xiao Yawen, Xiao Yawen also bluntly said that Rui Xiaodan in her eyes is like this: she is measured, decent and natural.
Because, Rui Xiaodan is beautiful and has a cold temperament. Without Rui Xiaodan by his side, Xiao Yawen is still a corner, once Rui Xiaodan is there, Xiao Yawen will become a foil.
However, even if Xiao Yawen was jealous of Rui Xiaodan, he still dared to introduce Ding Yuanying to Rui Xiaodan.
When Ouyang Xue asked Xiao Yawen to be her lawyer, even if she had already said that Ding Yuanying recognized Xiao Yawen very much, she would definitely have no problem, but Xiao Yawen still asked Rui Xiaodan again what she thought of her representation of this case.
Here, she has two meanings, not only to see if her ability is good in Rui Xiaodan's eyes, but on the other hand, she is also based on Rui Xiaodan's enough trust.
She may still lack a little self-confidence in whether she can do it or not, but when her good friend who has obtained a lawyer's license affirms that she can, she will be more confident that she can do it.
There is no such thing as a plastic flower sisterhood between them that I am not as good as you without me, and I hope you are not better than me.
At Rui Xiaodan's farewell ceremony, Xiao Yawen looked at those kind-hearted people, manipulated Rui Xiaodan in his own way, and felt sorry for Rui Xiaodan.
She knew that this would only get farther and farther away from the real Rui Xiaodan. But at the same time, she also understands that this is their sincerity and their right.
To what extent does she care about Rui Xiaodan?
When the staff was about to push Rui Xiaodan's body away, Xiao Yawen found something that no one had paid attention to when the car was about to disappear.
She ran over, put her hand on Rui Xiaodan's feet, touched it, and realized that her own guess was right - it was empty.
Because, Rui Xiaodan's feet were blown off, and several of the criminal policemen in charge didn't think of this detail, and no one prepared a pair of shoes for Rui Xiaodan, so it was empty.
The details that no one noticed, but Xiao Yawen noticed.
She said directly: "Xiao Dan can't leave without shoes." ”
After speaking, he directly took off the shoes on his feet and put them on Rui Xiaodan's feet.
In this way, when Rui Xiaodan left, she originally decided that she would not take anything with her in this world, but unexpectedly, she took away a pair of Xiao Yawen's shoes.
It can be seen from the friendship between Xiao Yawen and Rui Xiaodan:
When no one can understand her, having such a friend can make her feel that there are people in this world who understand her.
When she was neglected, there was such a friend who took off her shoes and gave her her one last ride. So that she is not alone at all.
If you ask the world, who can understand Rui Xiaodan, except for Ding Yuanying, it is Xiao Yawen.