The image of "Mazu" Liu Tao has always been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and everyone knows it in his hometown Jiangxi, but a recent news has pushed Jiangxi to the forefront. Recently, Jiangxi Jiujiang Bank launched a special loan activity: bride price loan! and publicized it with great fanfare: "Don't worry about the bride price expenses, the loan will bring stable happiness." This wave of operations was really shocking, and it soon occupied the hot searches of major platforms, causing heated discussions.
According to reports, Jiangxi's bride price custom has always been the focus of attention. A young man took a fancy to a girl on a blind date, the two fell in love, and soon came to the point of talking about marriage, when talking about the bride price, the woman's family paid a fixed price, asking for a bride price of 288,000 yuan, plus the cost of marriage, it was close to 500,000. But the budget of the man's family is only 400,000 yuan, and he hopes to negotiate a reduction in the cost, but the woman told the man that the other young man has increased the price to 388,000 yuan, and the two parties have already negotiated the family matter. I can't help but be surprised.
Now in some places, the bride price is rising, making it more difficult to get married. Mr. Cheng, from Jiangxi, started dating at the age of twenty-four or five, and until his early thirties, he had not yet found a suitable partner to marry. He said that it is not that he does not want to get married, but that the bride price is too high, and the wedding bride price in rural areas used to be about 300,000 yuan, but now it has risen to about 500,000 yuan. In this regard, more and more people are beginning to question this bride price custom, believing that the high bride price turns what should be a beautiful love and marriage into a monetary transaction.
The bride price custom may be justified, but an excessively high bride price will only cause rifts in the marriage. We should also look at marriage and bride price more rationally, and the only criterion for measuring true love is to see whether we can achieve each other, promote each other, and grow together in a loving relationship.
The choice of love runs through our lives, and the only criterion for measuring whether the person we establish a relationship with is whether they can become a benign interactive relationship that promotes each other and grows together.
Don't let love and money be linked, make married life better. What do you think about this? Feel free to leave your experiences and thoughts in the comment section.