Recently, a netizen posted a video on the Internet of his daughter attending a coming-of-age ceremony held in high school. Other female classmates were wearing long skirts and fluttering dresses, but the netizen's daughter was wearing her mother's old clothes suit. The daughter's cramped appearance is in stark contrast to her generous classmates.
The netizen said: Other people's daughters are showy, and their own daughters are simple and confident, even if they are wearing their old clothes from a few years ago, others are not as good as their daughters.
However, netizens' eyes are bright, and the girl's cramped and unconfident can't be faked.
Everyone reminded her in the comment area of her video: High school is the time when her self-esteem is the strongest, be careful that her daughter will be deceived by someone else's skirt in the future!
In exchange, the mother said lightly: My daughter doesn't like to wear skirts, she doesn't care.
Is it really not a concern, or does it not have the right to decide what to wear? The girl is cramped and uneasy in the video, and the outfit that does not fit in with the people around her is not an illusion.
It's the mother who doesn't care about her daughter's thoughts, it's that her daughter's sense of security is not enough, and she doesn't dare to put forward her own ideas, so her embarrassment comes from unsound love.
It is said that girls should be rich, and enrichment refers to giving enough material and psychological care, which is not only the cultivation of a sound soul, but also to enhance the strong psychology of various situations in the future.
A suitable and decent dress for a coming-of-age ceremony is not only a skirt, but also a mother's attitude. Even if I buy a new set of clothes for my daughter, it is much better than my mother's old clothes a few years ago. But this mother chose to ignore her daughter's self-esteem. hurriedly replied, in fact, he knew that his approach was untenable.
It is always said that parental love is the most selfless, but it is also limited and preferential. Later, some informed netizens found out from the mother's past videos that her family has a total of two daughters and one son. And this daughter, who has lived a coming-of-age ceremony, obviously does not receive enough love.
The sensible daughter later said: I volunteered to wear my mother's old clothes. But how much sadness and sadness is behind it?
Youth is limited, dignity is priceless, there is only one coming-of-age ceremony, even adults keep saying: We are using our lives to make up for our past selves.
What do you think? Are you willing to have your child dress decently for a coming-of-age ceremony?
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