Text/Xia Mo
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Luck is not innate, just like flowers, it is carefully cultivated by people.
If you want to reap more good luck, you should know how to manage your life, so that everything can develop in a better direction, and good luck and good fortune will always follow you.
Many times, a person starts to get lucky, and it can be seen.
The way a person is about to go lucky is inseparable from the word "allow".
02. Allow yourself to try and make mistakes and start trying
People with good luck are not afraid to make mistakes.
When he encounters something he wants to do, he will try it and will not have many concerns. He believes that if you try, you may be rewarded.
I know a friend who sells clothes.
Initially, she had her own storefront, but business slowly deteriorated due to the impact of online shopping.
During that time, she lost confidence and had plans to close the store and change careers. However, she didn't want to declare defeat and was unwilling.
So, she gave herself the last three months, and she began to "toss" constantly.
She discounted the unsalable clothes, went to the street to set up a stall, and sent a group message to regular customers to see if they were interested.
Try to understand how the online store works, and think about whether you can go the route of online sales. Now she has survived, and her shop has opened. Not only profitable, but even better than before.
A person who allows himself to try and make mistakes, allows himself to fail, and allows himself to try, it is possible to usher in good luck.
Because, if you try, there are new possibilities.
Oprah Winfrey said: "Walk through the new door. Most of the time, there's great stuff on the other side. ”
Society is progressing, everyone is moving forward, and you can only truly break through yourself by choosing trial and error.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes, everyone has a "novice period", when you allow yourself to try and make mistakes, and be brave enough to try, you can get through the toughest times and usher in new glories.
03. Allow everything to happen and accept reality
In the TV series "Dali Temple Shaoqing Tour", there is a master book named Cui Bei.
He feels that he has an unlucky physique, and no matter who is by his side, he will follow him with "bad luck".
For this reason, he looked depressed and did not dare to have a deep friendship with anyone, for fear that he would bring trouble to others.
His father went out on an errand and died in an accident on the road, and he never dared to look at his father's file back then, fearing that his father would be killed by him.
met Li Cake, Shaoqing of Dali Temple, enlightened him, and told him: He doesn't have so much influence, without him, everything that should happen will still happen.
Don't take all the blame on yourself, just allow everything to happen and be strong.
His heart knot was opened, and since then he has become a bright young man, and the road to the future can be smoother.
A person who allows everything to happen, knows how to accept reality, and does not run away from it, will see the good side of life and welcome new luck.
Huang Meilian, a doctor of arts at the University of California, who has been suffering from cerebral palsy since childhood, said in her speech: "I only look at what I have, not what I don't have." ”
At any time, don't think too pessimistic about everything, don't get caught up in negative emotions and can't get out.
What if you fail? It doesn't meet expectations, but it's not the end. As long as you don't give up, there are still many opportunities for success.
There are two sides to everything, and you have to believe that everything is the best arrangement. If you stabilize your mind, you can be the best version of yourself.
04. Allow resource sharing and know how to make profits
In life, good luck depends on oneself to fight for it.
Walking in this world, if you want to have better opportunities, you must learn to manage your network and learn to share resources.
Hu Xueyan said: "If you want to do great things, you must know how to share with others, rather than blindly fishing for yourself." ”
Allow yourself to share resources, learn to make profits, and you will be able to open up your own pattern.
Those who only know how to pursue their own interests and do not consider the feelings of others often make countless enemies for themselves.
If you don't want to suffer losses and don't want to have so many obstacles, you have to be generous and share resources.
No matter how strong your ability is, you can't be stronger than the strength of your team. Be generous and be able to help the people around you, and you will get more benefits.
By allowing resources to be shared and learning to share, you will gain more cooperation and more opportunities.
05. Summary
Good luck, in fact, is transformed by oneself.
On the road of life, if you want to live a better life, you must learn to work harder and try more, so that there will be new development.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes, accept all your shortcomings and build on your strengths. At the same time, learn to cooperate and learn to work as a team.
Manage your life with your heart, and you will find that good luck is always by your side.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.