It is never a good thing for a woman to remain passive in her married life for a long time, and the most likely thing is: to cope because of helplessness!
No matter who it is, it is inevitable that the husband and wife will have the possibility of coping after a long time. But when this coping becomes a habit, it is to wander on the edge of danger!
Whether it is perfunctory or perfunctory, what you can't escape is that "there is a reason for it". And these reasons are most likely the last straw that crushes your marriage.
Reason 1: Absent-mindedness
Absent-mindedness is not the same as betrayal, but in real life, many women's hearts are like dandelions in the wind, fluctuating. Their bodies may be the same, but their hearts have long since lost their sense of belonging.
Reason 2: Betrayal
When a woman first starts cheating, she may behave unusually devotedly in her husband and wife life due to the influence of psychological factors. However, unlike men, she can easily close her eyes and fantasize about you as anyone she desires......!
Reason 3: Tiredness
When a woman becomes bored with her lover, conjugal life becomes a physical and mental ordeal. This torment comes not only from physical resistance, but also from the exhaustion of the mind. Gone is the passion and intimacy of the past, replaced by indifference and alienation. Conjugal life is no longer an enjoyment, but has become an inextricable pain that cannot be shaken off, like a shadow, exhausting .......
Write at the end
After a long marriage, many men don't care about anything else as long as they still have a purpose. But this is an extremely merciless injury for a normal woman. Women care about feelings, and they care more about love. And if you omit all of these, then no matter how much you loved each other in the past, this love will become a cloud of the past!
Don't ignore the details of life, and don't ignore women's feelings. No matter how tired and annoying you are, any family is full of women, women are happy, and I guarantee that your life will be less than 80% of your troubles. If you don't believe me, you can try ......!