If your man is the kind of person who never bows his head when he quarrels, and you haven't been in a relationship for a long time, or you are also evaluating him, then the better way to deal with it is to give up and fall in love with someone else.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
Because it has something to do with my consistent advocacy, which is that you can't change a person, you can only choose a person.
So when you choose such a man, you have to know that it may be difficult for you to communicate what you want when you get along in the future, because this man may not admit his mistake at all.
Generally speaking, such men are very good-looking and have a very strong sense of self-esteem, so their focus is always on winning or losing, and they will not take into account your feelings for the sake of winning or losing. In their worldview, admitting defeat means having no dignity and face, and with such a man, you will often feel aggrieved and depressed, because you always can't get the love and understanding you deserve.
Generally speaking, if you meet such a man, there are only two endings:
1. Relationship breakdown;
If your man values face and dignity so much, then it means that in his heart, love and marriage are also for him.
He will not think about what is in your heart, nor will he reflect on his own problems, once there are signs of quarrel in your relationship, he will enter battle mode with you in order to win or lose, and you will become enemies with him step by step, until you feel that there is no need for you to think of it between you, and your relationship will break down.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
2. Your life is miserable, and you will just keep enduring it;
If you feel that you can tolerate it for the sake of the relationship to survive, then the result is that you have to endure it constantly, and there is a high probability that there is no possibility of conversion.
If the other party feels that it doesn't make sense to you, he may also treat you in a cold and violent way, he only cares about his own wins and losses, not your feelings, and he still hopes that you can be soft in order to win or lose.
If you give in for the sake of this relationship, then your mode of getting along will continue endlessly, and you can only drink bitter water by yourself silently.
So at the beginning, I told you that you can choose to give up if you can. If you are in a relationship, it is okay to have a female friend, and you will be more free to choose, but if you are married, for the sake of your children, for the sake of the family, or if you have no financial strength, you may compromise again and again, but the result of compromise will only be worse.
Then the question arises again, when you meet such a man, you have to stay with each other for the rest of your life, how do you get along correctly?
Xiaoyu said to redeem
First of all, you have to learn some communication skills, every time there is a conflict, don't raise the problem to the level of winning or losing, learn to express it in words, and transfer the contradiction of the problem. Secondly, where the other party can make compromises, give high praise and praise, so that the other party feels that there will be sweetness in compromise, and slowly guide him to pay.
Another better way is that you use all your time to improve yourself, make yourself strong enough to have the cost of leaving him, and you don't have to stay with someone who only needs to save face and not be emotional.
Finally, I would like to add that if you want to guide him to get along with you, then you need to be patient, because human habits are difficult to change, and I recommend that you think about whether it is worth it rather than guiding him.
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