Old Reunion: The Original Intention Has Changed, Reminiscing or Showing Off?
In this fast-paced society, old school reunions seem to be a rare way to relax. Everyone came from far and wide to get together to reminisce about the past and talk about future plans. However, as times change, the original intention of the class reunion seems to be quietly changing.
Once upon a time, class reunions were purely emotional exchanges. Everyone sat together, sharing each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and talking about the interesting stories and dreams of their youth. At that time, we didn't have much utilitarianism, we just wanted to get back that innocent friendship.
However, as time went on, class reunions seemed to become less innocence. Some people began to use the party as a stage to show themselves, wearing designer clothes and watches, showing off their accomplishments and wealth. Their words are full of showing off and comparison, and people can't help but sigh, is this really the class reunion we were once familiar with?
At the same time, the organization of class reunions is changing. The AA system has become mainstream, but the use and allocation of fees are often not transparent. Some people are beginning to question where the money is being spent, whether it is really spent on the cost of gatherings, and the seating arrangements reflect the difference in social status, making people wonder if this is a class reunion or a vanity fair.
What's even more interesting is that there are various subtle interactions that occur during the party. Some are busy toasting and building relationships, while others sit silently in the corner, enjoying the peace of their own. This differentiation also seems to foreshadow a certain reality in society: people are busy for their own purposes, and real emotional communication is becoming less and less.
However, the most regrettable thing is that those once familiar faces and voices are becoming less and less common at gatherings. Some people can't attend for a variety of reasons, while others lose real connection because they're too much in the guise of relationships. Can such a party regain that innocent friendship?
Everyone has their own opinions and expectations about old school reunions. But in any case, we should keep in mind the original purpose of the gathering: to regain that innocent friendship, to relive that good time of youth. What's the point of a party if we're just going to it for show-off and comparison?
The class reunion was originally an emotional bridge, but it gradually became a competition for fame and fortune. Should we reflect on how to make class reunions return to their original intentions and truly become a place for our emotional exchange? This may be a question worth pondering.
In closing, I would like to say that no matter how times change, true friendship will not change. I hope that each of us can cherish that rare friendship and make the party a beautiful memory in our hearts forever.
However, when it comes to class reunions, their meaning and value are always a rather controversial topic. On the one hand, some people firmly believe that reunions are an excellent opportunity to relive old times, enhance friendships, and are an indispensable spice in life, on the other hand, some people believe that under the impact of reality, class reunions have become utilitarian and hypocritical, and have lost their original innocence and simplicity.
This controversy is not without merit. In real life, we do see too many class reunions that change their minds because of fame, fortune and status. Some people go to great lengths to show off their success and wealth, while others choose to avoid or remain silent for fear of being compared and ignored. Such a party has obviously deviated from its original intention and turned into a hypocritical performance.
But at the same time, we should also realize that class reunions still have their unique value and significance. In these fast-changing times, we all need a place where we can relax and reminisce about the past. Class reunions are just such a place, which gives us the opportunity to relive the beautiful days of our youth and feel the innocent friendship and friendship. Here, we can let go of the shackles and pressures of the world, and share the bits and pieces of life and insights with our old classmates.
Therefore, we should have a rational attitude towards class reunions. We should not only see the problems and shortcomings in it, but also cherish the beauty and emotion it brings. We can try to improve the way we organize, strengthen communication, etc., so that the class reunion is closer to our inner needs and more in line with our expectations and vision.
In conclusion, class reunions are a complex and diverse topic. It has both positives and negatives. We should face it with an open mind, evaluate it with a rational attitude, and let it play a more positive role in our lives.