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Some people think that there is no problem, after all, college students are adults, and teachers are even more adults, and since it is the relationship between two adults, then it is okay to be willing to be with each other.
However, on this point, why has no one thought that allowing college teachers and students to have sex is actually unfair to other students? If a university teacher has feelings for non-students from the same school, then it will not affect other students.
But if this teacher is in a relationship with his student, then who can guarantee that he will not be biased? Whether the teacher is male or female, human nature is the same, it is said that the lover is in the eyes, this is just in terms of appearance, in terms of specific operations, will the university teacher tend to give more resources to his own couple?
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So, when the other half of a university teacher has better resources, will this lead to more young people flattering for resources? What should a young person do if he feels that it is unfair and he is wronged because his classmates are the teacher's couple who have better resources?
College students are indeed adults, but the relationship should start on the basis of equality between the two parties, and the relationship should not and cannot be a threat to others, otherwise it is immoral.
But about university teachers, there are also media discussions on whether to fall in love with students, and here also pays attention to a detail, that is, when the relationship between teachers and students is not smooth, will this teacher take advantage of his identity?
Of course, there is also a situation where the teacher himself is upright, and he and the other party are also in love, shouldn't such feelings be blessed? If it is purely from the perspective of feelings, of course, it can be blessed, but the identity of the university teacher and the student is special, and the teacher knows that he has not treated the student unfairly because of the relationship with the other party, but do the other students know?
Or from the student's point of view, even if they see it, will they believe it? Although the college student has become an adult, after all, he is still very young, and young people are always impulsive and strong-blooded, if the teacher himself has no problems and has not done anything unfair, but the student thinks that the classmate is taking advantage of the identity of this teacher's lover, will this student do anything?
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Such an impact is negative and uncontrollable. So, why do you have to fall in love with a student?
It is understandable that students fall in love with teachers, after all, college students are more like flowers in a greenhouse, and it is easy to like teachers to be conquered by the teacher's personality charm when they are here.
However, as a teacher who has more social experience than a student, he should think carefully about whether this relationship should be started.
I always think that most people who do not support the relationship between teachers and students are not that teachers are not worthy of falling in love with students, but that they discuss and care about the status of teachers in this relationship. If the teacher really likes the other person, then why can't he wait until the other person graduates to show him his feelings?
The ancients all said that if the relationship between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight, and the teacher who is a model for others does not even understand this? In the emotional relationship between students and teachers, teachers, as the older party, should have more initiative, so saying no to students at the right time is a teacher who is more worthy of praise, what do you think?