A while ago, Bao Ma Zhou Li and her husband ushered in the third family member of this small family, a lovely baby girl.
But there is still one thing that dilutes the joy of the family to welcome a new life, and that is the child's name.
In fact, before the child was born, Zhou Li and her husband were worried about the child's name, for no other reason, mainly the father's surname, which was too embarrassing!
Bao Dad's surname is "testicle", I believe that many people see this word, and their first reaction is related to a certain characteristic of men.
For this reason, Bao's father also said that he was ridiculed by many people around him because of this unique and rare surname in school and even after work.
Especially when he was a child, he always couldn't learn to write the word "testicle", because he didn't like this surname for no reason at that time.
When he was sensible, he also suffered for a while because of this surname. At that time, the thing he was most afraid of was hearing the teacher call him in class.
Every time he read his name, he could hear the ridicule from his tablemates, and he really wanted to find a crack in the ground to get into.
During that time, he also cried and cried to change his name and his mother's surname. But every time he mentioned it, he would be "beaten once" by his father.
As he grew older, Bao Dad's skin gradually thickened, and he was finally able to reconcile with his surname.
But now, this surname has reached his precious daughter, and he can't help but worry again.
After all, the girl's family is thin-skinned, and the word "testicle" may even involve the child's sex education, and none of them dare to name the child easily.
If it is not achieved well, they are also worried that those children with poor character will use this surname to open their daughter's "yellow tone".
The discussion was fruitless, so Bao Dad had to turn to Uncle Li, a knowledgeable retired teacher next door. Uncle Li thought about it, so he suggested that Zhou Li name the child "Testicle Smile", and the nickname was "Laughing".
He hopes that his children will be able to smile and maintain an optimistic and positive attitude at all times, especially when facing his unique surname.
In addition, "testicle" is homophonic with "funny". Even if other children ridicule them with their surnames, Xiaoxiao can also use their own names to "laugh at themselves" and "blacken themselves" in a timely manner, so that others can laugh and laugh.
When Zhou Li and his wife heard it, they thought that this name was very good, and decided to use this name immediately.
In fact, in addition to the special surnames that will bring trouble to children, those names that parents choose because of negligence or whims will also make children embarrassed in their future lives.
Choosing a name for a child is a very important and particular thing, and parents must avoid the following types of words.
There is "particularity" in naming children, and parents who are choosing names must pay attention to avoid these 4 types of words
Category 1: "Too big"
Chinese like the golden mean, and many parents are taboo to give their children's names too big, for fear that their children's first impression is arrogant and aggressive.
There are also some fastidious parents who are worried that their children will not be able to suppress such a big name. But there are also parents who always express their expectations of their children through their children's names.
For example, many parents like to use words such as "Qian", "Tian", and "Emperor" when naming their children, and some parents even name their children "Longteng" and "Superstar".
When children are young, they don't feel their own names, but when they are sensible or enter school, they will feel these big names, which brings a lot of invisible pressure to themselves.
When a child's strength does not match the height of the name, it will inevitably attract ridicule from others and put them in an embarrassing situation.
At this time, the name will no longer be the child's code name, but an invisible ruler, always judging the child's words and deeds.
Category 2: Names that contain rare characters
Parents in the seventies and eighties hated their rustic names.
Therefore, when they have children, they have a soft spot for a certain type of name, such as "Zihan", "Zirui", "Zichen", "Zixuan" and so on.
At this time, you will find that as soon as your child goes to school, there are as many as five or six students in the class who have different names with the same name as your baby.
When it comes to post-90s parents, they choose names for their children, neither wanting to be tacky nor following the crowd. So, they set their sights on rare words.
They didn't think about whether their children would find it difficult to spell their names, let alone that rare characters could not be recognized in many exam registration systems, and they couldn't even type the input method, which made the children more troubled.
These names with rare characters also have their own halos, and children are often named by teachers because of their strange names, asking them how to pronounce that word or why they chose such a name.
Category 3: Names of Internet celebrity names
If you go to a hospital or a street health center to get vaccinated, and you see the numbered name of the infant vaccination room, you will find that many children's names have an Internet celebrity flavor, such as "Mu", "Mo", "Chen" and other words.
In today's society, traffic Internet celebrities are prevalent. Many parents who like to watch short videos will name their children with the name of their favorite Internet celebrity, thinking that it is a fashion trend.
But they didn't take into account the meaning of the word itself, and just used their own subjective consciousness to give a new meaning to a certain word.
For example, the original meaning of "island" is a small island trapped in the middle of the ocean and unable to survive. But many Internet celebrities like to use "Yu" to give themselves stage names, such as "Nianyu", "Yuchen" and so on.
Looking at the exquisite faces of Internet celebrities and the hundreds of thousands of video likes, many parents are very excited about such a name, and they also want to arrange one for their precious children. Actually, it's just a nondescript joke.
Category 4: Names of polyphonic words
Bao Ma Niannian said that before the baby was born, she gave the child a good name, named Han Yunjiao (níng).
The original meaning of this word is that the child belongs to the rabbit, and the word has a grass prefix, which means that the child will not worry about eating and drinking in the future.
Originally, Nian Nian thought that his name was quite good. As a result, a few days ago, I went to the hospital with my baby in my arms, and the hospital's calling system pronounced 苧 (níng) as (zhù).
Only then did she know that the word was a polyphonic word.
But now that the child's birth certificate, household registration book, children's mutual aid, and medical insurance card have been completed, changing the name at this time, the procedures and processes are too troublesome, and Niannian is entangled in this.
In fact, there are some calling systems that only use one pronunciation, and children will still feel embarrassed to hear that their name is mispronounced in public, even if it will not be noticed by everyone.
Therefore, when we choose a name for our child, we must try to avoid polyphonic words.
Write at the end
A good name can bring confidence to people and deepen the first impression of others, while a bad name will not only make children the talk of others, but also affect the growth of children.
Therefore, when parents choose a name for their child, they must think more and read it several times, and they must not name their child at random on a whim. Otherwise, it is likely to bring a lifetime of troubles to the child.
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